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I'm off to India in September. Going to Delhi, Varanasi and
Agra then down to Kerala & Tamil Nadu. Any advice on
travelling on your own in India?. I would love to hear from
you. Post a message and I'll be checking back here. Thanks
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Have any women travelled in Israel alone?
I am leaving in 3 weeks and am a little bit anxious. I have
travelled alone in Asia, but I think the Middle East will
be a bit harder.
Please tell me your experiences, and any women-friendly p
[laces etc.
Thankyou./
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Hello All.
I am planning a trip to Italy leaving Dec. 29. Two weeks
traveling through-out the country. I have yet to find a
sincere traveling companion.
any takers....
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I've finally chosen my destination for this summer.. Cuba &
Jamaica. Can anyone recommend budget hotels/guesthouses on
these islands and what places to visit and which not too?!
What places are considered NOT safe for a solo traveling
female? Thanks in advance.
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hi. i'm going to israel last week of august till first week
september. i'll be coming from manila, philippines and it's
my first time to travel this far (besides my hongkong trips
which are basically for work). my israeli friend suggested
that i buy my ticket in thailand for cheaper rates than
buying it directly here in manila. is this so ? which
airline is good enough but reasonably-priced ? LP suggested
that i shouldn't have my passport stamped when i enter
Israel. does this still hold true ?
by the way, i'm planning to stay at least 3 days in thailand
before flying to israel. any recommended places to stay,
restaurants to eat in and things to do ? i still haven't
pegged the exact dates of my travel, but most probably i'll
be in bangkok, thailand within third week of august. wanna
meet up ?
i read the posts here in Thorn Tree and i've noticed that no
one has mentioned going to the philippines. i haven't
travelled around my country much but i can surely recommend
for you beach-lovers to go to Boracay. i can give you
advices because Boracay's practically my home second to
Manila. sure some of you have heard that it's one of the
best beaches in the world. in fact, i'm on my way there
again this weekend for a 4-day rest. i've been going there
once/twice a year. i promise you pristine sugary-white
sand, crystal clear water, diverse gastronomic pleasures,
water sports, snorkling, diving and lots of friendly people.
and, not to forget, it's truly safe even if you're alone.
trust me, a usual lone-traveller.
hoping for an immediate rep
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Does anybody know if there are showers available for the
use of travellers at Singapore Airport? I am stopping
there for an hour or so en route from Australia to Spain,
and I'd love to be able to freshen up at this half way
(roughly) point!
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Dear All,
I've been getting all the usual medical advise from the
doctors about vaccinations, pills and safe sex prior to my
travels. Just wondering, they say take your own condoms, as
the ones available where I'm travelling (thailand, vietman,
malysia, indonesia) are quite likely to be dodgy. However,
wouldn't it be quite bad for a pack from the UK to be
carried around in a racsac in hot humid weather??? What
does anyone else think? Has any one had any problems with
local purchases? You sometimes get the impression that
these medical people are going a bit over the top with
their advise. Surely you can tell from how the shop seems
as to how dodge it might be?
Don't get me wrong, I'm not going for major sex sessions, I
just want to be safe when the need might arise (no pun
intended!!).
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I'm thinking of traveling to The Grenadines (specifically,
Bequia) with a woman companion. What kind of hassles, if
any, should we anticipate?
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I'm planning a six month trip around SAE, perhaps
tagging N.India / Nepal on at the end, leaving at Xmas 1999.
I'm pretty cool about travelling alone, but would like to
hear from all you in the same boat (or plane, rickshaw,
whatever......) who might want a travel companion, at least
for part of the trip. It would also be great to swop
'planning' ideas between now and Xmas.
Anyone interested in conversing? E-mail me at the above!
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I'm planning a trip to south east asia alone, mainly
thailand and malaysia, but info on other se-asia would
be great too. If anyone can please help me out, that
would be GREAT!! I would like to know:
1. what are some places to go (a route that is commonly
travelled by backpackers) and places to stay
2. sites to 'must see' and to stay away from, activities
to do...
3. good cheap places to learn how to dive
4. is there any surfing there?
5. types of transportation available (is it safe?)
If you've travelled around there before and can help me
I would really appreciate any suggestions. I would
love to hear about your experiences you had on your
travels. Please send info to me by email also.
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I'm planning a trip to south east asia and I would like
to know:
1. what are some places to go (a route that is commonly
travelled by backpackers)
2. sites to see
3. good places to learn how to dive
4.
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I'm going to Fiji in December to build houses with Habitat.
I need ideas for fundraising. If you know of any grants
out there for people who are not currently students, please
let me know...and all who read, please send me one dollar
:-) E-mail me and I'll give details...c'mon...it's tax
deductible...I need to raise almost $5,000 for trip and
personal effects.
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i wish to travel in SEA and India/Nepal for several months.
But, I am considerably over-weight. I don't consider myself
unfit, although i could be fitter. i have a few months
until i depart, what is the best way to get fitter and lose
some pounds? Will i "stick out" being a bit larger than
every other backpacker? I am beginning to get a bit self-
conscious about this.
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I do not mean to complain, but I have noticed that the
vast majority of European travelers who come to the
restaurant in which I work (in the US) seem to tip
according to European custom.
This may not seem like a problem at first, unless you
are the server. It seems to me that when travelling to any
country, one should investigate the local customs -
including tipping.
It is my understanding that in many European countries,
gratuity is included in the bill, and anything extra that
is left is a compliment. Otherwise, 10% is the standard
tip for satisfactory service. Please correct me if I'm
wrong. Also, many servers there receive hourly pay, or
some other form of guaranteed wage.
I just wanted to make it clear, on behalf of other
servers in the US, that we are not paid by the hour! If
the customer does not leave us a tip, we don't earn
anything! By law, our employers must pay us US$2.13 per
hour, but for most of us, this goes to taxes. So in the
US, servers work for tips, and tips are our only income.
Please note also that in the US, 15% is the minimum
standard tip for satisfactory service. A 10% tip (which is
what I and other servers tend to receive from Europeans) is
considered a slap in the face - an insult.
I am sure that this is simply a misunderstanding.
Nobody wants to travel to another country and deliberately
insult those who live there. Please spread the word to
others who may not know - at restaurants in the States, a
15% tip is customary, and gratuity is not included in the
bill (except some restaurants will include gratuity for
large parties, in which case you will be notified that
gratuity has been added to the bill).
Just like anyone else, servers work hard for their
money, and we are at your mercy. Please respond if you
have any insights that I may not have taken into account.
(By the way, I know that American travelers do not have the
best reputation for adhering to or even being aware of
local custom, and as a result people just don't like us
very much. This is unfortunate, because obviously we are
not all this way.)
As for myself, I try to be as thorough as I can in
researching local customs before I travel, and only ask the
same in return.
Thank you for your understanding and attention. I
appreciate any comments or questions that you may have.
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I have this dream of living in a little village by the sea and communting no more than half an hour to work in a capital/big city in a Spanish speaking country. The closest I have found to this is a friend who was living in Huanchaco and commuting into Trujillo, Peru.
.
Where else like this do you know of?
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Hi,My friend Sandra and I will go to visit Turkey in Sept.
It's the 1st time for us to visit the Islam.We plan to go
there on Sep. 12 ~ 30.What should we notice in Turkey(I
mean 2 girls in Islam country)? I relly expect the trip.
0ur flight will arrive Istanbul in 23:00, should we book
the accommodation in advance?Please tell us the nice,cheap
and safe place to stay in Istanbul.Thank U!
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I am planning a trip to Europe and thought that instead of
backpacking I might try volunteering. I am avidly interested
in politics, literacy nd environmental issues. Does anyone
have any ideas?
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Hello,
in october 99, I leave Belgium and go for 25 days to
nepal. I've planned to do the Annapurna curcuit en then I
have a few days left for visiting some other nice places.
But it's difficult to know what I have to put in my
backpack. Does somebody can give my advice ?
I'm thinking about doing the trek with an organisation from
Kathmandu, but there are many offices? if you have a
suggestion, or you know a very good one, let me know?
I arrive the 4th october. If you have planned the same
trekking and you arrive the same period, just let me know!
Thanks for giving the advice, and know it's 4 more months
waiting!
Dymfna
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Hi gals--I leave on May 25th and will visit friends
in Athens, then spend about 4 weeks traveling alone in
Greece and Turkey. I plan on checking out a couple of
islands and making my way to Turkey, then going up the west
coast to Istanbul (arriving in Istanbul around June 20th) I
am a 27 year old woman, and while I enjoy the occasional
night out I am more into sighseeing/cultural stuff than
sunbathing and partying. If your trip overlaps with mine and
you have similar interests let me know and we can perhaps
meet up...
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Hi, do you know any good places to stay at to meet other travellers in Hong Kong, China, Korea, Japan etc? Nice, friendly, cheap with possibilities to meet other backpackers to hook up with for parts of the trip.
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I will soon leave for a 9-12month trip, and I'm wondering
what people do about their contact lenses while traveling. I
use 2-week disposables, and while I will take my glasses,
I'm not going to switch to wearing them instead. Has anyone
travelled through not very developed areas of Africa and the
Middle East with contacts? Is it possible to buy saline
solution there? Thanks for your advice.
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No offence intended, but couldn't this be called the
Insecurity branch? How many variations on the theme do we
get? "I have my ticket and am on my way out the door for
The Big Trip and am I out of my mind? My folks and friends
think I am insane. I am afraid of what is next" I suppose
there is therapy in expressing these fears. The only answer
you will ever get here is encouragement and "Go for it
Girl!" Do you really think someone will say to you "No you
child, go back to that boyfriend and that miserable job and
forget about travelling. It is a very scary Lonely Planet
out there". This branch is really wonderful and by far the
most gentle and helpful, I think. I am not trying to be a
troll here. Do most young women harbor these fears? By the
numbers here, I am afraid that they do.
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So the ticket is finally booked, 6 months to go!
India/Nepal for 5 glorious months. has anyone ever dreamt
of the great big trip, started ticking things off their
list of "to do's" and then when it finally seems it is
coming together, you wonder if you should be doing this at
all? i mean, you will be dropping everything in your life
back home for 5 months, leaving your loved ones behind etc
etc. maybe never see them again, and for what?
I know i am going through a temporary lapse of
concentration, i can't help feeling this way. i want to go
travelling more than anything, but sometimes i lose sight
of my goals.
my question is do you think the "idea" of travelling to
somewhere exotic is more exciting to tell people than
actually sitting down and thinking about what you are about
to do.
i think i am just getting cold feet, all the nerves and
everything, i just had to write it down.
