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                            ├∩⌡≥⌠Θετ

Thσá matσ oµ Prometheaε N╘ ma∙ wel∞ believσ tha⌠ thσ N╘ i≤á quitσ ì
obliviou≤á t∩ hi≤ welfare¼á anΣ ma∙ seσ hiφ a≤ unawarσá oµá dail∙ ì
event≤á whicΦ makσ u≡ thσ streaφ oµ homel∙ famil∙ life«á Thσ matσ ì
oµá aε N╘ ma∙ lonτ fo≥ morσ frequentl∙ verbalizeΣ expression≤á oµ ì
affectioε anΣ concerε oε thσ par⌠ oµ thσ NT« Thσ NT¼ oε thσ othe≥ ì
hand¼á woulΣá probabl∙ bσ amazeΣ tha⌠ hi≤ o≥ he≥ wa∙ oµá relatinτ ì
anΣ lovinτ i≤ experienceΣ b∙ thσ matσ a≤ beinτ alooµ o≥ uncaring.

NT≤á d∩ seeφ rathe≥ colΣ anΣ unemotiona∞ t∩á othe≥á temperaments« ì
The∙á tenΣ t∩ contro∞ anΣ hidσ thei≥ emotion≤ behinΣ aεá immobilσ ì
facia∞ stance¼ witΦ onl∙ thσ eye≤ transmittinτ deptΦ oµ reaction« ì
┴áá publiπá displa∙á oµá emotioεá o≥á affectioεá i≤á particularl∙ ì
repugnan⌠ t∩ aε NT.

Becausσá oµá thσ NT'≤ distastσ fo≥ statinτ thσ obviou≤á o≥á beinτ ì
redundant¼á thσá N╘ i≤ ap⌠ t∩ verbalizσ expression≤ oµá affectioε ì
rathe≥ infrequently«á T∩ othe≥ type≤ thi≤ seem≤ colΣ anΣ miserly¼ ì
anΣá the∙ ofteε arσ hur⌠ b∙ thσ withholding«á T∩ thσ NT¼á statinτ ì
wha⌠ i≤ alread∙ establisheΣ i≤ raisinτ doub⌠ wherσ therσ i≤ none« ì
Thσ commitmen⌠ ha≤ beeε made¼á thσ positioε ha≤ beeεá taken«á AnΣ ì
thi≤ commitmen⌠ stand≤ unti∞ notified«á Therefore¼ clearly¼ i⌠ i≤ ì
unnecessar∙á anΣá inappropriatσá t∩ restatσ thσá establisheΣá anΣ ì
obvious.

Iεá establishinτ sexua∞ relationship≤ NT≤ arσ no⌠ likel∙ t∩á givσ ì
iεá t∩ impulse¼á gettinτ involveΣ oε ß spur-of-the-momen⌠á basis« ì
Rathe≥á the∙ arσ likel∙ t∩ thinδ througΦ relationship≤ carefully¼ ì
givinτ prolongeΣ consideratioε t∩ projections« Oncσ thσ matte≥ i≤ ì
though⌠ through¼ thσ N╘ i≤ read∙ t∩ proceeΣ witΦ investinτ iε thσ ì
relationship«á Iµ i⌠ doe≤ no⌠ worδ out¼ thσ N╘ i≤ likel∙ t∩ shruτ ì
hi≤á o≥á he≥á shoulder≤ anΣ turε away¼á perhap≤á witΦá onl∙á milΣ ì
regrets«á Oncσ aε N╘ ha≤ madσ ß decision¼á however¼á ß changσá oµ ì
hear⌠á i≤ no⌠ likel∙ t∩ occu≥ oε hi≤ o≥ he≥á part¼á provided¼á oµ ì
course¼á tha⌠ ß responsσ ha≤ beeε forthcominτ froφ thσ recipient« ì
And¼á iε al∞ likelihood¼á thσ N╘ wil∞ develo≡ thσ relationshi≡ a≤ ì
hσ o≥ shσ ha≤ conceiveΣ it« Iµ thσ situaioε call≤ fo≥ ß long-terφ ìècommitment¼á ßá long-terφá commitmen⌠ i≤ made«á Iµ thσá situatioε ì
call≤á fo≥ ß short-terφ commitment¼á ß short-terφá investmen⌠á i≤ ì
made«á ┴ peculia≥ dynamiπ i≤ herσ likel∙ t∩ occur║á Wheε thσ NT'≤ ì
inten⌠á i≤á ßá long-terφá commitment¼á thi≤ fac⌠á i≤á no⌠á likel∙ ì
verbalized¼á sincσ fo≥ thσ NT¼ thi≤ inten⌠ i≤ obvious« Bu⌠ iµ thσ ì
relationshi≡á i≤á t∩ bσ short-term¼á thi≤ fac⌠ i≤á likel∙á t∩á bσ ì
verbalized¼á jus⌠á iε casσ i⌠ i≤ no⌠ obvious«á NT≤ arσ likel∙á t∩ ì
hono≥áá ßá persona∞á commitmen⌠á oncσá made¼áá eveεá thougΦáá thσ ì
relationshi≡áá wa≤áá no⌠áá consummateΣáá a≤áá satisfactoril∙áá a≤ ì
anticipated« No≥ i≤ thσ N╘ likel∙ t∩ verbalizσ an∙ disappointmen⌠ ì
o≥ dissatisfactioε iµ sucΦ i≤ thσ case.

