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- Message-ID: <1992Jul28.134937.9015@uoft02.utoledo.edu>
- Date: 28 Jul 92 13:49:37 EST
- References: <1992Jul24.164751.18550@usenet.ins.cwru.edu> <1992Jul28.145113.4251@ccu.umanitoba.ca>
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- In article <1992Jul28.145113.4251@ccu.umanitoba.ca>, kaarts@ccu.umanitoba.ca (Kenneth John Aarts) writes:
- > synth@deepthought.unm.edu (Synth F. Oberheim) writes:
- >
- >> Based on personal experience and observation -- namely, growing up
- >> around and being socialized with other males -- I've seen that most men
- >> visualize a scenario of simply "getting sex" at the expense of whoever
- >> is on the receiving end -- a purely selfish goal.
- >
- > There seems to be a hidden assumption that 'simply getting sex' would have
- > to be at the expense of a woman. Why is this? How are women's sexual
- > fantasies different form mens? Note: sexual fantasies, not romantic.
- >
- > Ken
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- The biggest difference I can think of is a woman can fulfill her sexual
- fantasies any time she wants. Men must wait for the woman to want to fulfill
- hers before they can fulfill theirs. (Not fair in the least!) The end result is
- a woman fantasizes about exercising this option of sex on demand, while the
- man fantasizes about having the option of sex on demand.
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- DC
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