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- Summary: This posting contains information about body piercing. Anyone
- interested in the subject and/or who wishes to read/post to
- rec.arts.bodyart should read the Piercing FAQ first.
-
- The rec.arts.bodyart Piercing FAQ is divided into 30 parts:
-
- 1--Introduction
- 2A--Jewelry Materials
- 2B--Jewelry Sizes & Designs
- 2C--Facial Piercings & Their Suggested Jewelry
- 2D--Body Piercings & Their Suggested Jewelry
- 2E--Genital Piercings & Their Suggested Jewelry
- 3--Getting A New Piercing
- 4A--Professional Organizations, Piercing Instruction
- 4B--Professional Piercers - United States - Alabama - California
- 4C--Professional Piercers - United States - Colorado - Iowa
- 4D--Professional Piercers - United States - Kansas - Nevada
- 4E--Professional Piercers - United States - New Hampshire - North Dakota
- 4F--Professional Piercers - United States - Ohio - Pennsylvania
- 4G--Professional Piercers - United States - Rhode Island - Wyoming
- 4H--Professional Piercers - Canada
- 4I--Professional Piercers - Beyond N. America
- 4J--Professional Piercers - Beyond N. America Cont'd
- 5--Care Of New Piercings
- 6--The Healing Process & Healing Problems
- 7--Healed Piercings
- 8--Historical Information
- 9--Resource List
- 9B--Resource List Cont'd
- 10A--Personal Experiences - Facial & Unisex Piercings
- 10B--Personal Experiences - Genital Piercings
- 10C--Personal Experiences - Genital Piercings Cont'd
- 10D--Personal Experiences - Genital Piercings Cont'd
- 11A--Jewelry Manufacturers
- 11B--Jewelry Manufacturers Cont'd
- 11C--Jewelry Manufacturers Cont'd
-
- This section includes:
-
- 10A Personal Experiences - Facial & Unisex Piercings
- 10A.1 Tongue Pierce
- 10A.2 Labret Piercing
- 10A.3 Hand Web Piercing
- 10A.4 Eyelet Piercings
- 10A.5 Ritual Nipple Piercing (Male)
- 10A.6 Niehbuhr, or Erle
- 10A.7 Piercing Inverted Nipples (Male)
-
- All texts written and (c) 1999 by Anne Greenblatt unless otherwise
- noted.
- Please see Part 1 of the FAQ for information regarding copyright and
- dissemination of the FAQ.
-
- DISCLAIMER! The Piercing FAQ contains material of a sexually explicit
- nature. The information contained in the Piercing FAQ should not be
- construed as medical advice.
-
-
- 10A PERSONAL EXPERIENCES-FACIAL & UNISEX PIERCINGS
-
- 10A.1 Tongue Pierce
- by Harry Ugol
- <harryu@warpten.EBay.sun.com>
- 1993
-
- I got my tongue pierced last June. The piercing itself hurt much less
- than
- my other piercings. The reason the piercing hurt a lot less is that the
- tongue is different from most other pierceable body parts; the tongue
- itself
- is muscle instead of skin. For one thing that means it has no nerves on
- the
- inside and few pain receptors on the surface. The striations in the
- muscle
- also make it much easier to physically pierce; the needle tends to slip
- between them - unlike a regular piercing, this one resembles pushing an
- embroidery needle through a piece of fabric.
-
- The morning after the piercing my tongue was swollen and *very* tender,
- both
- of which are normal (a longer barbell is initially used for tongue
- piercings; the barbell is replaced with a smaller one once the swelling
- goes
- down). "*Very* tender" means it hurt to talk and it HURT to eat; I was
- not a
- happy camper that day.
-
- The pain started to diminish within 24 hours. Within two days I was no
- longer in serious discomfort.
-
- The healing regimen for a tongue piercing is slightly different than for
- most other piercings; Neosporin and Hibiclens and Ivory soap and such
- are
- not good things to put in your mouth. Instead, you use a *lot* of
- [diluted]
- Listerine - before the piercing itself and after every meal and
- toothbrushing. I went through a giant-sized bottle in a week.
-
- You also use a substance called Gly-Oxide, a hydrogen peroxide compound
- dissolved in glycerin, which foams up nicely when you drip it on your
- tongue. Putting anything fun in your mouth other than food and drink is
- strictly out; aside from the standard still-healing-piercing infection
- dangers, cocksucking is no longer a low-HIV-risk activity if you have an
- open wound in your mouth. That phase lasted 6 weeks, I think, although
- more
- conservative estimates call for 2-3 months.