Thσá N╘á matσ i≤ no⌠ ap⌠ t∩ holΣ mate≤ responsiblσá fo≥á discord╗ ì
usuall∙á thσá burdeε oµ doinτ whateve≥ need≤ t∩ bσ donσá wil∞á bσ ì
seeε b∙ NT≤ a≤ thei≥ owε responsibility«á Thσ NTs¼ a≤ ß group¼ d∩ ì
no⌠á thrivσá oεá conflic⌠á a⌠ ß persona∞á level«á The∙á d∩á enjo∙ ì
intellectua∞á dispute¼á bu⌠ quarrelinτ oε aε emotiona∞á leve∞á i≤ ì
somethinτá NT≤ finΣ destructive╗á generall∙ aε N╘ wil∞ walδá awa∙ ì
froφ thi≤ kinΣ oµ interaction.



                               ╙σ°

NT≤á ofteεá havσ ß curiou≤ amoralit∙ relateΣá t∩á thσá generally-ì
accepteΣ standard≤ oµ sexua∞ behaviors« Thσ rule≤ oµ societ∙ havσ ì
littlσ pressurσ fo≥ NTs¼ bu⌠ thei≥ owε idiosyncratiπ standard≤ oµ ì
conduc⌠ do« Thesσ usuall∙ havσ beeε carefull∙ considered¼ anΣ arσ ì
followeΣ witΦ o≥ withou⌠ society'≤ approval« Thσ sexua∞ ethic≤ oµ ì
aεá N╘ arσ generall∙ hi≤ own╗á the∙ ma∙ o≥ ma∙ no⌠ conforφ t∩ thσ ì
genera∞ more≤ oµ sexua∞ behavio≥ curren⌠ iε an∙ giveε time.

Establishinτá ßá sexua∞á o≥á socia∞á relationshi≡á witΦá aεáá NT¼ ì
especiall∙á introverteΣ NTs¼á usuall∙ require≤ morσ investmen⌠ oµ ì
timσá anΣá energ∙ thaε witΦ othe≥ types«á Thi≤ i≤á especiall∙á iε ì
contras⌠ witΦ SPs¼ wh∩ arσ morσ read∙ t∩ establisΦ relationships« ì
Often¼ type≤ wh∩ arσ no⌠ NT≤ arσ unwillinτ t∩ inves⌠ thσ timσ anΣ ì
energ∙á requireΣ t∩ relatσ t∩ aε NT«á Eveε thσá extraverteΣá NTs¼ ì
althougΦá apparentl∙á eas∙ t∩ ge⌠ t∩ know¼á arσá actuall∙á fairl∙ ì
difficul⌠á t∩ understand¼á fo≥ thσ personalit∙ structurσ oµ aε N╘ ì
i≤á characteristicall∙ comple° and¼á a⌠ times¼á eveεá convoluted« ì
Friend≤á anΣ mate≤ oµ NT≤ repeatedl∙ expres≤ surprisσ a⌠ ßá face⌠ ì
oµ characte≥ the∙ finΣ iε thσ NT¼á onσ tha⌠ haΣ no⌠ beeε apparen⌠ ì
previously.

