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- Subject: Re: "Just Happens"
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- From: s206001@emu.insted.unimelb.edu.au
- Date: 24 Nov 92 14:24:47 GMT
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- In article <Uf3hIni00iV304k1oS@andrew.cmu.edu>, "Paul S. Hrynko" <ph2a+@andrew.cmu.edu> writes:
- > An Example: My SO and I have also been going out for 1.5 years. We
- > used to be academic rivals, hating everything the other said and did.
- > But there were times where we would happen to be in the same place at
- > the same time. Eventually, our hating spawned an interest in what the
- > other person was doing. We came to the conclusion that we had never
- > seen each other socially. She invited me to a dance. We became distant
- > again a few weeks later. Then Good Friends. A year and a half later, I
- > dumped my current girlfriend, because I was in love with her. She came
- > up to me out of the blue and told me she loved me. BAM! Our paths had
- > crossed. I didn't do any work at all, neither did she. We had somehow
- > formed a relationship. And today, a year later, over 338 miles apart,
- > we are in love. When we separated at the end of this summer to go back
- > to college, we wanted to see how we would act apart, to see how OUR
- > relationship would be. Now, I don't even consider leaving our
- > relationship, and she the same. We do communicate more than any other
- > couple I know, and we are in love more than any other couple I know.
- > But our communication is not "making" the relationship, it is nourishing
- > the relationship, and just happened.
- >
- > Comments? Questions?
- >
- >
- >
- > --------- __
- > \ | | Paul Hrynko (Ph2a@andrew.cmu.edu)
- > / / | / Box 4838
- > --------- __ |/ 5115 Margaret Morrison
- > / / \ /| | /\ Pittsburgh, Pa 15213-3831
- > / \___/ \/ \__/\__/ \ Carnegie Mellon University 412-268-4303
- >
- > -----------------------------------------------------------------------------
- > B efore your eyes observe the union of the sky with the water,
- > E bbing and augmenting tides which know no bounds.
- > A ll observe the eternal crashing of moody waves on the sand,
- > C alling you to become part of a worldly being greater than yourself,
- > H aving the ability to attain true love, peace, and contentment.
- > -----------------------------------------------------------------------------
- Yes Paul I have one "Your relationships is one of the rare ones in this life".
- I cannot help but be envious of that fact because a lot of us know that it
- doesn't "JUST HAPPEN" for everyone and many people are alone for a long time
- before they are lucky enough to find that special person by whichever means.
- Yes we'd all like to believe in 'Cupid' and the 'magic' of it all, and I'm
- not saying there isn't some out there, but it doesn't hurt to help it along :).
- Irene
-