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- From: srlee@beta.lanl.gov (Stephen R Lee)
- Subject: Re: Opal's Inferiority Complex
- Message-ID: <1992Dec22.163453.12340@newshost.lanl.gov>
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- Organization: Los Alamos National Laboratory
- References: <BzEu6u.A8A@acsu.buffalo.edu> <17DEC199211530733@lims02.lerc.nasa.gov> <1992Dec21.115206.3006@mtroyal.ab.ca>
- Date: Tue, 22 Dec 1992 16:34:53 GMT
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- In article <1992Dec21.115206.3006@mtroyal.ab.ca> shoran@mtroyal.ab.ca writes:
- >In article <17DEC199211530733@lims02.lerc.nasa.gov>, prkenne@lims02.lerc.nasa.gov (CAROL SHARP) writes:
- >> In article <BzEu6u.A8A@acsu.buffalo.edu>, kkeating@acsu.buffalo.edu (Kelly Anne Hinkle) writes...
- >>>The problem is this--whenever I scold Jessica for doing something she knows
- >>>she shouldn't, Opal slinks away like I'm yelling at her. So as I'm saying,
- >>>"J, no!", I have to say "Good dog, Opal!" It's kinda hard sometimes! :)
- >>>
- >>>Any suggestions?
- >>
- >> I'd also be very interested in suggestions as Buddy has the same reaction
- >> when I yell at the cat. He doesn't seem to understand that kitty is not
- >> his name and he's not the bad one!
- >>
- >> Carol
- >>
- >
- >My dogs have always reacted this way, looking sad/guilty and slinking off as if
- >in disgrace, whether I was scolding husband/child/another dog/cat. I always
- >figured it was a sympathetic gesture on their part, feeling sad and upset that
- >I was angry enough to yell at some other poor creature in the house. It always
- >make me smile and call out to the innocent one, "OK, Cassy, you can come out
- >from under the couch, I didn't mean you!" And that's usually enough to bring
- >her wriggling out, relieved and wagging and smiling. (It's usually enough for
- >the transgressor to do the same too, hoping for forgiveness!)
-
- Dogs are very good at reading body language. In their mind, alpha is not happy.
- Their looking "sad/guilty" and "slinking off" are all submissive behaviors. In
- their minds, this is the proper thing to do in this situation. Be submissive
- to alpha. It is a very natural reaction.
-
- >
- >Stef
-
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