Femalσá NTs¼á iεá particular¼á arσ ap⌠ t∩á havσá thei≥á sexualit∙ ì
overlaiΣá witΦ intellectualism«á Thei≥ preferencσ fo≥ thσ logica∞ ì
caε obscurσ expression≤ oµ thei≥ feelings¼á whicΦ ma∙ o≥ ma∙á no⌠ ì
bσ wel∞ developed« Iµ not¼ thσ N╘ femalσ ma∙ havσ difficult∙ witΦ ì
orgasmiπá response≤ unles≤ he≥ partne≥ take≤ thσ time¼á make≤ thσ ì
effort¼ anΣ understand≤ thσ necessit∙ oµ makinτ ß sexua∞ approacΦ ì
througΦá mutua∞á exploratioεá oµá intellectua∞á concepts«á I⌠á i≤ ì
unlikel∙á tha⌠á aεá N╘ femalσ wil∞ bσ sexuall∙á stimulateΣá b∙á ß ì
partne≥á wh∩á i≤á no⌠ he≥ intellectua∞ equal«á Malσá NT≤á havσá ß ì
somewha⌠ differen⌠ expectatioε concerninτ intellectua∞á equality« ìèThσ preferencσ herσ i≤ fo≥ equalit∙ a⌠ mos⌠ anΣ somσ -bu⌠ no⌠ to∩ ì
mucΦáá -inferiorit∙áá a⌠á best«áá Obviously¼áá thi≤á place≤áá thσ ì
intellectually-gifteΣ femalσ iε ß positioε oµ limiteΣ appropriatσ ì
N╘ choices.

Iεá an∙á event¼á botΦ femalσ anΣ malσ NT≤ caε brinτ t∩á ßá sexua∞ ì
relationshi≡á ßá willingnes≤ t∩ explorσ possibilitie≤á oµá erotiπ ì
arousal«á Iµá the∙ havσ s∩ markeΣ i⌠ ou⌠ a≤ onσ oµ thei≥ area≤ oµ ì
competency¼á NT≤ caε bσ quitσ exper⌠ iε sexua∞á technology«á The∙ ì
arσáá ver∙á ap⌠á t∩á posses≤á skil∞á iεá botΦá thσá physica∞á anΣ ì
psychologica∞á logistic≤ involveΣ iε sexua∞ intercourse¼á anΣá t∩ ì
understanΣá wel∞ thσ necessit∙ fo≥ thi≤ relationshi≡ t∩ bσá baseΣ ì
oε ß widσ variet∙ oµ commoε interes⌠ outsidσ thσ bedroom«á Unlikσ ì
thσá NF¼á wh∩á migh⌠ conside≥ i⌠ unromantiπá t∩á stud∙á carefull∙ ì
scientifiπá treatise≤á oε sexualit∙ (e.g.¼á Master≤ anΣá Johnson¼ ì
1966)¼á NT≤ woulΣ bσ likel∙ t∩ d∩ so¼á findinτ i⌠ relativel∙ eas∙ ì
t∩á translatσá thesσá objectivσ finding≤á int∩á creativσá sexual¼ ì
sensua∞ behavior.



                          ╔ε⌠σ≥≡σ≥≤∩εß∞

Outsidσ thσ bedroom¼á NT≤ seeφ t∩ havσ morσ difficult∙ thaε othe≥ ì
type≤á iε engaginτ iε play«á The∙ are¼á oε thσ whole¼á ap⌠ t∩á bσ ì
rathe≥ serious¼ findinτ i⌠ amusinτ t∩ dialoguσ a⌠ wha⌠ the∙ migh⌠ ì
cal∞á "seventΦ planσ oµ irreality,ó ß pastimσ whicΦá othe≥á type≤ ì
arσ ap⌠ t∩ finΣ rathe≥ dull« Fo≥ thσ NT¼ thσ amusinτ anΣ humorou≤ ì
i≤á usuall∙ subtlσ and¼á morσ ofteε thaε not¼á baseΣ oε ß pla∙ oε ì
words«á The∙ especiall∙ enjo∙ humo≥ whicΦ contain≤ aεá unexpecteΣ ì
doublσ meaning¼á bu⌠ -unlikσ thσ SP≤ and¼ a⌠ times¼ thσ SJ≤ -the∙ ì
d∩á no⌠á enjo∙ ribalΣ sexua∞ storie≤ o≥ practica∞ joke≤ anΣá finΣ ì
thσá recountinτ oµ botΦ somewha⌠ offensive¼á especill∙á iεá mixeΣ ì
company.

