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- From: stank@cbnewsl.cb.att.com (Stan Krieger)
- Subject: Re: advice needed for dealing with dentist/insurance
- Organization: Summit NJ
- Distribution: usa
- Date: Thu, 23 Jul 1992 20:26:32 GMT
- Message-ID: <1992Jul23.202632.7570@cbnewsl.cb.att.com>
- Keywords: dentist, insurance
- References: <1992Jul23.163034.4821@ucsu.Colorado.EDU>
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- >I need some advice in dealing with my dentist.
-
- >I paid for the first appointment in cash (credit card) because of
- >"office policy for new patients".
-
- Oh, this scares me. In my case I have a "policy" also. It's "We
- pay our medical bills within 48 hours after receiving a determination
- from our insurance as to what is covered. Also, for those expenses
- where our medical policy covers some percentage of the total fee,
- up to a 'reasonable and customary' limit, the insurance company
- payment and our co-payment will never exceed this reasonable and
- customary limit."
-
- I mean, does a business have a monopoly on "policy"? It seems to
- me that my "policy" is just as valid and enforceable as their
- "policy".
-
- >I do not really want to
- >deal with the abusive manner of the receptionist when I go
- >(it seems that if you question the filing of claims,
- >she gets very verbally abusive and defensive). Needless to say, I will not
- >be returning to this dentist, but I still have 4 unhealed teeth to attend
- >to in the meantime.
-
- I've heard such things too when I instruct a family member on how
- to spend my money at the doctor's (like "But she's so insistent on
- my paying at that moment", or "She insisted that I must pay $75",
- or "I feel very uncomfortable having to argue with her".). Hey
- look, if someone is violating your rights, you don't have to be
- nice, or sociable, or agreeable, or say "yes" to get rid of
- them. The worst thing you can do when arguing with a clerk who
- is trying to throw around what little power they have (because it's
- probably the only time in their life they feel important), is
- to play their game. Just disarm them. If they gripe, agree with
- them ("Yeah, I know paperwork can be a pain, but I really need
- the insurance reimbursement; I'm really having trouble because
- I laid out so much money in advance."); if they sent it in,
- NICELY ask when, so you can check with your insurance company.
- Don't be demanding, but be insistent. Beg a bit if you have
- to; as long as you get what you want, what difference does it
- make how you get what you want? Remember, all you want is for
- the claim to be filed; your goal is not to get the office staff
- to bow down to you.
-
- --
- Stan Krieger All opinions, advice, or suggestions, even
- AT&T UNIX System Laboratories if related to my employment, are my own.
- Summit, NJ
- smk@usl.com
-