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ok,
I leave for nepal Oct 30th this year untill january of 2000
and am quite the planner. I was wondering if anyone can
give me advice for the kind of boots, clothes, ect I
should consider. I am one who does try to pack light. (more
on my back and less in the pack) but i am driving myself
crazy.....we only plan to cruise the country, no everest
climbs, or anything like that, just walking and wandering
about, with as much local interaction as possible. I do
plan on wearing skirts/dresses a good portion of the time.
but I am at quite the loss for what to bring that will be
the most beneficial, help!!
any advice will be great...anyone been there that can help
me out.
thanks ladies
may
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The plane is coming in for a landing...in a country you've
never been to before. You don't know your way around, you
don't speak the language, and you are going it solo!? This
is the one part of travelling round the world on my own
that terrifies me. I'm sure others have experienced this
first hand. I'd love to hear your stories, to relieve my
nerves..
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WORK AND TRAVEL
Do anyone have suggestion to give me?
I'm looking for to travel and earn money by travelling as I
wish to do it for at least 5/6 months a year...
Please write me about your experiences.
Thanks
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HI!
Has anyone here done any overland trips from London to
SE-Asia with Encounter? Are they good value for money? I'm
thinking of doing the Classis Overland in next Februry. Any
info welcome!!!
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I've booked a flight to BKK early June and now after hearing loads of horror stories from people around me and on certain web sites and even guide books I'm starting to wonder if I haven't made a huge mistake. I'm not a backpacker, it's either my case on wheels or a large bag, and I tried to find a decent safe hotel but I'm not sure now about loads of little things ie-the best way to get from the airport without any hassle as I'm arriving early evening.I know this maybe sounds really silly compared to other peoples queries but I've never been to Asia before and I'd like to get the most out of my holiday. How did others get on ? Please let me know both good and bad. Thanks for all your help.
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Trip of train.
It has been long time I am confused by a saying from a famous Chinese author. "Life seems like a train that you have to
through one station by another. Your will meet many passengers and companies. You will experience what you can not expect
and see marvelous, changeable and fancy view that you can not catch till you get off."
Until I had a trip by train, I eventually realize his perspective. I got company with some passengers who came without
expecting and left without waving hands. I saw some people are taking a rest silently as some children are playing. Some
people are fascinated in reading whatever they take along with.. Many strange expressions captured my imagination as I
strolled around the train. That seems look familiar and strange. Are they strangers, friends rivals, companies, or just friendly
passengers of life?
I am pleased and disappointed by many magnificent, marvelous and fantastic views that showed and disappeared immediately.
I was awaked that I should enjoy every nice moment before it goes by. Catching every thing coming to me is important in my
short life
As I got off the train , I thought that if life seems like a train, I am inside or outside of it? Which destination am I going? I left
those puzzle questions at that station.
The destination where I am is the most important. Life here I am is the best. Yahoo!
pixy
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Journey Of Geo Fen
Eventually I have found the place I belong to, where is famous for mysterious, magnificent, romantic and spectacular nature
beauty with historical and cultural attractions.
I was appealed by the marvelous view as I got up the slope the picturesque sight of ocean nearby base of the majestic mountain
locates nearby northeast coast of Taiwan. The wall of mist creeps from the sea and slowly swallows the land the lays at the
mountain feet, as it sneaks up over the majesty of the mountain high. The natural scene shows me changeable images as I
continued onward and upward, from a shy lovely bride with misty gauze to a king with glister crown.
GeoFen (in Taiwanese means nine pieces )was named since there were only nine families in this small village . It was
inconvenient to purchased necessity from city because of rough path of mountain. Therefore they ordered everything for nine
pieces from walking businessman. Who used to offer necessities by walking from city through mountains. .
Since people found the golden sad in 1941 the small village boomed by miners and golden dreamers. Chin Dynasty and one
local businessman supported the development of mine for one and half year. Japanese controlled the right of development for
23years during Japanese occupational period. Then turned to a local company for almost 57years for second golden age. From
the most glory period till its decayed by the policy of disadvantage from government, the quantity of gold were mined more
than 693730 Taiwanese g. (around 57810 pound)
Tracing back the most glory period the small village was bloomed by miners, businessmen, visitors and entertainment places
such as liquid club, movie theater , tea housesíKíKíK..
The small village flattered people again by its unique culture 'fantastic view and historical stories since government decided to
make two- days off holiday twice a month.
Before called it a day, I enjoyed the mist kissed my face and imagined dancing with those lights that twinkles the dark of
harbor as I sat on the balcony of a luxurious traditional teahouse. Can you imagine what I felt? That was really an unforgettable
experience that I would love to review.
i would love to share some my experiences of traveling of Taiwan send me e-mail if you are interested. healy@ms11.hinet.net
Pixy Chen
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Spotlight on Ken Ting National Park.
Would you like to have a leisure, stimulating and nature exploring vocation.? Ken Ting National Park offers more than what
you expect,
With all year-round warm climate, crystal sea water azure sky, leisure atmosphere, pure friendly people and various plants, it
attracts people now and then.
I felt being totally released as I approached the south of Taiwan. The peaceful and leisure atmosphere made me relaxing and
comfortable. The twinkling ocean complement azure sky that forms the most beautiful nature scenery. I could not wait to jump
into its arms I am appealed as the sunset made the sea turns in to colorful wonder. What would sunrise is like in the other side
of Park? Let's enjoy it next morning, by car, takes only one-hour distance.
After dinner with local dishes and tasty foods of venders I enjoyed swimming in the clear pool of luxurious hotel with stars
and light dancing on the dark. Nothing is instead of such relaxing feeling. Can you imagine that I could fly high as I enjoyed
drinking after swimming in out door bar at main street of Ken Ting .Where was I? Wherever it was, my heart was content.
When you visit the main park, you would be amazed by more than 5000verious plants and strange type trees. The strange
shape glows on strange path of hill would attract people keep exploring deeply and highly Two magnificent huge rocks stop
plump people to get through as they turn a corner. It shows the nature power that mankind can not conquer. Many senior trees
with unique shape are waving hands to welcome your coming. Plants peal to visitors by its charming and various types. They
are absolutely worth exploring for nature lovers.
Yeah! The main show was coming under the seawater. It was first time I saw the colorful amazing world by my eyes not on
TV. My eyes opened by an extremely marvelous world, I desired to catch those lovely fishes as they swam by me and
gathered to me as I fed them. I would love to learn their excellent skill of swimming and dance with them through those
colorful corals with various shapes. A pretty but dangerous snake swam under me and scared me. Is the most beautiful equal
most dangerous? Hmmmm beware being close with me. * _^
If snorkeling and scuba diving can not satisfy you, there are many stimulating sea activities that you would never like to end the
day. if you are afaid of ocean bu eager of water activity . Water World offers safer water stimulation that would satisfy you by
in- door surfing divingíKíKíK.
After exciting activity lay back on the greenery divot in front of lighthouse the another landmark of Ken Ding National Park.
And make dream of sailing on Pacific ocean, Buss Fiord and Taiwan Fiord gathering..
Visiting the nearest town before leaving is another intriguing experience to culture lovers. It reminded me to think about a
famous folk song that shows the pure country and friendly people in this down town. If you hate living in the civilization, here
is one of your choices. .
if you need more information about Taiwan . please feel free to send a mail to healy@ms11.hinet.net
Pixy Chen
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Windy City
Blend of modern high tech, traditional cultures, mutilating activities, a variety of architectures, gourmet cuisine and advantages
of investment appeal people around Taiwan and abroad for work, business and exploring the unique culture.
Hsin Chu City earned its nickname " Windy City" by one side near ocean with mountains on the others that form wind circling
in the city time to time.
One of the attractions I would like to introduce first is City Wall that was built 170years ago by handed with ancient material
from Mainland China with cannel surrounded for protecting people from pirates. The hard work lasted for more than ten years
supported by government and four affluent folks. Unfortunately there is only one of four gates maintains because of city
enlarging. The magnificent architecture with traditional style has become the landmark of city and historical exploring for
students and culture loves.
Science Park the main industrial Park of high tech offers abroad range for investors and workers. Products related computer
have been exporting almost all over the world. It also offers lots of advantages for business, professions, and technical
exchanged.
Local and foreign workers have been flocking and call it home.
Can you imagine having tea in a peaceful quiet atmosphere with soft music, fragrance flavor, romantic lanterns and traditional
decorations? The refreshment feeling in a teahouse is totally different from experience in the coffee shop. Enjoy having tea
with little damson in a traditional teahouse and exploring different culture with me.
In the central of city, there is a well-known temple flatters citizens and people around the Taiwan by its magic power from a
legend and delicious traditional cuisine.
It is said Chen Fung Ye the Buddha had ever saved a lord of Ching Dynasty in a serious storm. The lord did not recognized
the
Buddha until he visit the temple .the legend appeal people around Taiwan for seeking protecting in spirit.
Some cuisine in the temple is unique that you can not find at any other place in the world. The flavor and strange style would
make visitors mouth-watering and forgetting diet to enjoy tasting such attractive cuisine. MmmmmmíKíK..
Gu Chea Peak is a place where you can not miss for exploring culture and treasures.
One affluent statement used to house treasures in his chain for leisure afternoon.
It has been open to public for sharing ancient collections to culture lovers.
Enjoy excising with fresh air and songs of birds in the early morning at Eighteen Top Mountain would soar your spirit; gazing
sunset with breeze kissing your face on the harbor and playing kites with lovely children content your heart.
Outdoor concert in front of Culture Center: fascinating plays, indoor concert, international level ballet and cultural shows
entertain people from time to time. Activities are hold by government and private groups make the city energetic.
Welcome to join us with open arms.
I am a local guid. if you need more information . please feel free to send a mail to me.
Pixy Chen.
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I've read its possible to work at pubs in London, which sometimes provide housing, somewhat easily without a work permit. Anyone done this? Are any times of the year easier to find work than others, and when applying do I just not mention the lack of a work visa or is it discussed? What other countries (not just European) are relatively easy to find some kind of employment in? I'd love to end my trip in Europe by NOT coming home! Thanks for any advice
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I was wondering about budget hotels in European cities where
the showers are down the hall. how much privacy is there...
