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- Subject: Re: Curious?
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- From: jsteiner@anwsun.phya.utoledo.edu (jason 'Think!' steiner)
- Date: 21 Jan 93 19:55:19 EST
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- ap.6575@cupid.sai.com (AJ) writes:
- >
- > How many men are intimidated by extremely independent women?
-
- too many?
-
- > I am very independent, however maintain my femininity, but
- > I keep meeting men with low self-confidence/esteem who have
- > a problem with my independence and very direct, open approach
- > to everything in life. When I do have a SO, I give 100% to the
- > relationship while maintaining my independence.
-
- congratulations. independent women are rare.
-
- > Advise or comments at all will be appreciated. Thanks in advance.
-
- advice? it sounds like you've got the right idea already. if you
- were implying "How do I find someone who's not insecure?" then
- my advice is just to keep looking.
-
- look for someone who's confident enough not to really care what
- other people think of him, but thinks well of other people. that
- may not be the kind of thing you can notice right away, so take
- time to make some close friends & find out what they're really
- like. you're searching for something that's not exactly common,
- so don't be too surprised when it's difficult to find.
-
- good luck, best wishes.
-
- jason
-
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