┴á fe≈á dee≡á relationship≤á arσ thσ usua∞á patterεá oµá aεá NT'≤ ì
emotiona∞áá history;á promiscuit∙á i≤á typicall∙á regardeΣáá witΦ ì
distaste«á Thσá experiencσ oµ partne≥ swappinτ i≤ ap⌠ t∩ repe∞ aε ì
NT,áá wh∩á would,á iεá al∞á probability,á finΣá thi≤áá experiencσ ì
psychologicall∙á scarring«á Thσ N╘ matσ i≤ no⌠ likel∙ t∩á discus≤ ì
pas⌠ persona∞ involvement≤ witΦ ß matσ o≥ witΦ other≤ anΣá almos⌠ ì
neve≥ discusse≤ ß matσ witΦ friends«

Sensualit∙ begin≤ fo≥ aε N╘ iε thσ imagination¼ a≤ i⌠ doe≤ fo≥ aε ì
NF╗á botΦá type≤á arσ capablσ oµ nuance≤ oµ appreciatioεá oµá thσ ì
erotiπá whicΦá thosσ witΦ ╙ preference≤ migh⌠ finΣ irrelevan⌠á o≥ ì
eveεá unfathomable«á A≤á ß sexua∞ partner¼á aε N╘ caεá bσá highl∙ ì
creative¼á imaginative¼á anΣ exciting« Thσ degreσ oµ satisfactioε ì
fo≥ aε N╘ iε ß relationshi≡ wil∞ bσ correlateΣ witΦ thσ deptΦá oµ ì
thσ relationship« Still¼ merσ sexua∞ releasσ i≤ sometime≤ seeε a≤ ì
necessary¼ particularl∙ iµ sexua∞ tension≤ arσ gettinτ iε thσ wa∙ ì
oµ importan⌠ work«á Iε tha⌠ event¼á thσ tensioε i≤ careΣ fo≥ witΦ ì
dispatcΦ anΣ a≤ convenientl∙ a≤ possible.

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                             ╙∩πΘß∞

NT≤ tenΣ t∩ bσ relativel∙ uninteresteΣ iε acquirinτ wealtΦ anΣ a≤ ì
mates¼á therefore¼á tenΣá t∩á bσ satisfieΣ witΦá modes⌠á comfort« ì
Possession≤á a≤á aεá enΣ iε itselµ seem≤á no⌠á t∩á motivatσá NTs╗ ì
rather¼ enjoymen⌠ iε thσ beaut∙ oµ aε object¼ pleasure≤ oµ desigε ì
anΣ building¼á pleasurσ iε elegan⌠ functioninτ iε possession≤ al∞ ì
motivatσ aε NT«á ┴ vintagσ care¼á ß classiπ airplane¼á aε elegan⌠ ì
ar⌠á object¼áá owneΣá o≥á not¼á givσá pleasurσá t∩á aεá NT«á Thi≤ ì
characteristiπá N╘á trai⌠ -enjoyinτ withou⌠ needinτ t∩ posses≤á -ì
ofteεá cause≤á mate≤á wh∩á d∩á no⌠á sharσá thi≤á detachmen⌠á somσ ì
impatience«á Thσá NT'≤á usua∞ disinteres⌠ iεá acquirinτá materia∞ ì
wealtΦ beyonΣ tha⌠ necessar∙ fo≥ reasonablσ securit∙ anΣá comfor⌠ ì
caεá als∩á providσá somσ dissonancσ iε thσá matinτá relationship« ì
AlthougΦ aε N╘ periodicall∙ i≤ inspireΣ t∩ acquirσá wealth¼á thi≤ ì
urgσá seldoφ last≤ lonτ enougΦ t∩ acquirσ tha⌠ fortune«á Thσ NT'≤ ì
attentioεá quickl∙ turn≤ oncσ agaiε t∩ thσ theoretical¼á anΣá thσ ì
momentar∙ interes⌠ iε becominτ wealth∙ dissipate≤ -onl∙ t∩ returε ì
froφ timσ t∩ timσ witΦ thσ samσ result.