Is it typically a small bathroom, like what you have at
home, so its one person at a time and you lock the door
behind you -or- is it a couple of shower stalls in a large
room, with just a shower curtain for privacy, so anyone can
walk in? anyone have any unfortunate incidents?
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I read these topics of girls who want to quit their jobs and
want to travel: Yes or No?? I would say go for it.
My problem is: I finished uni when I was 25 and I left for
Asia and worked a year in Australia. I'm 28, came back one
year ago, but feel strongly I want to travel again. It's a
passion and I like to work while travelling.
But my fear is that I'm getting older and still didn't work
for a long time, same job etc.
Suddenly I feel a clock ticking. Is it time to start the
serious thing?? I'm free to go, but scared the longer I stay
away, the harder it gets to come back home, the older I get
not that much experience in jobs, so it might be hard to
find a job, bla bla etc. The circle continues.
For me it's a dilemma at the moment. Hard to make a choice,
makes me depressing. Ok, I just like to hear from all these
travellers. For sure some will find the same dilemma.
Happy travels.
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Hi, I posted this on the SEA-mainland site, so if you
responded there, thank you.
I'll be honeymooning in Malaysia and Thailand this summer
for a month (backpacking), and I was wondering if any ladies
would like to share their perspectives for my soon to be
wife. I've travelled SEA before, but this will be her first
time in SEA, and would particularly like to know
what to prepare for as a female. Any advice for her on
useful items to bring that we might not have thought of?
Any things she should be concerned/cautious of? Any things
she should look forward to as a first-timer? Thanks a bunch.
I'm not worried much about safety, just want her to hear
a female's perspective outside of the things I tell her.
Incidentally, she's very much looking forward to it, her
only worry is getting sick while we're travelling!
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Hi everybody,
I have this personal question. In a few months my friend
and I are going to Australia and Fiji. We really want to go
diving but I am a little bit worried about sharks and
having your period. I know this sounds crazy but maybe
someone can give me an honest answer?
Thanks anyway!
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hey, does anyone know of any nice backpacker place that i
can stay in veitnam? which are the beautiful places that are
the must-sees? do i need to learn vietnamese to communicate
effectively? help!
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I've got a similar post over on "Your Choice", but would
like to get a female perspective on it: I've just been over
to the Salon Magazine site, and a guy there has published
his list of the ten best travel books of this century. I'd
like to hear your opinions of the books he has chosen, and
your nominations for the best travel book written by a
woman.
Here comes the list:
1) "The Snow Leopard," by Peter Matthiessen.
2) "Journeys," by Jan Morris.
3) "A Short Walk in the Hindu Kush," by Eric Newby.
4) "Coming Into the Country," by John McPhee.
5) "The Great Railway Bazaar," by Paul Theroux.
6) "In Patagonia," by Bruce Chatwin.
7) "Video Night in Kathmandu," by Pico Iyer.
8) "No Mercy," by Redmond O'Hanlon.
9) "Two Towns in Provence," by M.F.K. Fisher.
10) "Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance," by Robert
M. Pirsig.
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OK, I'd written a few months ago needing advice of what to
pack/bring with me, as I was planning on moving to Mexico.
I'd already arranged for a job, had my plane ticket, etc.
Well, unfortunately I had some problems two weeks before
leaving, my boss in Mexico was very understanding and even
encouraged me to postpone moving there and go for a holiday
in the meantime. So, that is what I did, postponed the
move by two months, and went there for one week holiday
(Playa del Carmen, south of Cancun). All has been fine,
I've been able to take care of issues here and save money
to move there. Well, on Monday I call my boss in Mexico to
tell him I've made the reservation to come down on June 4th
and start work. On Monday everythign was ok, but then he
called me yesterday to tell me that the season has been
really slow (I was to be working in a hotel) and that they
can't afford to hire me right now and that there isn't
enough work for me there right now. I was shocked, b/c
I've talked to him several times and all has always been
fine, and I was always under the impression that the hotel
was full. Actually of that I'm pretty sure, b/c it's a
nice hotel, I've been there twice in the last 6months and
each time it was completely booked.
Anyhow, now I'm without a job. He's said he's going to
reimburse me the plane ticket (which I haven't bought yet)
and that I can use it to go down there on holiday. I'm not
too tempted by that, and as far as him reimbursing me, I
simply don't believe it. I've quit my job here in the US,
though if I wanted to stay I could, it's a waitressing job.
But I dont' want to stay, I've been there for too long as
is, and I'm ready to move on with my life. But my last day
is in less than two weeks, and now I have no job or plans.
I'm very dissapointed, I was really looking forward to
moving and starting a new job in Mexico, learning Spanish
fluently, etc. Also, my best friend from France has been
planning on moving there with me, she was to come one month
later than me, when I'd have been settled and live with
me. She was then going to look for a job on the spot.
I don't know what to do now. I feel somewhat responsible
for my friend, but I don't know if I want to go there if I
don't have a job. I liked it when I was there on holiday,
and this job was offering good possibilities and benefits
(insurance, housing), but I'm not so sure I want to move
there, and look for a job, and most likely start off doing
bar or reception work. If I'm to do that, there are other
places I'd rather go.
I'm trying to plan my next move and I'm at a loss. I'm no
longer sure of what to do. I have friends in DC I could go
stay with for the summer and find work there and save up to
do something, but what? I'd love to go to Chile or
Argentina, but don't know about the problems of finding
work on the spot. Or, I'd love to return to Europe for the
summer, but finding work there is challenging.
Also, how much responsibility do I owe to my friend? She
won't move there without me, and now that I've had a bad
experience with Playa, it's turned me off.
I know I'm rambling, and so I'm not even going to go into
the embarassment of having to tell everyone, including
work, that I no longer have a job in Mexico! I'm just
hoping for a little insight from others. Thanks for any
words and suggestions of what to do next. Oh, yeah, I'm
24, single and not particularly looking to find a "real"
job and settle down at this point in my life.
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In preparation for my first trip abroad, I have been impressed and very engouraged by the posts here but am starting to wonder...is the support as readily given when facing others on the road as when safe behind a computer screen? Let's face it - many females get quite catty vs. friendly when dealing with unfamiliar chicks, and the last thing I want is to deal with the attitudes of women who act like we're all competing to be god damn-prom queen. (unfortunatly a common practice among Americans) So what are relations REALLY like out there? Hoping for the best and thanks for your thoughts!
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Well my trip is 2 weeks away and I am going to El Salvador.
I am very excited but getting nervous, too. Does anyone have
any tips on how to look confident and self assured even when
you are a wreck inside??? I don't want to stick out like a
sore thumb any more than necessary (as it is I am
blonde/blue eyes).
Any experienced travellers that have any advice for a
beginner?
Any advice for hiding money? Is in your bra a good idea?
Is it best to steer away from casual conversations with men
to avoid trouble?
I hope my 'instincts' will kick in once I leave home to keep
me out of trouble.
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A title requesting genuine, sincere and/or honest advice
posted by various girls - always in capital letters, mostly
about sexual dilemmas. I find it difficult to contain my
cynicism. I am sad that a person in true pain and/or grave
circumstances may not receive the support that this site
has potential to give because of such thoughtlessness.
Meanwhile I will continue to give my attention and care to
such posts in the hope that it may offer aid to [any]
reader.
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A warning for woman travellers planning to do jungle tours
from Rurrenabaque in Bolivia. The guide Negro (I┤m sorry
but I┤m not sure of his surname) continues to drug and rape
women who participate in his tours. On the final night of
the journey he offers participants ┤pills┤to help them with
their mosquito bites. These will either be sleeping tablets
or valium, depending on whether you are the chosen victim or
not. Women then awake in the middle of the night to find
they are being assaulted, but so groggy from the valium that
there is little they can do. Some women are not sure if
they have been raped or not. Negro then disappears into the
jungle until things settle down. The Bolivian police are
reticent to help.
There are two guides in Rurre called Negro. Negro the
serial rapist is highly recommended in Lonely Planet┤s
Bolivia guide. The other Negro has a missing finger and he
is a competent guide.
I hope others will also join me in encouraging Lonely Planet
to somehow enter an erratum or similar into their Bolivia
guidebook which is still for sale. People continue to use
Negro as a guide as he is highly recommended in the book,
and there is no information available to the contrary in
Rurre.
Viki Cramer
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here goes..
I have a younger brother with severly handicapped and needs
constant attention. I've got amazing parents who do their
best for him and as I'm still living at home I usually look
after him 3 or 4 nights out of the week.
However I have always wanted to spend a year or so
travelling and working abroad especially around s.e. asia.
I know I'll miss my family dearly and will worry constantly
when I'm away, but my main fear is that I'll find a place
where I want to settle down or meet someone special while
I'm travelling.
I've travelled quite a bit but my maxium stint abroad is 2
months.
While I feel guilty about leaving my parents to cope with
my brother alone while I'm gone I am really afraid that I
will resent him if I go away and fall in love with a
place. But there again if I don't go and I become his main
carer I will probably never again get the chance to go away
on my own
.
I'd love to hear from someone else who's had to make these
choices. And do you think that staying here and going away
for 3 weeks a year would be enough so stave off this
wanderlust??
for anyone who has gone away for a year - is it enough to
know that you'll be spending the rest of your life in one
place or do you always have the yearning for more travel??
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i bet this issue hasn't yet come up here....
i want to take a solo trip throughout s.e. asia. i am a 30-something woman with a significant hearing impairment. in fact, in many situations, i am functionally deaf, although i wear a hearing aid. this alone presents some travel issues, what with insurance, batteries, etc. i can hear a good deal under ideal circumstances, i.e., a quiet room with one speaker. i have functioned pretty well overall, having completed law school and launched a successful career. but so many of the messages i read speak about meeting up with people on the road, how friendly everyone is, eyc. for someone on the periphery of the hearing world, i may be too isolated to realize my travel dream.
i am most isolated in groups of people. i can't follow "noisy" conversations. then, too, i so much want to travel alone and be independent, but if the train-ticket vendor is speaking heavily accented english, i will not understand a single word. what this means is that i will need the help of strangers for many more things that would someone without a disability. i cannot hear alarms. how would i know it's 6 am and time to get up to catch my flight? i can't hear boarding announcements. immigration clerks generally think i am stupid or just uncooperative. and i always have a frind or family member who jumps in and acts as my ears. are all these "nice" travellers i read about going to be willing to assist me in such situations? finally, it's hard to just shoot the breeze with other travelers sharing road stories.
ok. there's my dilemma. even good old american soil can be a scary, isolating and "lonely planet" for a person with a communication disability. maybe i am kidding myself thinking i can trek solo all over asia! what say you? thanking you in advance for any encouragement you can offer, including the encouragement not to go it alone if that's what you think.
