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- From: bradl@neptune.informix.com (Brad Levy)
- Newsgroups: alt.romance
- Subject: Re: Getting Married: Grounds for Insanity Plea?
- Message-ID: <1992Nov17.023513.7617@informix.com>
- Date: 17 Nov 92 02:35:13 GMT
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- Original poster:
- >>it's the way he leaves rings on the coffee table with his beer cans.
-
- Cheryl:
- >
- >So, give him a coaster. :)
- >
- >
- >IMHO, people expect too much. A good marriage is a truckload of work and
- >effort and never a day off. But if you're in love, you'll do it gladly.
- >
- >Cheryl
-
-
- I think Cheryl is right. Its an attitude. If you look on every nit-pick as
- an excuse to dislike your spouse, or move apart from your spouse, the
- marriage will end up in the dumps. But if both people love each other,
- and know how to communicate with each other, they look for solutions (sometimes
- as simple as a coaster :-) ) to the problems, and with each "problems solved
- or overcome" grow closer, instead of apart. Its not easy, but can be very
- rewarding.
-
- -Brad
-