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- From: michael@glia.biostr.washington.edu (Michael)
- Subject: Re: Football: Robert Sheaffer's Central Metaphor?
- Message-ID: <michael.724959905@glia>
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- References: <1992Dec16.232603.3881@s1.gov> <1992Dec18.193705.12869@netcom.com> <michael.724789235@glia> <1992Dec20.203514.7086@netcom.com>
- Date: Mon, 21 Dec 1992 17:45:05 GMT
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- In <1992Dec20.203514.7086@netcom.com> payner@netcom.com (Rich Payne) writes:
- >In article <michael.724789235@glia> michael@glia.biostr.washington.edu (Michael) writes:
- >>In <1992Dec18.193705.12869@netcom.com> sheaffer@netcom.com (Robert Sheaffer) writes:
- >>>In article <1992Dec16.232603.3881@s1.gov> lip@s1.gov (Loren I. Petrich) writes:
- >>>> Women in football? Always as cheerleaders, who are usually
- >>>>scantily clad sex objects. They are not really important to the game,
- >>>>it must be said. I personally have nothing against exhibitionism in
- >>>>principle, just against exploitation.
- >>>Yes, a well-paid female actress (for that is what these are), having
- >>>an exciting, fast-paced life and undoubtedly dozens of highly attractive
- >>>suitors, is *exploited* something fierce. We've got to make them stop
- >>>doing this, for their own good. Frankly, I think they should
- >>>all be forced to wear the chador (sp?), like the cheerleaders at
- >>>Teheran State U.
- >>Personally I don't care whether men or women are dressed scantily
- >>or in sexually provocative ways. I don't care if men or women do
- >>strip acts on stage. I don't care if men or women appear partially
- >>clothed or complete nude in magazines. If those men and women choose
- >>to do so for money, that is THEIR decision and not anyone elses to
- >>object to.
- >>
- >>If however our culture leaves men or women with no other choice than
- >>to do these things for money AND these acts invade the actors
- >>privacy or cause psychological harm,
- > ------------------
- >By who's determination? If the strippers do not object, but others
- >do, what then?
-
- Well, abused victims don't always object either. Obviously the
- government is going to have to step in and make a determination.
- Since they can't do so in EVERY case, we are left with a similar
- problem as that of abuse victims. Its a tricky situation to deal with.
- The best I know at this point is to create agencies that can help
- victims find their way out of their mess and to make the victims
- aware of that possibility.
-
- As for solving the root of the problem... That's much more difficult.
- I'm afraid I don't have an answer for that now.
-
- However banning all erotica because there are bad people who abuse others
- in creating erotica is like saying some people say things that are harmful
- so lets ban free speech. Oh its not the SAME thing exactly, but the point
- I'm trying to make is clear I think?
-
- >> then I think we need to take
- >>a look at our system and fix the problem.
- >Who is "we", and how would such a problem be fixed? If you have spent
- >20 years as a stripper, and have no other talents, todays job market
- >will be unlikely to treat you kindly. Anyone with no job skills will
- >have the same problem however.
-
- Yes, this problem is not limited to strippers. Its a broader problem.
- In a sense its fallout from not having dealt with the central issue
- sooner. But the answer to this problem is the same with anyone who
- has no skills. We need to find a way to train them without making such
- a process a huge burden on society. There are solutions to that, but
- none of them are easy ones.
-
- >> So long as these things are
- >>done by free choice, it is not exploitation.
- >Not according to some oft-quoted feminists.
-
- So? What I've said is my opinion. Any feminists who disagree are
- certainly entitled to their opinion as well. And I'd lay odds that
- not all feminists think that.
-
- >>I will however object to kids in pornography.
-
- >> I also object to the
- >>way women are often portrayed in erotica as helpless or mindless.
- >>I enjoy seeing strong women every bit as often as helpless women.
- >>Frankly I get pretty damn tired of seeing helpless women waiting on
- >>men.
-
- >But strong women are not often portrayed as having relationships,
- >or choosing to do things for men. In fact, the strong women that I
- >recall on TV are full of clever rejoinders and always beat the cheating
- >men at their own game. There are some exceptions, but I stress the
- >word exception.
-
- Are you suprised? I would think that beating men at their own game
- would appeal to many women. And if strong women are portrayed as having
- relationships, then that is a big mistake by our media. I'd love to
- see that happen more often.
-
- Michael Stanley (michael@glia.biostr.washington.edu)
-