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- From: lionel@cs.city.ac.uk (Lionel Tun)
- Subject: Re: Men bonding with their Children.
- Message-ID: <1993Jan25.164902.16749@city.cs>
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- Date: Mon, 25 Jan 93 16:49:02 GMT
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- In article <25376@galaxy.ucr.edu> starbuck@galaxy.ucr.edu (starbuck) writes:
- >14. I spent time on our relationship. I can see that she is now in
- > transition from childhood to adulthood and can see the result of
- > my actions as a parent. I am working on letting go of control
- > of her life slowly but with a lot of thought. To me this is
- > difficult knowing how much freedom to give her. Once given
- > it cannot be taken back.
- >
- >I could go on and on and on about events in our lives where nurturing
- >and bonding have taken place in our lives but I am only one man. What
- >I have done will not be the same or approprate for others. I would like
- >to hear from other men how they have bonded with their children with
- >particular interest those men with teen's.
- >
- >Bond on and love you children!
-
- Thank you very much for a wonderful post! I have two daughters
- aged 2 and 4. I often wonder how they will be as teenagers,
- and I can see that the way is to help them _as_ they grow up,
- not _after_ they have grown up. I believe your approach is very
- sound and I can see great love at work.
-
- >starbuch
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