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- From: sms@cbnewsf.cb.att.com (steven.m.stein)
- Subject: Re: Question: How to increase the male sex drive ?
- Message-ID: <1992Nov17.220838.5557@cbfsb.cb.att.com>
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- Date: Tue, 17 Nov 1992 22:08:38 GMT
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- In article <1992Nov17.202235.20777@tessi.com> allen@tessi.com (Allen Warren) writes:
- >markr@mot.com (Mark) writes:
- >
-
- >>woman (about 31) with, to put it lightly, a very high sex drive. My sex drive
- >>has reduced markedly over the past 4 years, and I would like to do what I can
- >>to increase it.
- >
- >
- >I'm 33 and still have a high sex drive, although mine seems to be directly
- >linked to my exercise regimen.
- >
- >Anyway, for me it's exercise and weightlifting that heightens my libido.
- >
- >al
-
- Personally, I believe the main contributing factor here is "psychological"
- (barring any physical disorders). Self image (improved through exercise,
- weight lifting, etc...) improves ones own sex drive. Which inturn
- can influence how others perceive us and how WE feel others perceive us.
- Diet, of course is important for us to maintain a healthy physical and
- mental state. Physical and mental attraction toward another can influence
- our sex drive. My sex drive has increased as time moves on. I'm 38.
- Why????? I feel I have a better understanding and appreciation toward
- women than I did when I was younger (when I "thought" I knew everything).
- On the other hand, sex drive can vary from person to person due to
- physiological differences. Incompatibility in this area could be a
- problem.
-
- I dated a woman not too long ago. My drive was stronger (or should I say
- more often) than hers. We discussed it. I suggested that although she
- may not be in the "mood", if she were to compromise at times, I'm sure
- her lack of "being in the mood" would change, quickly, and it would
- be an enjoyable time for both of us. I lucked out. I was right that
- time. (We also agreed, that I would have to back off at times also,
- depending on whether she was willing to make the "sacrifice" or not.
- It's always a two way street.
-
- Steve
-