-
- Like the septum piercing, a tongue piercing is not really noticeable if
- you
- don't want it to be. It takes a little more self-control - you have to
- remember not to throw your head way back when you laugh, and not to
- stick
- your tongue out for emphasis when talking - but I haven't had any
- problems
- with scaring the horses at work. Nor does the piercing get in my way;
- since
- the bar was downsized, it's basically a pair of metal balls riding just
- above and just below the surfaces of my tongue.
-
- Sex with a tongue piercing is a *lot* of fun!
-
-
- 10A.2 Labret Piercing
- by Anne Greenblatt
- <ardvark@best.com>
- http://www.best.com/~ardvark
- January 1994
-
- My first try at a lip piercing was towards the corner of my mouth, just
- below the edge of my lower lip. We used a 19ga needle for the piering,
- installing a 20ga 3/8" diameter surgical steel bead ring. The thin
- gauge of
- the ring proved to be a mistake - the second day I noticed the inside
- of my
- lip had started to tear upwards. A nasty infection settled in that
- evening.
- I drained the piercing as much as I could with hot compresses and
- removed
- the ring. The infection cleared with the help of antibiotics. All that's
- left is a tiny scar just below the edge of my lip.
-
- My second and existing lip piercing was done with a 14ga needle,
- installing
- a 16ga Labret stud in the center of my lower lip, about 1/2" below the
- edge
- of my lip. The labret stud is similar to a barbell. Instead of a ball
- on the
- inside of my lip, the stud is backed by a disc about 3/16" in diameter.
- A
- ball screws onto the front of the stud. Since the jewelry is inserted
- from
- the back, an insertion taper was used in the piercing process. The
- needle
- was inserted through the front, then the 16ga insertion taper was
- inserted
- into the needle, the taper threaded through the piercing, and the
- jewelry
- pushed through, pushing out the taper.
-
- Before piercing, the outside of my lip was disinfected with betadine
- and the
- inside was disinfected with listerine for 5 minutes and numbed with
- benzocaine (found in Oragel). The entire process was very quick and a
- lot
- less painful than many of my other piercings, including nostril and
- tragus.
-
- Aftercare of the labret piercing included cleaning the outside hole
- with ear
- care gel containing benzalkonium chloride and applying vitamin E gel.
- The
- inside of the piercing was cleaned with Gly-Oxide, and I rinsed my mouth
- with diluted (50%) Listerine after eating and brushing teeth. The
- piercing
- healed in about 6 weeks.
-
- There are several designs of Labret studs available. The most common is
- the
- disc-backed stud. A possible problem with this design is that the disc
- may, over time and wear, become unsoldered from the post. Another
- problem
- some people have experienced with the disc is gum erosion, and erosion
- or
- "nesting" of the inside of the lip beneath the disc. A full year later,
- neither the slight gum erosion or niche the disc has formed in the
- inside of
- my lip has caused me anyproblems or has appeared to worsen.
-
- The other design is the Fishtail Labret. The stud is attached to a
- "tail"
- approximately an inch long, bent at a right angle, and slightly curved
- to
- follow the shape of the gumline. The ball may or may not be fixed,
- depending on the gauge, metal and manufacture.
-
- Update, November 1995
-
- I have since switched my old externally-threaded Labret stud for a 14ga
- stud, internally-threaded at both ends. I also added a second 14ga
- piercing
- above the first, angled so that the inside entrance is above my teeth.
- This
- second piercing swelled considerably more than the first.
-
- Since the new piercing has healed I have worn various jewelry
- combinations.
- At one time I traded the inside disc of the top piercing for a 5/32"
- barbell
- ball, but switched back after I bit down on it a few too many times.
- Now I
- wear a stud with a 1/8" ball in the top piercing and a stud with a 5mm
- cabochon stone (Opal or Star of India) set in white gold. My next
- purchase
- will be a thin, short spike to wear in the top piercing.
-
- Update, October 1996
-
- In July I abandoned the second piercing because it was slowly pushing
- one of
- my front teeth (lower) inwards. I also found myself playing with and
- biting
- on the jewelry out of habit far too much.
-
-
- 10A.3 Hand Web Piercing
- by "Surf"
- 1994
-
- I'm on my second hand web pierce. The first one (Had it done first week
- in
- July 1993) lasted about 3/4 months before it grew out. I'm figuring
- that was
- because I had it in my right hand, and I am right handed, so the had
- got a
- lot of use.
