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- $Unique_ID{BRK00420}
- $Pretitle{}
- $Title{Opinion on Sexual Activity in Older Persons}
- $Subject{sex aging Mental Emotional condition Conditions sexual desire
- activity elderly aged elder old older geriatric touching caressing behavior
- behaviors lifestyle lifestyles}
- $Volume{E-23}
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- Copyright (c) 1991-92,1993 Tribune Media Services, Inc.
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- Opinion on Sexual Activity in Older Persons
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- QUESTION: You recently discussed sexual activity in an older person, and gave
- your opinion that you never became too old for sex. I think you are wrong,
- from my own personal observations, and are giving your readers a bum steer
- just to satisfy your own personal and hidden feelings. I bet you never
- publish this letter.
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- ANSWER: I suppose when you are wrong, you might as well be totally wrong, and
- so I will publish your letter and respond to your concerns. Family physicians
- are becoming more and more aware that they must consider the possibility of
- sexual desire and sexual activity in even their most elderly patients. This
- is not a moral or social judgement, or even an expression of personal
- sentiment, but merely acknowledges the facts as we are beginning to understand
- them, and the fulfillment of our responsibilities to our patients. A recent
- study conducted by the San Francisco State University, as reported in the
- Archives of Sexual Behavior, surveyed 202 healthy retirement home residents,
- ages 80 to 102. They discovered that while 62% of the men and 30% of the
- women actually experienced intercourse, 88% of the men and 72% of the women
- thought about it in daydreams and fantasy. The most common sexual activity
- was touching and caressing without actual coitus, for many men expressed fears
- of poor performance and inability to maintain an erection, while the women
- lacked vaginal lubrication and drive. Though orgasm was difficult to attain,
- it is clear that the will was still there, and the desire to express their own
- humanness was still aglow. My answers respond to the requests for
- information of my readers, based upon the facts as I find them. You need not
- feel threatened by my findings or your feelings, but are free to live your
- life as you choose, and in a manner that brings you happiness and joy.
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- The material contained here is "FOR INFORMATION ONLY" and should not replace
- the counsel and advice of your personal physician. Promptly consulting your
- doctor is the best path to a quick and successful resolution of any medical
- problem.
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