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What have you all done about taking pictures while
traveling? I have an old, beloved Nikon F2 (circa 1974)
with three lenses that takes beautiful pictures. I also
have a little point and shoot that takes decent (but not
awesome) pix as well. I can't afford to buy anoy more
equipment.
I'll be traveling Guatemala, Hounduras and Nicaragua for 10
weeks. Do I dare take my nice camera? What experiences
have others had with cameras being stolen, especially in
Central America?
thanks!
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I am a tall 28 year old blonde arriving alone in Bangkok
late at night (10:45 pm) in July. Where is a good place to
stay overnight? I will be departing the next day at 1 pm.
I want something nice, clean and safe for around $25-$50 US
(1000-2000 baht). I am wary of the cheap guest
houses--arriving so late, I want to feel confident that the
place will be acceptable--it's not like a morning arrival
when I can walk to another location. Right now I am
considering La Residence (found 990 baht rate), the Siam
Intercontinental (found 2000 baht rate), and the Atlanta
(expect 500-900 baht rates). I think they are all pretty
different--does anyone have any experience with them? I
want fairly easy access to the airport but somewhere where I
can see something quickly in the morning.
How should I get to the hotel? Are buses etc. still running
or should I take a taxi?
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Can anyone give me info on travelling in the USA as a lone
female traveller. Are Greyhound coaches safe for me to use,
because the way some of mates are acting my lfe is at risk!
Also are there any do's and don'ts for menotice of when I
visit New York. Plus if anyone wants to meet up with me
while I'm there ( second week in August) please e-mail me.
Thanks.
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Kim you want information about train advice on europe,you
have to go to end of list and Create a new topic not add on
to someone else's post. No one will see you query under my
topic.
Joanne
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Okay, this is quite an embarrasing (but legit) enquiry. Due
to all the hassles encountered when travelling while having
periods, I've been thinking about going on the pill &
skipping the sugar pill section to avoid having my period.
However, I was wondering just how doctors prescribe the
pill (in Australia). Do you have to have some kind of
examination? I am still a virgin and so do not want to have
to go through through any sort of internal examination.
Thanks in advance.
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My friend and I are two young Japanese women whom are going
to Santa Ana early June. We are both having troubles finding
a host family. Can anyone recommend a youth hostel, or
budget hotel in the Santa Ana area, California. Anything
would be appreciated.
Thanks in advance.‰
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For my list of useful websites for backpackers and travellers and tourists and whatever you want to call yourself... FOLLOW this topic.
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It might soun stupid but I want your advice. My boyfriend is
from Saudi Arabia.He is great and want's me to marry
him.What if he gets again later after going back to his
country?
Is it true that they still have harems in Saudi Arabia?Any
idea how it is like to share one man.When they make love in
the harem,do they do it together or is one woman "done" at a
time?
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i've stifled my wanderlust for two decades now. i've done the "working professional" thing and, as the age of 40 looms all-too-close on my horizon, i've decided to pick up and GO!! i'm gathering lots of helpful tips and motivation here, but most people looking for travel companions seem to be under 30. i don't mind roughing it, but my truly hard-core backpacking days are behind me. has anyone got suggestions for soliciting travel companions in the 35-40 range? i'd like to take a 12-month rtw trip, budget accommodations, visiting, at a minimum, nepal, india, thailand, indonesia, new zealand, and any points in between. all ideas/suggestions/encouragement welcome. i live in new york city and would like to depart sometime within the next 6-12 months. e-mail contact is best.
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okay so I'm sure this has been asked before, and I was
planning on checking with my doctor anyway, but just thought
I'd solicit some advice from people who may have done this
already: is it okay, if you're on The Pill, to take it
continuously so that you don't have a period for say... 2
months or so? what is the maximum amount of time you should
go without a period? It seems just wrong to mess with your
body like this, but a whole heckuva lot easier, esp. if
you're traveling in remote areas where 'normal facilities'
aren't available (like trekking in the himalayas for example)
thanks in advance...
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Hi everybody!
I'm travelling to Jordan, Israel and Egypt this summer and I
need some help from all of you who were to Middle East.
Here's the thing: I prefer LP guidebooks (I'm used to them
for once) over Let's Go ones. However, LP does not have the
updates since at least 1997 for the Middle East (I know that
there are some updates on LP site - but unfortunately not
for Jordan yet!!!), whereas Let's Go has a new guidebook out
for 1999.
Are there any critical changes in prices and hostels and
stuff that would really affect me if I stick to LP from
1997?
Thanks for your help, Em
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I have just broken away from my boyfriend and would like to
take a trip to Asia specialy India and Malaysia. Is it safe
to have sex with Asian men? Are they good ? Do,they use
condoms. I need honest advice.
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I have a friend from in India who is in Malaysia till
September.If you need advice,company or board he can help
you.You can get in touch with me.I have spent a great time
with him.He took me through all sorts of experiencies and
had interesting anecdotes.Just leave your message and e-mail
address.
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is it still okay to visit Calauit and the beaches in June?
Is it rainy and all that?
thanks.
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I am going to UK and Europe in summer 2000 and the idea of organised bus tours does not appeal. However I haven't travelled before and would appreciate advice on staying in hostels vs B&Bs for the mature traveller (over 50). I would prefer to drive in the UK and use trains or buses in Europe. What do you say?
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Hi I am interested in some information from other
travellers.
I am 22 and really wanting to leave my boring office job and
go see some of the world. I would like to go to the UK and
work and travel. I would like to know about the costs of
living in England and how easy it is to find work etc.
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Hello! I know the issue of long distance relationships (LDR)
has been done to death but here goes: How long have you
waited for someone in an LDR? Did they ever cheat on you or
did you ever cheat on them? How long were you dating before
one of you went off travelling or returned to their own
country, for eg? How long did the LDR last? Why did you
split up or are you still together? Any beautiful stories? I
have a great, busy life (so I'm not too dependant or
desperate etc) but I'm pining away at the moment for my
partner and I just want to hear from people who have played
this waiting game and have good (or even sad) stories to
tell! (I don't want to ask my partner to return earlier than
planned because this travelling stint is very important &
much-awaited and I don't want to do the ol' "stifling"
trick.) Anyway, I'm rambling ........
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I met my fiance several years ago in Cuba and are now
planning on getting married.
My fiance is the most wonderful man I have ever known - he
is a gentleman, intelligent and incredibly funny! My
question here is: Has anyone here married a man from
Cuba? Was the transition to a new country extremely
difficult? Are you still happily married? My fiance
actually wanted me to move to Cuba as he has a very good
job there (out of the question!) I love my fiance very much
and want him to move to North America and make the
transition as smooth as possible.
Anyone have any similar experiences/stories?
Thanks!
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hi. o.k., i have planned the trip. 6 months to go. all i
have to do is save some money and i am off. pretty simple?
not quite. When i sit in a corner by myself and listen to
what i really want - it always comes back to travel.
when i think of how much money i will be spending (i will
be blowing my entire savings) and then coming home broke,
my stomach churns. i know that this travelling experience
will be with me forever, and will be worth the amount of
money 10 times over, BUT i can't help feeling this way.
then there is the issue of my non-hippy parents whose dream
for me is to have a career and a house asap. they are not
the travelling type who just throws everything in the air
and follow their heart. they consider my decision to travel
half way around the world for 6 months to be totally
immature and irresposible. should i just say sorry and see-
ya and hope for the best. i have tried explaining but they
don't get it. what should i do.
p.s. i am not compromising my trip for them, i just want to
leave with them being really happy for me.
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Hi Ladies...I just had a quick question about Africa. Has
anyone here actually travelled through it without taking a
Safari? I don't mean this to sound silly, I'm just not
sure how to word it...I've travelled through Europe and GB,
but that was easy...trains, buses etc., but what is it like
in Africa?
[Posts on this topic: 4. Latest post: Fri 21 May, 6:15].
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Am I totaly insane, but in less than 10 days I leave the
U.K.....
My trip is quite extensive, but the first leg is giving me
lots of grief. I plan to travel independantly(ish) from
Bangkok to Singapore by train in about a month.(I fly to
Brisbane on 24th June)
Although I'm physically and mentally prepared, and have
read extensively I'm incredibley apprehensive! I need real
advice, theres only so much you can read in a guide book.
I'm young and inteligent,but still bloody vunrable.
It would be great if anybody had some sound advice or
warning, or even better if there's someone who would like
to meet up. (No axe murderers please)
Thanks
Excited but secretly shitting my pants!! - Hannah.
P.S. I'm sure that SEA is really stunnig, but I'm a
painter so if there's somewhere amazing please let me know.
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Just wondered...going to SEA soon. Should i bother buying a
mosquito net AND covering myself in repellant or just use
the repellant? Will it make any difference ?
Cheers!!
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Does any one recommend any Spanish schools in CR.
Specifically I am considering Centro Panamerico de Idiomas.
Please help!?!?!
[Posts on this topic: 3. Latest post: Sat 22 May, 20:35].
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I am planning a trip to last six months. This trip will take place in 2003. Iam planning on taking my family, wife and three children. My kids will be 14, 12 and 7. We would like to go somewhere french speaking, although we are open to all suggestions. Somewhere similar to, say, Goa would be nice. I've been to India twice and would perfer to go to some other contry this time. Money is a factor, so somewhere cheap. I welcome e-mails with suggestions.
Regards from the great Canadian Prairies
Robert Bruce
Winnipeg, Manitoba
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Hi! I'm going to Africa soon with my boyfriend and so will
be taking tablets for malaria. It seems that most (if not
all) of the tablets interfere with the contraceptive power
of the contraceptive pill. What have other people used as a
contraception while on malaria pills? So far my boyfriend
and I have to come the conclusions that condoms don't seem
that practical while you're on safari and that unless we
can come up with a better method abstinence for the month
we're there might have to be the go. Thanks.
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In August my husband an I are planning a trip somewhere with
our two boys, age 6 and 1 and a half. We were thinking
about Bali or Thailand. Is there anyone out there that has
gone to either place with small children? I am particularly
concerned about vaccinations and my kids health while
travelling. Any good beach spots, not too pricey? Any
info. you have to share would be great.
[Posts on this topic: 3. Latest post: Fri 21 May, 0:49].