-
- I missed that pierce so much that I had it redone on my left hand in
- mid-
- December 1993. It's still with me, and it seems to be healing great.
-
- The first time, I had it done at Gauntlet San Francisco. The piercer
- marked
- entrance and exit holes on my hand and positioned the pennington
- foreceps
- over the marks. The marks were farther back that I had first imagined
- they
- would be, but I'd never seen a hand web pierce before, either. Once the
- foreceps were in place, the piercer stretched the skin out a bit and he
- shone a light through the skin to make sure that nothing of importance
- was
- in the bundle of skin as well. He got the needle lubed with an
- antibiotic
- salve and butted the needle against the top-side (back of hand side) of
- my
- hand web (oh yes - he disinfected the area first with a betadine pad).
- He
- held a cork to the bottom (palm side) of the web and quickly pushed the
- needle through.
-
- I don't remember much pain at all, but then again, I had just had my
- nipple
- done (my first pierce ever!) minutes before. Anyway, the piercer got my
- jewelry ready to insert and in a moment he was fastening the ball-end. I
- have a 12 ga SSS barbell with a 1/2" shaft as my jewelry for the pierce.
-
- The second time around was similar, but there were differences in the
- technique. I had it redone at Tie Me Down in Milwaukee. The piercer
- there
- seemed less experienced, at least with hand-webs, but not so as to
- scare one
- off. I forget what he cleaned the area of my hand with, but he soaked
- the
- jewelry in Hibiclens to disinfect it. He marked the depth of the pierce
- noticably deeper than the first time, but that was fine by me. This
- piercer
- didn't use a cork on the exit side, and he pushed the needle through
- from
- palm side first.
-
- For the jewelry insertion, he mentioned that he wasn't used to
- Gauntlet's
- barbells where the ball screws into the shaft, but rather the ones
- where the
- shaft screwed into the ball. With thal kind he could screw the shaft
- into
- the end of the needle for insertion. Because of this, he had problems
- with
- insertion and had to guide it in with an insertion taper. Since the
- taper
- was larger than the hole, it was a painful little process, but when the
- jewelry was in, I felt better about the pierce than I had the first time
- around - I could flatten my hand right away. The first time, it took a
- few
- days before I could do that.
-
- The aftercare was pretty much the same both times. I would alternate
- soaking
- my hand in a solution of hot water and betadine and a hot salt-water
- solution. Use the betadine soak only if the jewelry isn't gold, though.
- I
- would soak about 10 times a day - more if feasable. When the water
- cooled
- down, I would reheat it in the microwave and re-soak. I'd keep this up
- as
- long as I could. The betadine soaks especially reduced swelling when my
- hand
- was acting up. I would try to keep my hand unbandaged as much as
- possible,
- but I was wearing them a lot during the first week, and for the first
- few
- weeks while I slept.
-
- After about 2 weeks, I had an initial healing that would allow me almost
- normal use of my hand, as long as I watched it and was careful. At
- first, I
- would wash the pierce with hibiclens, but am now using an antibacterial
- soap
- (easier on the hands and still kills germs). I would still recommend
- hibiclens on the fresh pierce, though. During the initial healing, I
- would
- swab some betadine over the freshly washed or soaked pierce to keep the
- germs away as long as possible.
-
- I had relatively little swelling of my hand web area after the first
- week
- both times I had it done. Even less the second time. Now I would even
- mistake the thing for being fully healed (even though I know it's not
- inside)! There is no swelling at all anymore. I put lotion on the area
- when
- it gets dry (and believe me, the area gets really dry at times after
- piercing!). If the area dries out, it can get tender and hurt if
- bumped, but
- some lotion takes care of that.
-
- All in all, I love the pierce. It is my favorite of all mine (eyebrow,
- hand,
- nipple, navel, PA) because it is so rare, and it looks wicked. From my
- expierence, I feel that a lot of people's reservations about this pierce
- getting in the way are unwarranted. Sure, there are some instances
- where it
- would be in the way, but for normal (whatever that is, right?) use, it's
- fine!
-
- I am in Wisconsin and I'm wearing winter gloves all the time with no
- problems. I was waterskiing last summer and I could hold the tow line
- without a problem. Pretty much the only hindrance is the time spent
- explaining to people that I am not totally insane and that it didn't
- hurt
- (nonetheless I love to show it off - I'm proud of my metal!).
-
- I would expect the true healing time to be 6 months, or a full year
- just to
- be sure. The times I mentioned above were my experience only. I've been
- told
- I'm a fast healer, so my experiences won't necessarily apply to
- everyone,
- but I have had really good experiences with the hand web despite the
- first
- one growing out.
