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- From: farris@ruhets.rutgers.edu (Lorenzo Farris)
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- Subject: Re: What is pleasure, fun, joy ?
- Date: 25 Dec 1992 15:52:00 -0800
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- In article <47569@ogicse.ogi.edu>, abulsari@abo.fi (Abhay Bulsari VT) writes:
- :Earlier I mentioned that pain and suffering are to a good extent due
- :to mental conditioning. This can be extended to pleasure, joy and fun
- :as well. Happiness might be a different thing. I hope some people will
- :disagree with me.
-
- Pain and suffering are not the same. Pain is our physiological or
- emotional reaction to something. Suffering is a purely mental event.
- By the same token, pleasure is physiological and emotional, while
- happiness is mental.
-
- (Just out of curiousity, do you extend different meanings to joy and
- happiness, and if so, could you elaborate on this?)
-
- There is also another classes of things we find
- pleasurable/unpleasant, based on mental events.
-
- :What is pleasure ? When we ask ourselves this question, we find that
- :there is no simple answer to it, and the concept is somewhat hollow.
- :We have conditioned our minds to think that certain things are
- :pleasant, even though they might be painful (scratching, drinking
- :bitter drinks, etc.) Travelling is often considered a pleasure by many
- :people. We will consider this separately at some other time.
-
- Again, many of these pleasures are tied to physiology. And how is a
- bitter drink painful, by the way? (As I sip my black coffee here ;)
-
- :
- :Why is it pleasant to listen to some kinds of music, which differs
- :from person to person ? Why is it that some kinds of music are sheer
- :noise for some people, but music to others ? We have cheated our minds
- :and forced it to think that certain kinds of sounds are musical, and
- :others are not.
-
- To a certain extent this is true. However, the quality of music is
- also tied in with its ability to evoke certain responses from us, so
- part of the pleasure/distaste of music is intrinsic to us.
-
- Why is it pleasant to look at mountainous scenery with
- :a river or a lake, trees and birds ? Why is it not so pleasant to look
- :at slums ? Why are some tastes good and others bad ? Why are some
- :chemicals perfumes while some others smell bad ? I think it is all due
- :to conditioning of the mind. It is a different issue in psychology how
- :this conditioning takes place - why certain things are pleasant and
- :others not, but the classification : pleasant/unpleasant has no basis.
- :
-
- Again, some is mental, some is physiological. Tastes are
- physiological. Smells are physiological. If something smells or tastes
- good or bad, it has to do on some level with the appropriateness to
- your body of taking this substance in.
-
- :It should be easier to attain a balanced state of mind (sthitapragnya)
- :once one realises the hollowness of these concepts of pleasure and
- :pain.
-
- Suffering is hollow, but not pain. Suffering is a mental state. We
- have no choice in whether or not to feel pain, if circumstances induce
- it. We do have a choice, ultimately, of whether we suffer from this
- pain or not. To make this concrete, let's say I have a headache. No
- matter what I do, the physiological response is there. However, to the
- extent that I dwell mentally on that event, or turn my attention to
- other things, I will or will not suffer.
-
- :What is joy ? What is ecstasy ? It is a feeling which arises in the
- :mind under some circumstances. That arising, however, is again
- :baseless. Some circumstances result in joy, others don't. How does
- :mind decide what is joyful ?
-
- As suffering and happiness are purely mental events, to a certain
- extent, we are taught what constitutes happiness and suffering. Part
- of what I am doing is decoupling suffering and happiness from external
- events, to the degree I am able. If I feel pain, I acknowledge that is
- my body or my heart telling me something needs adjustment if possible.
-
- Part of the way I interpret the Buddhist notion of unattachment is a
- decoupling of suffering/happiness from external events. Happiness and
- suffering are mental states that I can choose to dwell in.
-
- This is where Maya comes in. I "know" that all I have to do to be
- happy is to remember to be happy. But somehow I manage to forget this
- a lot. My practice is in part learning not to forget.
-
- All IMHO and IME.
- Lorenzo
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