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I'm about to leave on a six-month adventure around SE Asia. I'd like to hear anyone's comments on using the new Eagle Creek (or others) backpacks with wheels vs just a good-quality pack. My back isn't the strongest, and I love the idea of being able to roll it around when possible, and putting on my back when necessary. How often am I really going to have to carry it, and isn't it worth getting the one with wheels for the majority of instances? I'd appreciate your comments.
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Pro-choice and anti-choice
Regardless this is wrong. Read On...
It has been revealed in Australia that a chinese woman,who
was 38 weeks pregnant was forced to have an abortion in
China after being deported from Australia cause she already
had a child as this was contrary to the one child policy of
the chinese government...
Apparently, the lady in question pleaded with the
Australian authorities to let her stay because she knew that
when she got back to China that would be the end of the
baby. The Aust govt got assurances from the Chinese govt
that the woman would be fine and the baby not harmed, and
like the dumb fuckas that we are, we believed them.
The woman was sent back and the baby was terminated 10 days
before delivery....
I know this is a travel site, but the government of China
are very sick and evil creatures...
it's a shame that there leaders weren't aborted themselves !
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I have just found out from my boyfriend that I am unusual
(he thinks) in that I don't climax though penetration alone.
I know this is a personal subject, but now I'm paraniod that
I am not 'right' in bed ! I half don't quite believe him as
well though and think he may have had some 'fakers' on his
hands or his penis !! I really enjoy sex and have no
difficulty in climaxing, by oral or manual stimulation, but
I can't imagine having a 'big' clitoral orgasm thru
penetration alone. Don't get me wrong I have what I call
'vaginal' orgasms thru penetration, but not big earth
shattering clit ones. Am I abnormal, do you all come thru a
simple thrusting of penis ?
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i want to get away far away from here to do the "finding my
true self" thing. But, i cannot seem to make a simple
decision like, where to go. India, Nepal, Thailand. I don't
know. I have never travelled before, so which would you
recommend?
Length of journey - 5 months
Budget - AU$10,000
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How much does it cost to get a haircut where you live? Is
it customary to tip the stylist? If yes, how much? Don't
forget to write the name of your country. Thanks! =)
[Posts on this topic: 22. Latest post: Sat 15 May, 19:28].
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Last week I saw my GP about depression and am now seeing a
counsellor. I've noticed a few references to depression in
the posts below and would like to hear from anyone who has
suffered in this way. I really would like to travel but
I'm not sure whether I see this as an "out" and whether I
would cope?
[Posts on this topic: 21. Latest post: Tue 18 May, 8:01].
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I am getting married in September and am now faced with the
issue of changing my name to my husbands. I would rather
not have to change my last name as it has been who I am for
the last 30something years. My future husband is furious
about this. He thinks that I am being very difficult and
just trying to stir the pot about this whole thing. I
tried to explain to him how I felt about my identity;
asking how he would feel if he had to take my name (which
he didn't like). Socially, people can call us by his name
and the children would have his surname. Professionally I
want to keep my name. Has anyone been through this? What
ended up happening?
[Posts on this topic: 24. Latest post: Fri 21 May, 11:24].
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Ok girls I have a question for you and I hope you can
answer this sincerely. Ok so here goes: I donÆt like to
shave because my hair on my legs grow really fast ( I would
have to shave every day to keep them smooth) so I now wax
them. Well I am planning to travel to Europe this summer
and I am not sure what I am going to do. I was thinking
about bringing this thing called Epilady which is an
electronic hair remover but IÆm not sure if all youth
hostels have an outlet for itààDo any of you have a
suggestions (perhaps youÆve had a similar problem)
[Posts on this topic: 13. Latest post: Sat 15 May, 18:39].
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At the end of June a girlfriend and I will be travelling
from Barcelona to Venice within a span of 5 days, is this
possible without seeing things in a blurr? What is the
most beautiful place on the south shore of France? How about
Aix en Provence - anyone been there? We plan to travel from
there through Florence and north to Venice. We're also
wondering about Hostels/Hotels through these areas and
dealing with the locals knowing minimal french and
phrasebook Italian!
[Posts on this topic: 4. Latest post: Mon 24 May, 2:34].
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I was wondering if anyone has got pregnant while travelling
? by a partner, or someone you had met while on the road. I
got pregnant by a Brit bloke while he was travelling and he
just left me behind. Has anyone else been in a similar
situation ?
[Posts on this topic: 24. Latest post: Wed 26 May, 6:20].
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I've just invested in a backpack to hold practically
everything during my travels, and the one thing I'd love to
know now is how to pack it properly...
Can any experienced backpackers out there give me some
advice?? (eg. how can I max out the space, what should I
put in first, etc)
I'd love to hear any suggestions - thanks for your help!
[Posts on this topic: 11. Latest post: Tue 18 May, 3:02].
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Hi everyone. I have decided to quit my job and go
travelling..I'm sure many others have done the same. Has
anyone ever regretted doing this when they come home and
are flat broke, pounding the pavement again?
[Posts on this topic: 12. Latest post: Tue 4 May, 2:17].
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Hi ladies, I have a question here, and that is do you prefer
or enjoy sex more or less from a circumcised man? I would
like to know if you have come across more circumcised or
intact penis and which one do you enjoy more? And does the
intact men enjoy sex more than circumcised men?
Hi guys, this question is for you:
i'm wondering how many of you guys are circumcised out
there? I wanna know if you are circumcised and what country
u are from, and when were u circumcised and how old were u
when u were circumcised and how do you feel about being
circumcised. Whether you think being circumcised is good or
not?
It seems that circumcision procedures have changed over time
and different countries have different practices about
circumcision. Hope to hear from u......
[Posts on this topic: 13. Latest post: Fri 14 May, 19:19].
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Does anyone out there realy believe that a man can be
faithful? - do you believe your boyfriend/husband is/has
always been faithful?. If they haven't please tell me your
story.
[Posts on this topic: 21. Latest post: Sun 23 May, 10:13].
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well, in 7 months i have decided to quit my job and go to
india for 5 months. is it normal to have second, even third
thoughts about what i am about to do. most of the time, i
am focused and really want to go, i've bought my backpack
and other stuff, i'm really excited, then in a split second
everything changes and i doubt myself and my reasons for
doing this trip. other than spending ALL that money, i
sometimes really worry about not getting on that career
ladder. i am 21, and have no interest in my job at the
moment, so when i come back i will have to start from
scratch, like go to university etc. by the time i am
finished with that i'll be like 27 or something. how
scary!!!! i guess i should just follow my dream and travel
and the rest i'll sort out later. good approach do you
think?
[Posts on this topic: 11. Latest post: Fri 23 April, 6:07].
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I have a concern that I have not yet seen discussed on the
TREE. I am just in the beginning stages of planning an
around the world trip. My problem is that although I am
quite fit(work out everyday, hike, etc.), I am visibly
overweight. I have pretty much come to terms with the fact
that this is the size my body wants to be, but I wonder if
I'll face much discrimination from other travellers. I
would appreciate some honest (but gentle) opinions. I am
female and 30. Thanks!
[Posts on this topic: 23. Latest post: Mon 24 May, 2:45].
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I have made a decision to quit my job of five years, and go
traveling. I am excited, and anxious, and am starting to
wonder if this was really the brightest thing. Is it
normal to have second thoughts about this? Is 29 too old
to do this kind of thing? Will I fit in? UGH!
I'm worried I'll back out at the last minute.
(I'm also kind of thinking everyone is expecting me to)
[Posts on this topic: 15. Latest post: Sun 9 May, 23:11].
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Okay, I have a very simple but vain girlie question to ask.
What have you done with your hair on long term trips (more
than 4 months)? ... I'm taking off in September for 1+
years on a round-the-worlder. Problem is that I have
copious amounts of wavy hair. If it isn't cut regularly, it
becomes incredibly heavy, hot and bushy. It looks
particularly hysterical in humid weather ... I refer to it
as "Wild Woman Hair"!! SO, what have you guys done? How do
you find someone who could give you a good cut when you're
in a country like China or India???
[Posts on this topic: 14. Latest post: Fri 14 May, 23:31].
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Well, I just did it!
.
I resigned from my job of a year and a half.
I booked a flight to Amsterdam for the 4th of June and I am
just takin' off!!!
.
I am a 24-yr old Canadian gal who has resisted the urge to
travel for *TOO* long! I was greatly inspired by some of
the posts at this very site a while ago and was hoping to
read some more, especially now since they will be relevant
to me! I am going alone to Europe and hope to start there
and go wherever it feels right to go, working as I
need/want to.
.
Any advice or words of encouragement? Anyone doing the
same thing as I am?
.
[Posts on this topic: 12. Latest post: Sat 1 May, 5:36].
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I just stumbled upon the Thorn Tree while doing some
research for a freelance travel brochure I'm writing, and I
think it was a lucky find. I am contemplating (only
contemplating, at this point) making a radical change in my
lifestyle by spending a year in Europe, preferably one of
the warmer, Mediterranean countries (I was thinking about a
little town named Nerja in Spain or Assisi or Cortona in
Tuscany). I've never traveled by myself before and I've
never been to Europe. I've raised 7 children by myself for
the last 20 years. My youngest is 21 and graduating from
college, so I think that a radical change in my life and in
my perspective is either now or never. But, am I
scared?!! I am not wealthy, have only a limited amount of
invested money for my retirement, and will definitely have
to work wherever I go. But I feel a strong compulsion to
change the structure and boundaries of my life. The
structure and boundaries I've been operating in for the
last 25 years do not work so well any more. I think their
time has passed. I'm just not sure what the new structure
should like. I'm attracted to Europe because I think there
is a greater sense of continuity there (maybe it has
something to do with history). I favor a warm climate
because I think it is more conducive to community than
darker, colder climes. I am trying not to think about too
many negatives or even to make too many plans. I want to
get up one month and say this is the time to do it. I've
given myself a 12-month period in which to make the leap.
Am I crazy? Can I survive? Will I find work? Will I get
homesick? Will I stick it out? Will I find some further
dimension of life than I have during these years when I had
to devote myself to family responsibilities? Am I too
old? Do I have too romantic and unrealistic of
expectations? Can anyone help? As you can see, I'm full
of questing and questions and would love it if someone
could respond. Thanks!
[Posts on this topic: 15. Latest post: Wed 5 May, 22:09].
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I am about to go on a year long trip through Asia and will
be carrying one (hopefully only medium sized) backpack
throughout. I have heard there are some companies that make
backpacks that fit women's bodies better. can anyone offer
any suggestions or brands?
thank you!
