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- From: dabay@morse.cns.vt.edu (Marian Dabay)
- Newsgroups: rec.equestrian
- Subject: Re: horse doesn't like to be groomed
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- Date: 23 Nov 92 17:53:34 GMT
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- In article <4252@unisql.UUCP> wrat@unisql.UUCP (wharfie) writes:
- >
- >There's this horse, Dollar, who doesn't like to be groomed. When
- >I try to brush or curry him, he lays his ears back and tosses his head
- >and his skin moves like there's flies on him. I've tried all different
- >curries and brushes, too.
- >
- > What could I do to get this horse to trust me enough to
- >groom him, or make the experience more tolerable to him? I've tried
- >bribing him with carrots...
-
- I'm glad to see that you've taken this as your "personnel challenge".
- It sounds as if maybe this poor guy hasn't had enough (of the correct
- type) of attention. Because he isn't easy to groom, people have
- probably not spent enough time with him. Instead, he probably
- gets a quick, rough grooming which just re-affirms the idea
- that grooming = discomfort.
-
- A few years ago, I leased a horse I was thinking of buying. He was
- a big, beautiful TB who had extremely sensitive skin. The owner
- told me that a lot of TBs are very "thin skinned" (anyone else ever
- hear of this??). Anyway, I had to be real careful as to what kind of
- grooming tools to use. Absolutely no metal curry or stiff brush!! Also,
- there were areas that were more sensitive than others, like right
- along the spine. I found that if I took my time, used a nice clean,
- SOFT brush and brushed very GENTLY, he really enjoyed it. On the
- really tough dried dirt, I used one of those big, soft rubber things
- (Grooma??) and, again, gently rubbed the area in a circular motion.
- All of this was done while I talked gently and reassuringly to him.
- After every minute or two, I would stop, praise him and give him
- a few pats or hugs.
-
- After just a few sessions, he stopped being so paranoid about it.
- Unfortunately, he was a much more advanced horse than I was looking
- for, so I didn't buy him, but he taught me that patience and under-
- standing are the keys to a horses heart.
-
- I would suggest starting out very slow. Just groom him until he starts
- to show his displeasure, then stop. Talk to him and pat him a little
- till he relaxs. Then groom a little more. If you stop every time
- he tells you that he doesn't like it (i.e., his skin twitches or he
- pins his ears), he won't feel threatened, and pretty soon he will
- learn to trust you. He may never really LOVE being groomed, but if
- he knows you aren't going to hurt him, he will learn to tolerate it.
- Be sure to REALLY praise him if he behaves himself for even a few
- minutes at a time. And listen to what he "tells" you. If everytime
- you touch a certain area, he tenses or twitches his skin, chances
- are this is a very sensitive area. If you find a good, "itchy" spot,
- reward him by scratching there often. A few areas that my guys love to
- have scratched are: between the eyes, under the chin, behind the ears,
- on the withers, and their most favorite, on their, uhh, bottom(??), right
- beside/under their tail. Whenever I scratch them there, they raise there
- tails and stretch out their necks and get this really stupid look
- on their face - I guess you call it "horse bliss".
-
- Anyway, good luck you Dollar. I hope the two of you get to be
- best friends.
-
- Marian Dabay
-
-