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- From: laurie@biomath.mda.uth.tmc.edu (Laurie Gelb)
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- Subject: Re: Smart kids (Was Re: Magnet schools)
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- Date: 13 Jan 1993 00:12:15 GMT
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- In article <C0rBpF.J6x@mentor.cc.purdue.edu> hrubin@pop.stat.purdue.edu (Herman
- Rubin) responds to my comment that:
-
- >>if a kid would rather read science books than play basketball, s/he
- >>should be encouraged to pursue those interests. But a kid
- >>who makes good grades, understands things others don't, etc. is often labeled
- >>a "nerd" or "geek" not because s/he lacks a personality, but because the
- others
- >>are jealous. Helping a kid to understand that attitude is crucial for
- survival
- >>in, yes, the real world. That's the world where enlightenment is often
- feared,
- >>where facts are often subordinate to emotions. If a kid with a high IQ is
- >>going eventually to contribute to the improvement of that world (assuming you
- >>care about human survival somewhat and would prefer to see intellect used
- >>rather than hoarded like a toy), s/he has to understand it enough to find a
- >>place in it. That implies the motivation to understand it. Parents either
- >>provide that motivation or destroy it ("you're better than the rest of those
- >>kids; don't worry about them").
-
- by saying:
-
- >On the contrary, that kid is being destroyed by the current system. One
- >does not develop one's mind by playing basketball. As an adult, one has
- >considerable choice of one's associates, and the anti-intellectuals can
- >have their dumbness.
-
- I am not athletic, so I can't comment on the mental skills required to play
- sports, except to say that to equate athletics with anti-intellectualism
- is highly questionable. Are you really defending the proposition that
- no one with an IQ at the gifted level should be permitted to play sports
- because it is a waste of mental capacity? If they are so gifted,
- surely they can decide that for themselves--even gifted kids.
-
- >Those who go along with the crowd are very unlikely to contribute to the
- >improvement of anything. What is needed is to encourage the idea that
- >inquisitiveness, ingenuity, continual questioning, striving to understand
- >instead of just learning to get A+, is needed. Not all can do that, but
- >very few public schools even allow the children to do that. The word
- >allow is not an overstatement; the schools teach pap.
-
- And what happens when that gifted child finds employment (assuming not every
- gifted child is immediately willing and able to begin self-employment)? Do
- our universities, public agencies, and corporations encourage innovation for
- its own sake? Only when it coincides with their goals. And how will a
- gifted adult know what those are, if s/he has been trained to ignore them?
-
- Never have I advocated "going along with the crowd" for its own sake. Nowhere
- do I see that in my comments. But to diverge from the crowd, you have to
- know where it is and where it's going. There are too few totally oblivious
- geniuses to depend on such a group to save the world, let
- alone to foster such a group. What we need to foster is "aware" intellects.
-
- I further added that:
-
- >>Minds need to be nurtured, not isolated. Knowledge is useless in a vaccuum.
-
- >>This is why my gifted child is no longer in private school. Some lessons
- >>extend beyond what can be taught in a classroom.
-
- to which the response was:
-
- >Very definitely so. With 99.99% of the classrooms teaching little, it is
- >necessary to learn outside. But to acquire understanding of structure and
- >concepts, not facts. To acquire the desire to excel, even if others will
- >dislike you for it.
-
- Do you consider that desire the parents' responsibility or the school's? I
- consider it the former's. Gifted learners learn the way they learn best.
- Some memorize facts, and weave them into patterns. Others disregard facts,
- and rediscover the important ones for themselves. I don't generalize about
- how to help a child learn, except to say that it is the parents' responsibility
- to help a child discover how s/he learns best.
-
- >It is the nerds and geeks who will make the contributions to knowledge, and
- >advance mankind. The schools teach little beyond what computers will do in
- >the future; that the great bulk of the people want to live like that is no
- >reason to waste a mind.
-
- Who said anything about wasting a mind? Some of our greatest minds have
- survived public schools, and still do. The ability to shut out what's
- harmful and let in what's good is more important than ever in a world
- chock full of stimuli. A gifted child learns it early or not at all. I have
- personally witnessed the tragedy of what happens when this ability is needed
- most and does not manifest itself. How many gifted people do you know who
- have tried or committed suicide? I know several.
-
- My final comment was:
-
- >>Note that I do not advocate lowering one's intellectual standards in order
- >>to accommodate the rest of the world, nor would I ever advocate my son's
- >>doing so. That's why we *must* teach a gifted child how to have different
- >>expectations for him/herself and for others.
-
- and the reply was:
-
- >In order to have different expectations, it is necessary to accomplish
- >what others cannot. You have lowered your child's intellectual level
- >greatly. You may even have destroyed the ability to understand.
-
- Since he entered public school 1.5 years ago, my son's standardized test
- scores,
- his intellectual curiosity, and his ability to reason abstractly have decreased
- not one iota. The latter two have increased. He is still in the 99%
- percentile overall. (I know, it's mostly testing for factual knowledge.) He
- is actually more enthusastic
- about getting up in the morning then when he attended an exclusive Montessori
- school. I suppose this could be used as evidence that his IQ is eroding,
- except that it's clear what some of the attractions are. He enjoys some group
- projects, which were very limited at his first school. He enjoys activities
- such as choir, which the other school does not offer. He enjoys the fact
- that some of the neighborhood kids walk home with him, which was not possible
- at the other, because we were the only family close enough to walk home. In
- short, he enjoys
- interaction and collaboration with "lesser beings!" Does this mean that he
- no longer qualifies as gifted--he must surrender his uniqueness because it
- doesn't matter to him 24 hours a day? Surely only an insecure child would
- need constant reminders of his gifts.
-
-
-
- And in reference to my signature:
-
- >>Uncle Sam wants YOU...
- >>to pay your taxes, obey his laws, and keep your mouth shut.
-
- I certainly agree that:
-
- >And anyone who does this is nothing more than a machine. We do not need
- >a nation of machines.
-
- I don't think that an identity exists such that public schools turn out
- machines and private schools turn out achievers. As a libertarian, it would
- certainly be tempting for me to believe that, but if individualism means any-
- thing, it's that mentally-competent persons make their own choices (if they
- dare)--especially whether to vegetate or grow. Parents can't (and shouldn't)
- control that choice, but have a moral obligation to convey
- that it is the child's choice.
-
-
- >
- Laurie Gelb
- laurie@biomath.mda.uth.tmc.edu
-
- Uncle Sam wants YOU...
- to pay your taxes, obey his laws, and keep your mouth shut.
-