[Posts on this topic: 14. Latest post: Tue 4 May, 8:01].
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I'm 24 years old, and in less than a week, I'm travelling to
Europe, alone. I'm going for 3 months, I am packed, have my
Eurailpass, and basically everything that I need. I've been
doing reading about the places I want to go, and checking
this site frequently for travel tips. All my friends say
they're jealous of me, and they wish that they were as brave
as I am! The thing is, I really don't feel very brave! I'm
24, and I've never really done anything all by myself
before. I'm actually very scared! I'm the one out of my
friends that always ends up in wierd situations, or gets
lost, or hurts myself. I feel like I'm always fumbling
around. Maybe this is just a confidence issue, but it's
frightening for me to think that I just have myself to
depend on! Outwardly I'm all prepared, but inside I'm kind
of a wreck! This isn't really a question, I guess, but I'm
wondering if anyone else has been in this situation, and if
you have some words of wisdom to offer! I have a hard time
explaining how I feel to my friends. I think a lot of this
has to do with me not wanting to give up control, and the
fact of facing 3 months of not knowing what's in store has
me feeling nervous. Am I being ridiculous? And how do I
cope? (I feel like I'm asking "Dear Abby")
[Posts on this topic: 21. Latest post: Tue 13 April, 13:14].
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I don't know if I am the only one in the world with this
problem but it feels like it!
I am 31 years old and married. Until now I have been content
with my nice comfortable life. My husband and I decided to
start a family and have been trying. Suddenly I don't think
I want to have children, in fact all I want to do is
travel! I am facing a decision between my husband and having
a baby versus travel.
Has anyone else had to make this hard decision?
It seems like I am going against society's values by not
wanting children. My husband desperately wants them and I am
stuck...
[Posts on this topic: 22. Latest post: Fri 14 May, 23:49].
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Has anyone had any bad experiences staying in hostels? I
friend of mine was ina hostel in Amsterdam (I think) when
two Arab guys basically threw themselves on top of her and
she had to scream and struggle before they'd leave her
alone. She spent the rest of the night in her (female)
friend's bed, hoping to God there wouldn't be a repeat
performance. Luckily, there wasn't, but I don't fancy
having to go through anythin lik that myself.
Any anecdotes?
[Posts on this topic: 15. Latest post: Mon 26 April, 5:49].
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I don't know if this is a bit more information than any of
you want, but you all seem like such nice people, and I am
quite worried, so here I go.
I am about to go travelling in South East Asia and I am
worried about getting a nasty bladder infection. I am very
prone to them especially in hot weather. Have any of you
experienced the same thing and do you have any advice?
Any caring advice would be very much appreciated.
Che
[Posts on this topic: 21. Latest post: Sat 1 May, 6:33].
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Wanted to find out from all you solo women travellers about
places you have visited that you found to be female friendly
(ie. safe, respectful, etc.) -- cities, towns, countries or
wherever! Thanks gals! :)
[Posts on this topic: 21. Latest post: Sat 22 May, 3:58].
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I wonder if any one could be of help as i am having a bit of
a dilemma . I have decided to embark on a round the world
trip , i am planning to visit SEA , Australia , New Zealand
and Canada ( with various bits inbetween ). Sounds okay so
far. The thing is my ex boyfriend is planning to leave at
around the same time . I really like the idea of going alone
but to be honest i am a little apprehensive so i was
thinking of starting the journey with him and losing him
somewhere on the way !I have travelled alot before but never
alone. Should i just do it and go solo ???
[Posts on this topic: 19. Latest post: Thu 22 April, 12:32].
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I am a young, first time traveller. For some reason, I have
decided to 'jump in with both feet' and I have decided to go
to Australia and NZ by myself for one to two years. I am
terrified of being homesick for my family and what to do
about it. I have never been away from home for more than
three months. I am anticipating meeting others because I am
relatively outgoing, but I am afraid that I may decide in a
moment of panic and sadness, to pack it in and go home. I am
experiencing already, slight anxiety attacks due to "the
great unknown"! Can you share some inspiration and ideas
about what to do in moments or days of intense homesickness?
Thank you and please....wish me luck!
[Posts on this topic: 13. Latest post: Tue 30 March, 11:48].
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Hi,
I am fascinated by everything to do with travelling, even
though, due mainly to work and financial constraints, I
don't get as many opportunities to travel as I'd like. So,
when I do travel, I try to be as economical as possible,
staying in cheap hotels/hostels, going 2nd class, making
picnics ... you know the general scene.
However, it's a few years since I've been on the road, and
I'm now 35. I know that by a lot of people's standards,
that's still pretty young but I'm worried that I'll feel out
of place in the more budget orientated places (hostels,
restaurants etc). Last time I travelled around Europe (4
years ago) I already noticed that the majority of my fellow
travellers were at least 5 years younger than me and I
suppose I'll feel the age gap even more this time round,
especially as I'll be on my own. As well as that, reading
the Thorn Tree seems to confirm my impression that most
budget travellers are in their early or mid twenties.
So, I'd really appreciate hearing from other woman of about
my age - how likely am I to meet other thirty-somethings,
will I feel "left out", and, last but definately not least,
what are the chances of a holiday romance with a man my own
age?!?
(By the way, I'm planning on visiting the Middle East)
[Posts on this topic: 22. Latest post: Thu 13 May, 6:51].
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Why do my friends and family tell me how awful things are
going to be when I travel alone? None of them have even
gone traveling! How bad are hostels, anyway? Do I seem
like a total flake that I can't take care of myself? Please
tell me that it's THEIR problem, not mine.
[Posts on this topic: 20. Latest post: Sun 16 May, 8:38].
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Q: Why are married women heavier than single women?
A: Single women come home, see what's in the fridge and go
to bed. Married women come home, see what's in bed and go to
the fridge.
Q: How many honest, intelligent, caring men in the world
does it take to do the dishes?
A: Both of them.
Q: Why did the man cross the road?
A: He heard the chicken was a slut.
Q: Why don't women blink during foreplay?
A: They don't have time.
Q: Why does it take 1 million sperm cells to fertilize one
egg?
A: They won't stop to ask directions.
Q: What do men and sperm have in common?
A: They both have a one-in-a-million chance of becoming a
human being.
Q: How does a man show that he is planning for the future?
A: He buys two cases of beer.
Q: What is the difference between men and government bonds?
A: The bonds mature.
Q: Why are blonde jokes so short?
A: So men can remember them.
Q: How many men does it take to change a roll of toilet
paper?
A: We don't know; it has never happened.
Q: Why is it difficult to find men who are sensitive,
caring and good looking?
A: They all already have boyfriends.
Q: What do you call a woman who knows where her husband is
every night?
A: A Widow.
Q: How did Pinocchio find out he was made of wood?
A: His hand caught fire.
Q: How do you get a man to do sit-ups?
A: Put the remote control between his toes.
Q: What did God say after creating Adam?
A: I must be able to do better than that.
Q: What did God say after creating Eve?
A: "Practice makes perfect."
Q: How are men and parking spots alike?
A: Good ones are always taken. Free ones are mostly
handicapped or extremely small.
Q: What is the one thing that all men at singles bars have
in common?
A: They are married.
Man says to God: "God, why did you make woman so
beautiful?"
God says: "So you would love her."
"But God," the man says, "why did you make her so dumb?"
God says: "So she would love you."
[Posts on this topic: 25. Latest post: Fri 21 May, 6:26].
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I am a 21 year old female and graduating from college in
May. I would like to backpack Europe "alone". This is
raising much more controversy than I expected by my family
(especially my dad). So what I want to know is; am I
thinking unrealistically. Is this unsafe. Is it ignorant
for me to think that travelling alone is O.K? I feel
confident in myself and believe that this is something that
I can do, but I dont know how to explain this to my
family. Please any suggestions, opinions, criticisms would
be greatly appreciated. Thanks :)
[Posts on this topic: 30. Latest post: Tue 4 May, 6:06].
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as a first time traveller, i would like to hear from people
who have been to both india and thailand and which one you
would recommend more for an inexperienced person like me.
i plan to travel for 4-5 months and i have read both lonely
planets inside out and i can't decide which country to go
to. i only want to do one at a time so, i would appreciate
any advice on which one is easier to handle and which is
most rewarding and why. thanks heaps
[Posts on this topic: 17. Latest post: Thu 22 April, 12:34].
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OK, we've had books, we've had films so now how about songs!
What are the songs which inspire you and make you want to
pack up your old kit bag and hit the road? Herewith a few
of the naffest suggestions:
Anyone remember that song (early-eighties, I reckon) called
"Caught between the Moon and New York City" OK, I know it's
silly but it really does make me want to hit the Big Apple
asap. Frankie's "New York, New York" has the same effect,
of course!
Another song which gives me the travel bug is another oldie.
I don't know the name but it goes like this "I'm going
where the sun keeps shining/Through the pouring rain/Going
where the weather suits my clothes". It was covered (by the
Beautiful South?) a few years ago and I remember listening
to it before a recent trip to Croatia and it just made me
feel sooo dreamy ...
Add to that another naff eighties song "One Night in
Bangkok" - always calls to mind the adventures I've had
which one my travel (even though I've never been to
Thailand!)
Do let me know what inspire you!
[Posts on this topic: 12. Latest post: Mon 17 May, 19:39].
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I am a 24 year old Canadian girl and I am going to be
travelling to Australia in October or November of this year.
I have done some travelling, but never alone....my quandry
is...am I better to go alone, or should I go with a friend?
This girl and I are college friends, but I don't know if I
could stand her to travel with or live with her. She is not
someone I would consider living with here at home,but will I
feel differently while so far from home? I am worried about
travelling alone and being lonely. I am generally outgoing
and can easily carry on an interesting conversation, but I
have never been away from home for more than a few months
(I'll be gone a year) and I don't know if I will be grateful
to have a friend from home there with me. Is it quite easy
to meet people in Australia? It may sound like a crazy
question, but in other places I've travelled, it's not
always really easy to meet others. Basically, I am asking
you all for advice....better to go alone, or welcome my
friend (who wants to come WITH me)...Could you share some
experiences with me about travelling long-term with
aquaintances? (I was planning on telling my friend that I
am going to go alone, but then another friend said that I
might really like having someone from home there for
support and company)....yikes
[Posts on this topic: 20. Latest post: Tue 18 May, 4:00].
