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- REVIEWS, Page 74BOOKSGrownup Show and Tell
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- By R.Z. SHEPPARD
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- TITLE: MAKING LOVE
- AUTHOR: Richard Rhodes
- PUBLISHER: Simon & Schuster; 175 pages; $18
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- THE BOTTOM LINE: Here's more about a sex life than you may
- want to know, but that won't stop you from reading on.
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- Richard Rhodes has written about the unspeakable and the
- unthinkable. His first book, The Ungodly, was an epic treatment
- of the Donner party, those galloping gourmets who survived the
- Rocky Mountain winter of 1847 by eating their dead. The Making
- of the Atomic Bomb traced the thin line between creative genius
- and mindless annihilation.
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- Rhodes now takes on what many readers will consider the
- untouchable: a no-holds-barred account of his sex life from
- earliest masturbations to strenuous exertions in pursuit of his
- fantasy, "a young woman drunk with sensation, overstimulated,
- perpetually orgasmic."
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- His frankness is both liberating and embarrassing -- some
- readers will be embarrassed for, as well as by, the author. He
- relives adolescent homosexual encounters, initial heterosexual
- experiences, marriage-bed routines, and affairs with women coyly
- designated Y, O, P, W, K and G. There are visits to sex clinics
- to observe procedures for extending orgasms, a precise
- description of the author's penis and details of a hydraulic
- feat Henry Miller would probably have thought too incredible
- even for fiction.
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- "All that can be thought can be written," says Rhodes,
- quoting Ralph Waldo Emerson. Fair enough, but writing explicitly
- about sex requires a more delicate touch. It takes only a few
- pages to realize he is in the grip of graphomania. Flesh must
- become word. His style swings from confessional to clinical,
- from pop psych to steamy paperback prose: "Her body fired
- explosively, every muscle contracting, and her back arched grand
- mal off the bed from the abutments of her feet and her
- shoulders." A passage comparing his own orgasm to a
- thermonuclear explosion may start a chain reaction of giggles.
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- Making Love is best read after Rhodes' A Hole in the
- World, a memoir of his mother's suicide, his stepmother's abuse
- and his father's weakness. The boy's loveless childhood now
- becomes the man's sexual void, an emptiness that can never be
- filled.
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- Eventually Rhodes concludes more is not necessarily
- better. He confesses to having used women as sexual sounding
- boards and professes a midlife conversion to sensitivity. Not
- all women will be convinced, especially when he boasts that
- "having a penis is like owning a cat. What a comedy and what a
- gift." Men should find this celebration of the antic phallus
- cheering but may not be glad Rhodes has let the cat out of the
- bag.
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