In article <1993Jan26.150649.14066@bsu-ucs> 00cmmiller@leo.bsuvc.bsu.edu writes:
>dear david livigni:
>you said yourself that your fiance is a cold-hearted bitch. that doesn't
>sound good to me. how can you think of spending the REST OF YOUR LIFE
>with a cold-hearted bitch?! i don't get it. i'm sorry, but no matter
>how lonely i am, i will NOT be with an animal-hater. i saw a couple of
>your last posts and keeping those cats in the basement is cruel. do you
>think they're happy in there? your most recent post made me really sad.
>you obviously love those animals very much. you're going to be miserable
>if you give them up! why can't she compromise? marriage is filled
>with compromise; if she won't be civil about the cats, what else will
>then she'll be this way about EVERYTHING, not just your kitties.
>enough of my tangent. does anyone agree or disagree with what
>i've said? david needs some advice and a lot of support.
>
>candace miller
>department of psychology, ball state university
>
>*my opinions belong to ME*
I'd go along with every word of that! If her idea of a world is one that is made for humans, in which animals have no part, I would be very very wary of her too. As has been previously said, if she cant compromise about your favourite kitties when you are at the begining of a relationship, what will it be like in 2-3 years time??? So talk to her, discuss it with her, but if the answer is still no on the cats - well I wouldnt do it!
Linus
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