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I totally agree with other postings >I've read on this site
about women being nervous about the courage of
women who travel to the Middle East alone. You have my
greatest respect and admiration! I'm 32 years old, have
travelled extensively throughout Europe, especially Eastern
Europe, often on my own, and generally like to think of
myself as someone who knows how to look after herself
reasonably well.
BUT I'm terrified to make that trip to Israel and Egypt
(places where I'd really love to go) because I've heard a
few too many horror stories about being mauled, followed,
spied upon and generally harrassed. I can take a lot of
things in life but for whatever reason, the threat of
sexual harrasment in a foreign land is something which just
makes me want to run home and cover my head! I've very
rarely had this provlem in the countries I've visited, and
when I hav, it's intimidated me more than anything else.
Please tell me, am I being paranoid and worrying unduly? Is
ther anything I can do - as well as the usual advice to
dress and behave modestly - to minimise the threat?
Thank You!
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When I travel, one of my top priorities is to go as light as
possible, to the extent of agonizing over how many pairs of
knickers to take!
Hi Girls!
However, I have one problem: I've got really fine, straight
hair which looks crap if I don't blow dry it! Of course,
takinga hairdryer (even a travel one) goes against all my
ideas about light travelling, so I'd like to hear from
anyone out there who has had to grapple with this complex
and intriguing problem! Another question: do those little
travel hairdryers really work?
Thank you!
[Posts on this topic: 15. Latest post: Wed 19 May, 7:45].
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I have been very lucky to have travelled very extensively
all my life, with friends, family and when by my own I
normally jump on a tour or overland trip.
I really admire all the women who I hear travelling around
by themselves as I think you are all amazingly brave. It is
something I would love to do because my friend's plans don't
always gel with mine, tours are really expensive and of
course it is a completely different experience when you go
by yourself in terms of getting in touch with local culture,
meeting more people etc.
But why don't I ? Because I am scared - the two things that
worry me is getting lonely and personal safety. I have had
many wonderful experiences travelling but I have also had
many negative ones with men assaulting me and making me feel
uncomfortable no matter how defensive my behaviour is.
Obviously these are things that all you brave chicks face
and what I want to know is how do you overcome these
feelings? Would love your feedback on this one!
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Dear All,
I am having a lot of trouble researching exactly what to be
prepared to wear in many countries that I am thinking of
visiting. I have two problems- the number of countries that
I am thinking of visiting, and getting CLEAR information
about what to wear. (And why is it with any trip people
become obsessed with what to bring?? I definitely have the
disease!!)
So many countries just say "modestly". What does this mean?
I am not at all asking whether or not I can wear my
sleeveless crop top. (DonÆt you hate seeing those posts
where someone is confused as to whether a crop top and mini
skirt could posssssibly pass as "modest"! Derrr!!! :-)) IÆm
talking in terms of sleeve length and dress/pant length. In
very warm climates such as Egypt the difference between
sleeves that go to the wrist, elbow or T-shirt length makes
a lot of difference!
Also, wouldnÆt it be nice if there was one resource which
lists all countries, or all countries in a region and
advises women on what is appropriate clothing and behaviour?
So anyway, can anyone pleeeasse help me with the following
countries, and the answers to the following. (a) tops =
wrist, elbow or T-shirt length ?, (b), neck = covered or
doesnÆt matter? (c) skirts = above knee, below knee or ankle
length? (d) head = face covered, hair covered or doesnÆt
matter. (Tell me if IÆve missed something here).
My countries of concern are-
France, Spain, Portugal, Morocco, Greece, Turkey, Syria,
Jordan, Israel, Egypt, Thailand, Vietnam, China.
Eg France= everything except the birthday suit is OK?,
compared with Thailand = tops elbow length, and the rest
doesn't matter?
Oh, and one more thing- Is it possible to get tops that go
to the wrist that are also fashionable and okay for REALLY
hot weather? IÆm wondering if it just isnÆt some alien plot
to prevent women from visiting places like the middle east.
If I get some good answers, IÆll collate the whole thing so
everyone on this posting can benefit.
Thanks in advance,
A
[Posts on this topic: 14. Latest post: Fri 2 April, 21:15].
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Help! I have a 65L travel pack I will be taking with me RTW
for one year. I also have a small daypac that I have found
very useful on shorter trips (carry water, camera,
sunglasses, etc.). The question is, if I'm going to be on
the road for a long time & I will be travelling solo, do I
take the small daypac along too? If I do, how do I manage
it and the 65L in train & bus stations, airports, etc.
without having one stolen. What do other women do? Is
a multi-pocket vest the answer? Help!
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I could really use some advice. I am 25 years old and I
graduated a year and a half ago from college. I was
fortunate enough to be able to go traveling right after grad
for several months. Soon after I came home, I got a great
job with the government. I have recently asked my employer
for a year or two leave, so that I can travel more. So far,
I plan to return to the job, but who knows what awaits me
out there (I'd never tell my employer that though!).
My dilemma presents itself when I think about my employer
possibly saying no to my request for a leave approval. What
should I do? I have very mimimal debt,but no boyfriend,
mortgage, or student loans. I really want to travel, but if
"push comes to shove", should I quit my job? I think I'd
have a good chance of getting it back. I also would leave in
a very polite way. Sometimes I think that I have made my
mind up to quit, but on the other hand, I am risking quite a
bit by doing so. Can anyone else out there who has gone
through this let me know, and was it worth it? I generally
like my job, and I am living and working in a great city-
most of my friends and family live here. Do you other
travellers think that I will regret this decision to travel
if I have to quit my job? I should find out soon, but the
suspense is killing me and I would love to hear your
thoughts. This is the biggest decision I have ever
(possibly) had to make. Thank you....
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Out of interest in the odds of my trip to NZ this week
being a hit or miss(in the romance department!)...may I
ask.. has anyone ever - well I guess this happens every
second of the day - Have you fell for a lovely man in a
foreign land and then torn yourself away to do a sensible
thing like return home for a few months and then yearned
for this man and set off on a wild chase to catch
him...then did it work, was it the same, was it the best
thing to do? do you regret it?. Help! I need some
encouragement here, my chase starts in 3 days and am I
scared or what!!!
best wishes
scared!
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Okay, I truly value all of your opinions, and I've learned a
ton from this site (thanks). I am leaving in a month for a
3-4 month trip around parts of W. Europe (furthest South is
Rome, furthest North is Paris), E. Europe (Hungary, Romania,
Bulgaria) and Turkey. Travel time will be from mid-April
(in Italy) until July or August (in Turkey). After having
read countless packing lists, I've come up with the
following list of clothes to bring, and I want to know what
you think. Keep in mind the length of the trip, variety of
climates, versatility, etc. Here it is:
one pair Teva-type sandals
one pair Rockport walking shoes (brown, broken in!)
one pair jeans
one pair light rayon (or similar) drawstring pants (khaki)
one long rayon (or similar) skirt (black)
one pair shorts (black or khaki)
one casual short dress (don't know what kind)
two short-sleeved t-shirts (black and white)
one long-sleeved t-shirt (black)
one long-sleeved dressier shirt
one sweater (light wool, black)
swimsuit
socks, undies, bras
scarf (for dressing up)
hat (baseball)
black tights or leggings
Gore-Tex light jacket
one tank top
Too much? Too little? Just about right? Please help, I'm
currently obsessed with what I'm bringing with me. Thank
you!
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I really enjoyed the topics on people's favourite travel
books and was curious to know people's favourite
travel-inspired films.
Latcho Drom (I think it means 'safe journey' and documents
the musical traditions of the Rom people in many
countries) is wonderful--when I saw it I had just returned
home after a year in India and the scene of the wedding in
Rajasthan made me cry for wanting to be there...
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Remember thinking that if you took a solo journey to
someplace new that your life would somehow come together;
that when you returned home you would have a clearer picture
of who you were and life decisions would seem easier? But
more often than not (and I'm really no different from the
majority) when you get back home, life just sort of ...
carries on as before. I wish my life was more structured at
times; that I had a great job and some direction. However,
travelling and exposing myself to new ideas and new ways of
thinking about EVERYTHING has made deciding what to do with
my life all the more difficult. Of course, I am so thankful
that I've had these opportunities; one of the best
'souvenirs' of my trip was my increased self-awareness. I
just wish that I could apply this to something concrete, and
soon. I've been home a month already, and still have
nothing to tell people when they ask "so, what do you do??"
I guess it's one of those I'm 25, single and unemployed; and
confused about my future. I wish that I had more stability
in my life but also understand that it's the price I pay for
doing less conventional things after I graduated from
university. I find myself to be remarkably sensitive about
this topic, especially around people who I care about and
who I know are genuinely worried about me, like my parents
and roomates. I'm sitting on the fence and am too chicken
to take the leap. At night I lie awake and struggle to
remember that all will work out; that I'm an intelligent and
sincere, fun person that will someday, somehow, make
something of myself. But more often than not, I'm anxious
about money, about which desk to send my resume to, about
how others are carrying on and I'm being left behind, trying
desperately to hold on to my self-confidence in the wake of
unemployment and a waning desire to get out of bed. If
anyone has some advice it would mean so much to me. Maybe
others could use it as well, as I'm sure I'm not the only
one with post-travelling-depression out there. And in
advance I apologize if this topic seems at all
inappropriate; but I find that one of the most moving things
about this site in particular is the unassuming and positive
flow of encouragement that comes from strangers. It's such
a testament to the human spirit (at the risk of sounding
like I watch too much Oprah, though admittedly I am very
aware that she's on a 'remembering your spirit' kick lately
.. :) Thanks, A.
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What brand of shoes do you think are the best for
backpacking? I'm looking for a good pair and need some
advice! Do you think running shoes or hiking boots are the
best for a general backtracking trek through Europe in the
Spring/Summer? Thanks to all for responses.
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I just told my best male friend that I'm in love with him
and while it feels like a huge relief to have it out in the
open (after 3 years), I also feel flat because I've just got
his "no way!" response!!! Yeah, he's surprised, was asking
me for a punchline and was calling me 'sis' etc etc. I feel
sooooo embarrassed and AWFUL. The thing is: what now? I want
to keep my distance but I don't want to completely stop the
friendship ... but now he's going to feel 'weird' etc etc.
Ugh! Has anyone out there been through a similar nightmare
and feel like passing on some wise or comforting words?
