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- From: marcia@netcom.com (Marcia)
- Newsgroups: soc.singles
- Subject: Re: Credibility...
- Message-ID: <1993Jan26.233528.8349@netcom.com>
- Date: 26 Jan 93 23:35:28 GMT
- References: <1993Jan25.214231.15049@netcom.com> <1993Jan26.004406.28171@noose.ecn.purdue.edu> <C1GIDB.8pp@usenet.ucs.indiana.edu>
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- In article <C1GIDB.8pp@usenet.ucs.indiana.edu> kiran@bronze.ucs.indiana.edu (Kiran Wagle) writes:
- >But... if the right person comes along when a relationship isn't high
- >on one's list of priorities, one might miss them entirely.
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- Then, by definition, they aren't the right one. The right one would have the
- right timing, too, or s/he wouldn't be the right one. The timing would be
- all wrong.
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- Then again, I don't believe in just one "right person" for anyone. I think
- there are a certain number of potential "right ones" for each person, and
- missing one doesn't mean you'll never find another. Also, I believe that
- certain people are "right" for others at certain times. Certainly, the men
- who were "right" for me in college are not the men who are "right" for me
- now. The challenge of relationships: not only to be Mr/Ms Right now, but to
- grow and change so that you keep being Mr/Ms Right.
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