NT≤ seldom¼ however¼ losσ interes⌠ iε owninτ book≤ anΣ knowledge╗ ì
thesσá holΣ thei≥ interes⌠ yea≥ afte≥ year¼á anΣ aε NT'≤ homσá i≤ ì
likel∙ t∩ bσ well-lineΣ witΦ books«á Iε fact¼á thσ non-N╘ matσ oµ ì
aεá N╘ ofteε perceive≤ thσ N╘ a≤ directinτ exclusivσ attentioε t∩ ì
thσá worlΣá oµ theor∙ anΣ techniques¼á a⌠ thσ expensσá oµá givinτ ì
sufficien⌠á attentioεá t∩á thσá mate«áá AlthougΦá NT'≤á ma∙á seeφ ì
obliviou≤á t∩ thσ homσ lifσ goinτ abou⌠ them¼á the∙ usuall∙á sho≈ ì
interes⌠á wheεá thesσ event≤ arσ brough⌠ t∩á attention«á NT≤á arσ ì
somewha⌠á vaguσá abou⌠ socia∞ time¼á especiall∙á thσá introverteΣ ì
NT's¼á anΣ ma∙ bσ unaware¼ unles≤ reminded¼ wha⌠ hour¼ day¼ date¼ ì
o≥á seasoεá i⌠á is«á Thi≤ caε leaΣ t∩ difficult∙á iεá thσá matinτ ì
relationshi≡á wheεá thσá matσ i≤ ß typσá t∩á whoφá anniversaries¼ ì
birthdays¼ anΣ thσ likσ arσ important.



                            ─∩φσ≤⌠Θπ

BotΦáá NT≤áá anΣá introverteΣá NF≤á tenΣá t∩áá develo≡áá intimatσ ì
relationship≤á rathe≥ slowely╗á intellectua∞ developmen⌠ seem≤ t∩ ì
proceeΣ a⌠ ß faste≥ ratσ thaε doe≤ socia∞ development«á Fo≥á botΦ ì
NT≤áá anΣáá NFs¼áá communication≤á sen⌠á througΦáá thσáá physica∞ ì
relationshi≡á arσ ap⌠ t∩ becomσ morσ anΣ morσ comple° ove≥á time¼ ì
witΦá thei≥á approache≤á t∩ thσ sexua∞á encounte≥á threadeΣá witΦ ì
subtletie≤ anΣ symbolism« Thσ sexua∞ ac⌠ i≤ usuall∙ giveε meaninτ ì
beyonΣá merσ releasσ froφ sexua∞ tension«á Sexua∞ contac⌠ fo≥ thσ ì
introverteΣ N╘ ma∙ bσ les≤ frequen⌠ thaε fo≥ thσ extraverteΣá NT« ì
Routine≤á oµ dail∙ living¼á sucΦ a≤ workinτ -especiall∙ iµá thesσ ì
dail∙ routine≤ arσ fraugh⌠ witΦ conflic⌠ -caε bσ quitσ repressivσ ì
t∩á thσ emotiona∞ anΣ sexua∞ readines≤ oµ thσ NT¼á especiall∙ thσ ì
introverteΣ N╘ (a≤ wel∞ a≤ thσ intoverteΣ NF)«á NT≤ ma∙ engagσ iε ì
thσ se° ac⌠ a≤ ß profounΣ expressioε oµ love¼ or¼ a⌠ thσ oppositσ ì
extreme¼á a≤á aεá ac⌠ oµ self-humiliatioεá anΣá self-denigration¼ ì
resultinτ iε disgus⌠ fo≥ self.è
NT≤ usuall∙ takσ famil∙ responsibilitie≤ seriously¼á particularl∙ ì
thei≥á owε responsibilit∙ t∩ member≤ oµ thei≥á family¼á includinτ ì
thei≥ parents«á The∙ are¼á however¼ ofteε perceiveΣ b∙ member≤ oµ ì
thσáá famil∙á a≤á havinτá morσá psychologica∞á distancσáá betweeε ì
themselve≤á anΣ other≤ thaε d∩ othe≥ types«á Thσ N╘ tend≤ no⌠á t∩ ì
"ownóá thσ behavior≤ (o≥ body⌐ oµ hi≤ matσ a≤ migh⌠ othe≥á types« ì
Thσ error≤ oµ others¼á whethe≥ famil∙ member≤ o≥ not¼ arσ no⌠ thσ ì
NT'≤ errors¼ anΣ arσ handleΣ objectively« Thσ NT'≤ owε error≤ arσ ì
thosσá whicΦá arσ inexcusable¼á anΣ unforgiveable«á Parentinτá i≤ ì
usuall∙ ß pleasure¼á therefore¼ fo≥ aε NT¼ wh∩ seem≤ t∩ watcΦ thσ ì
growtΦá oµ childreε (anΣ ß mate!⌐ witΦ jo∙ bu⌠ a≤ somewha⌠á oµá ß ì
bystander.