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- From: alasnik@casbah.acns.nwu.edu (Adam Lasnik)
- Subject: Re: I could've figured this would happen
- Message-ID: <1992Nov18.065709.18744@news.acns.nwu.edu>
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- Organization: Northwestern University, Evanston, Illinois, USA
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- Date: Wed, 18 Nov 1992 06:57:09 GMT
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- It is with great hesitancy that I get involved in this flamewar, but one of
- Ted's comments really struck a nerve in me.
-
- Ted, you said that you "don't care." (towards the end of your posting
- regarding your non-association with Omar). You didn't explain or clarify this
- remark.
-
- Quite frankly, I think it would be a lot better if you and other people KNEW
- when to care and when not to. It seems to me, Ted, that you make frequent
- remarks online that are intended for argument sake, rather than for
- elucidation or true, sincere persuasion. If you don't, with your heart, CARE
- about racism, or about Omar's feelings, or about the feelings of fraternity
- and sorority members, than you may wish to reconsider the tone and placement
- of your public postings. It often appears that you are simply converting the
- real problems of racism AND the real problems of fraternities into legal
- arguments for the sake of a "challenge," and I for one am truly saddened by
- this approach.
-
- Ted, you are not changing minds, you are instead creating hard feelings. Just
- because you see yourself as attacking or belittling others whom you hold in
- contempt does not justify your harsh tone and bitter words.
-
- I share some of your concerns about fraternities, even though I am IN a
- fraternity. I share your frustration over racism and bigotry, even though I
- realize that my own views may be at times tainted with less than pure and
- brotherly thoughts. I admit that I am not perfect... though I work to
- postively shape my character, and the lives of those around me.
-
- Proselytizing on the net is not the answer, nor is chastising, name calling,
- or flaming. Real progress is made among consenting, mature people who share
- common goals. It is not achieved by badgering, by demanding an eye for an
- eye, nor presentation of proofs in any form.
-
- This newsgroup specifically is a place for fun, humor, mystery, and
- storytelling. I do not condone the recent Omar postings, nor do I condone the
- responses to these postings, or the alleged actions of racism or their
- responses.
-
- Instead, I urge all of us to:
- 1) Return this group to its original intent
- 2) Avoid escalating flame wars publicly
-
- I realize that I am being mildly hypocritical by adding yet another
- off-topic post to this newsgroup, but I have felt compelled to jot down my
- thoughts here, and offer what may be considered a public note to Ted.
-
- I welcome e-mail thoughts. I discourage e-mail flames.
-
- --ADAM "KEYS" LASNIK from Northwestern University
-