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In guide-books and the like you sometimes read about pervs
who spy on female travellers through keyholes or
strategically placed "peepholes" in hotel bedrooms and
bathrooms. Not to mention intrepid types who
accidentally-on-purpose let themselves into your hotel-room
in the middle of the night!
How much of a prob have women found this to be in reality?
I was thinking specifically of the Middle East but I'd be
interested to hear from anyone with stories to tell about
such unpleasant behaviour!
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I could use some advice..... I have been corresponding with
a man that I 'met' on the internet recently. We began
corresponding because I saw that he was from a city I would
be travelling to in the next few months. Anyways, we have
briefly talked about meeting each other....there's been no
'racy' talk or deep conversations, or talk of a
relationship. We have just enjoyed corresponding (this is my
perspective) and we have exchanged pictures through email.
Anyways, I am not travelling alone to where he lives, but it
would not be appropriate to take my traveling companions to
meet him. Any thoughts other than meeting him in a public
place? How does one know when it's okay to actually go
somewhere together or make plans? We've talked about what
we do for a living, our families, travel etc.....so far, I
don't have any weird vibes, but it IS ONLY email! Can
someone share their experiences or thoughts with me on this?
He seems like a really nice person with similar interests
and perspectives to mine....my instincts are quite good, but
I'd like to hear from you out there! Thanks...
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Some of you may remember, I put a post up here 2 and half months ago under the handle of 'unhappy and guilty'. My mother had juist been diagnosed with Leukaemia which meant I had to cancel my booked RTW trip and I was wrecked with guilt about feeling disppointed about this while mum was so ill. I was overwhelmed by the response of people on this branch which helped me to put it all into perspective. The absolute worst in the world happened and mum died last night following complications brought on my the treatment. Obviuosly this isn;t a place to into how I am feeling right now. My reason for posting this is that someone here posted a poem in response to my post. It was a lovely poem which made me cry as it was written from the persective of someone who had died and was looking over the people they loved and left behind. I don;t know who it was or where it came from as when I went back to print it off it had been removed. I desperately want to read this at her funeral - All I know is that it was posted by the same person who recomended I visit the Healing Room website., Are you reading this now? PLEASE tell me what that poem was...She would be so proud if I read for her and that poem was lovely. I have to stop now.can't say anymore. I hope someone knows what I mean..thank you....
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What do you think of the selection of the LP Show
presenters? Do you think we need a variety of those people
reflecting the population of travellers around the globe?
Ian and Justine are doing a great job but I believe we need
more "different" people. (What happend to that British
Indian(?) woman who did Indonesia?) Different travellers get
treated differently and that fact needs to be addressed.
Justine's episode in Italy (where some guy sat next to her
in the train and started bothering her) showed one of
unpleasant experiences many woman travellers encounter. But
there are other stories that need to be told!
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OK here goes. I'm 26, 5'10" tall and around 18 stone.
Mostly because of my size and as I'm into a lot of outdoor
sports I tend to attract guys who are generally looking for
a mother figure or just companionship and not sex (and they
are ususally a lot smaller than myself anyway.
Basically, can anyone give me an idea of somewhere in the
world I can go where I might be found attractive despite my
size.
I know this letter is going to get the usual snide comments
but all I'm looking for are travel destainations to go to
for two weeks where I can renew my faith in my own
femininity.
One other thing - I've always had a dream of learning to
surf. Can anyone give me any ideas of how long I'd need to
take lessons or do I just get a board and practice myself?
[Posts on this topic: 25. Latest post: Sat 15 May, 6:31].
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I'm doing a dissertation on guidebooks, and one gender
question that has come up is whether men and women use
guidebooks differently. In particular some of my results
seem to point to women (particularly if travelling
solo) looking for accommodation references more carefully,
and sticking more closely to towns which are listed with
accommodation sections. Does this sound right?
Thanks, Marie.
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Hi all,.
It appears that this is the most intelligent branch of the Thorn Tree so I thought I'd try this question out...
For those that have been on fairly long trips, I'm sure there was many a time when you were stuck on a bus/train with yourself, a book and a walkman. The book subject has already been covered, so now I ask: what music/albums did you listen to that really meant something to you, the ones that bring back a flood of memories when you listen to them now? I'm planning another epic-long trip and I'm interested in what people have to say...
Personally, I travelled through Europe and the Middle East for several months in 97/98 and I had a few albums that really just bring me back when listened to now (I guess I just drilled the albums into my permanent memory after so many listens!)...the Verve's Urban Hymns, and Radiohead's OK Computer. Many more, but I'd like to hear your choices!
Cheers!
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I like to visit desert climates and have had great enjoyment
in scaling some rather impressive heights in my 25 years. My
problem is that the heat tends to give me a terribly itchy
rash on my inner thigh. I though it was the underwear I had
on so I switched to a cotton thong, the rash subsided
somewhat but then I had the problem of the undies riding up
my crotch area. What's a girl to do? Help!
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I have a strange question.... I am on the bith control pill.
I am travelling to australia for 5 months. I think it will
be an inconveinence to try and rememmber to take it every
day, at about the same time, but I don't know if I am going
to meet someone.....! Should I stay on it, or forget about
it??? thanks!
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what are your favorite fiction or non-fiction books [not
guide book] that feature travel? i'm trying to build up my
library, or at least patronize the local library, and i like
to get personal recommendations.
i'm currently reading "hitchiking vietnam" by karin muller,
the true story of a 29-yo woman who spends 7 months traveling
independently in vietnam. it's pretty incredible,
considering all the hassles & bureaucracy she met whenever
she wanted to do ANYTHING.... an absorbing book.
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I am a television researcher working for London Weekend
Television on a documentary about pick-pockets.
I am trying to find interesting stories about pick-
pocketting either in the UK or abroad. Have you ever been
pick-pocketted? Were you drunk at the time? When did you
realise you had been robbed? Did the person/gang use a
particular method? Have you ever robbed anyone else?
Do you live in a city that particularly suffers from this
type of crime?
[Posts on this topic: 17. Latest post: Wed 28 April, 1:46].
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Thought that would grab your attention!
Ok; we all do it but we don't admit it etc etc.
Well; I'm admitting I do it, even though I have a relationship etc, BUT.......... I am travelling for 6 months.
This question isn't so much about me; but maybe you have some funny stories to tell or confess to?!!! Other than shagging everyone else travelling (which I won't be doing due to boyfriend), this is the only other way to remedy those sexual cravings, right? By=ut when in dorms in hostels etc, HOW do you do it?!!! I don't think I'll risk it myself, but glad to hear your stories/thoughts/ideas anyway.
Take it away........
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What was the worst country regarding that problem?
[Posts on this topic: 28. Latest post: Mon 29 March, 20:31].
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Has anyone worn a fake wedding ring and carried photos of a
pretend husband? I've read that doing this might make it
a little safer for women travelling alone, particularly in
countries where the men tend to be chauvanists. I am
leaving on a solo around-the-world trip soon, and I am
curious to hear about other women's experiences doing this.
Do you think it made you safer? Can a cheap ring really
pass for a wedding ring? It it worth it for me to go to the
trouble and possibly small expense of doing this?
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Am I the only large and a little overweight to hit the road? I am worried about a few things. I always get rashes, sores on my thights when I go out in hot sticky weather and weare skirts etc. I`ve tried different boxershorts and bikepants, but they don`t stay in place, and it can get really damp. I`m also troubled by getting infections in my vagina of all the damp weather. Does anybody have any suggestions??
I also have big breasts. I`ve tried different types of bras but they tend to hurt when they get wet from sweat and also give me raches. It does`t seem to be any cotton bras with good support for a 95 D. Any suggestions appresiated!!
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I am a woman who has had serious cramps ever since my first
period. (even to the point of throwing up) There are a few
tricks that I have learned:
1. Midol does not work (at least not for me)
2. Advil does work. Especially if you start taking it about
3 days before you expect your cramps to start. That way is
is in your system. And it has no bad side effect other than
your body becomes used to it if you take too much.
3. Heating Pads, hot water botels and the fetal position
help to aleviate some pain
4. Avoiding Salt and salty food lessens cramps
5. So does Avoiding caffine. I know this is hard but it
includes anthing chocolate, coffee, tea (unless it is
herbal) and pop.
Any other advice?
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I suffer from extra bad menstral cramps, but since I am
allergic to muscle relaxants the only relief I have is in
the pill and lots of ASA and that doesnt really help.
I wanted to ask anyone who is reading this is: How do you
cope when your out in the middle of "nowhere" in your tent
and you get your period? If your like me, your sick to your
stomach, and all you want to do is sleep and sit on the
toilet all day. I often watch LP on TV and wonder how do
the female travelers deal with that when they are on 14hr
train rides through India(for example) where you'd rather
"go" in a bucket than risk getting malaria but touching
something by accident in a washroom.
It's because of this, that I am afraid to travel to any
exotic places. When I was in Israel, I was so stressed and
paranoid about what to do if I get it, I ruined a good bit
of my trip. All that worrying made me miss it altogether!
Also, I was wondering if your going to be backpacking for
say, 3 months, do you take a 3 month supply(pads) with you,
in case your somewhere where you cant buy them? Wouldn't
that take up a lot of space in your pack? I sure wouldn't
want to carry all that around with me...
Thanks for listening.
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I could've posted this in any forum, but I'd really like a
woman traveller's viewpoint for this thread. What is it you
*never* travel without--things that make travelling more
comfortable, enlightening, etc. I mean stuff other
than the obvious (underwear, passport...) This is to solicit
ideas to help me pack on a long overseas trip, btw.
My indispensables include a clip-on book light, inflatable
neck pillow, a Pak-towel, and a spray bottle of rubbing
alcohol (great for getting that oily travel grim off hands &
face). Other ideas?
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I was wondering if anyone out there who has travelled around
and then came back home only to realize away was better? I
am having after trip depression.Is this common? I just can't
be satisfied with my old life , you know? It 's hard when
you have been away and seen all the beautiful things and
then come back and try and pretend that all the things that
were beautiful to you before are beautiful still. That
probably made no sense but if you have been where I have
been and then left the place that you consider ultimat
beauty and peace- aw shit it is really hard.
Talk to me please.
T.
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I'm going on an overland tour to Africa for nine weeks and am a bit worried about having my period.
I know it's not such a good idea to take the pill for that length of time, so I was wondering about the Keepers / Instead / Sponges etc people have previously mentioned. I live in Britain by the way so I don't know if their available over here. I'd certainly never heard of them before!
Can anyone help? It's be much appreciated.
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