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- From: friendmr@duvm.ocs.drexel.edu
- Newsgroups: alt.romance
- Subject: Re: Advice please!!
- Message-ID: <1993Jan26.134328.27545@netnews.noc.drexel.edu>
- Date: 26 Jan 93 13:43:28 GMT
- References: <1993Jan25.210627.10562@ac.dal.ca>
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- In article <1993Jan25.210627.10562@ac.dal.ca> rtousi@ac.dal.ca writes:
- >Hi
- > Is it right to try and steal a girl from a boyfriend who is making her
- >life miserable by his neglect, even though she still loves him. But she openly
- >admitts he's making her life Hell.
- >
-
- It may not be exactly right for you to try and take her away but the least you
- can do is try to be there for her and tell her that she needs to go on. If you
- try to take her away from him it might back fire on you and in the end she will
- resent you for taking her away from someone she cared about. I have
- experienced this first hand before.
-
- I also once had a friend that was in the girl's position that you are talking
- about and she wound up blaming the guy who took her away for her troubles. The
- best thing for you to do is listen to her problems and let her know that she
- has someone who will treat her like she deserves to be treated.
-
-
- Terethia Knighton
-
- B.K.A.
- Tere
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