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- $Title{Reducing Risks of AIDS in an Intimate Relationship}
- $Subject{sex safe AIDS college Community Social Problems acquired immune
- deficiency syndrome HIV human immunodeficiency virus sexually transmitted
- diseases std venereal disease vd long-term monogamous celibacy risk casual
- deep kissing prevention condom penile sheath sexual relationships}
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- Who Gets AIDS*0001002.scf
- AIDS is not Spread by Casual Contact*0001004.scf
- AIDS is Sexually Transmitted*0001005.scf
- How to Avoid AIDS*0001006.scf
- Types of Birth Control*0002001.scf}
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- Reducing Risks of AIDS in an Intimate Relationship
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- QUESTION: Life here at school is different than anything I have ever
- experienced. While studies are important, much of the talk in the dorm is
- about guys, sex and AIDS. Everybody has their own idea about who and what is
- safe, and I don't want to get more than I am willing to "bargain" for. I
- think you might include an answer that would provide some indications about
- reducing risks, if one chooses to have an intimate relationship?
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- ANSWER: Despite all the educational programs now in place, it is clear from
- your question (and others I have received) that more information is needed.
- There are several precautions you can take to minimize your risk of acquired
- immune deficiency syndrome and other sexually transmitted diseases.
- The least risk of infection comes with a long-term monogamous
- relationship, with no other sexual contacts. That puts marriage and fidelity
- in the forefront of the prevention of sexually transmitted diseases. (Of
- course there are no risks at all associated with celibacy!) If both partners
- are monogamous and have not been previously exposed to the AIDS virus, there
- is virtually no chance of getting the disease unless one partner uses
- intravenous drugs.
- The greatest risk of infection comes with casual sex with more than one
- partner and with people who you hardly know. Chances are, if a person will
- have sex with you even though they hardly know you, they may have many other
- partners. The more partners, the greater the risk. If you have sex with
- anyone but an exclusive partner, precautions must be taken. Sexual contact
- should be carried out with a condom or penile sheath. This can protect both
- the wearer and his partner from contact with secretions, discharges and
- lesions. A condom should not only be worn for intercourse, but for
- oral-penile contact as well. Likewise, a condom should be used for
- penile-anal contact, even between monogamous partners. Oral-anal contact
- should be universally discouraged.
- A casual kiss, such as a peck on the cheek, or even on the lips, even
- from someone who is infected with the AIDS virus, is probably harmless. If an
- infected person coughs or sneezes on you, there is also very little reason for
- concern. Deep kissing involving tongues may be a hazard though, because the
- AIDS virus has been found in saliva, and there can be an exchange of saliva
- with that type of contact. Therefore, passionate, deep kisses should be
- avoided with casual sex partners, especially when there is a possibility that
- you have an open cut on the tongue or in your mouth. There is no available
- protection to reduce the risk of infection from oral saliva contact with the
- vulva or vagina.
- When using condoms, to prevent the spread of viruses, several precautions
- should be taken. Condoms should be used only once and then thrown away. The
- condom should be put on early in sexual foreplay, since many men secrete
- pre-ejaculatory fluid. Withdrawal of the condom-covered penis should be done
- carefully to prevent leakage of fluids. Because many men lose their erection
- very shortly after ejaculation, the condom and base of the penis should be
- grasped and held together during withdrawal, to reduce the risk of spillage.
- This is obviously not a decision to make without even more information
- than I can provide you here. Check with the health facility on your campus, I
- am sure they can provide you with much more information.
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- The material contained here is "FOR INFORMATION ONLY" and should not replace
- the counsel and advice of your personal physician. Promptly consulting your
- doctor is the best path to a quick and successful resolution of any medical
- problem.
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