-
- One last recommendation - however you're handed, don't get that hand
- pierced. Like I said, when I had my right hand pierced, it grew out
- primarily because that had went through a lot more use than did my left
- hand. I just never realized it until I paid that much attention to my
- hands
- because of the piercing.
-
-
- 10A.4 Eyelet Piercing
- by Julian Hurt
- 1993
-
- [Please note that Julian has much experience with piercings, and that
- this
- section is to provide information and in no way is to condone beginners
- from
- trying the same. Most people who wish to stretch out their piercings do
- it
- the regular way--stretching it a little at a time over a long period.]
-
- Rings large enough to fill large (00 - 4) gauge earlobe piercings tend
- to be
- fairly heavy. The weights often are sufficient to automatically cause
- further stretching of the holes. An alternative to heavy jewelry is to
- wear
- light- weight eyelets. Eyelets essentially are stainless surgical steel
- or
- gold tubes that have been flared outward on both ends. They are hollow
- in
- the center and look like narrow grommets. Pleasurable Piercings carries
- eyelets from 4 gauge to 00 gauge and Gauntlet lists them from 10 gauge
- to 00
- gauge.
-
- Eyelets can be worn as the sole insert in a lobe piercing or with
- smaller
- gauge rings inserted inside them (thus allowing light weight rings
- without
- allowing the larger holes to grow closed). For illustrations of these
- two
- styles see respectively _Modern Primitives_ page 176, and page 3 of
- _Piercing Fans International Quarterly Number 18_. eyelets occasionally
- are
- called "earlets" or even "retainers." Eyelets are very effective
- visually
- when combined with additional rings or studs higher on the ear.
-
- Eyelets are sized by the diameter of the tubing at its narrowest point
- and
- flare out so that the outer edge of the flare is the next even gauged
- size.
- Thus the flange of a 4 gauge eyelet flares out about 0.025" and
- requires a 2
- gauge hole. In order to insert an eyelet, one needs a hole the size of
- the
- outer flange (2 gauge larger than the eyelet size). After the eyelets
- are
- inserted the holes gradually will shrink and fill-in towards the size
- of the
- eyelet.
-
- The standard method for inserting eyelets is to begin with well-healed
- piercings and gradually stretch them out. (See the FAQ and the article
- in
- _PFIQ number 18_, pages 23-30, for information on various stretching
- techniques.) When they are stretched to the stated gauge of the desired
- eyelet they then are stretched using an insertion taper of the next even
- gauge, and then inserted.
-
- The taper temporarily stretches out the hole to accomodate the wider
- flanges, and then when the eyelet is in place, the tissue shrinks to the
- original gauge. Gauntlet warns, "CAUTION: To accomplish piercings large
- enough for eyelets great patience is required. Never push stretching too
- fast or the earlobe can be torn. When the hole is large enough for an
- eyelet, facilitate insertion and avoid damage to the earlobe by using a
- convex insertion taper of the next larger size."
-
- It is also possible to insert eyelets in fresh piercings. Piercing
- needles
- are available up to 6 gauge from Pleasurable Piercings. One could
- pierce to
- the next size larger than the eyelet (e.g., pierce to a 6 gauge for
- insertion of an 8 gauge eyelet) but the eyelets would tend to fall out
- in
- normal wear.
-
- Anecdotal evidence indicates it is fairly routine to stretch fresh
- piercings
- to the next gauge with out tearing by using a well-lubricated (with
- anti-bacterial ointment) insertion tapers inserted fairly rapidly with a
- strong twisting motion. Then the eyelets can be inserted in standard
- fashion
- by following the taper just as one follows a piercing needle with
- jewelry.
-
- The hole will snap back against the narrow part of the eyelet. In at
- least
- one case documented in rec.arts.bodyart postings, a person was
- innitially
- pierced at 6 gauge in both lobes and had them immediately stretched to
- a 2
- gauge using the technique just described with a 2 gauge insertion
- taper. The
- piercing was done as an experiment by Wild Bill of Pleasurable
- Piercings at
- the request of a piercing-knowledgeable customer. As a precaution
- intermediate sized jewelry was on hand so that the stretching could be
- abandoned mid-way if any tearing had occorred. The stretching was only
- slightly more intense than the 6 gauge piercings which were relatively
- painless.
-
- When eyelets are the initial insertions in fresh piercings, care is
- simple.
- Sensative Ears is used a number of times daily to irrigate the
- piercings. In
- the first few days there may be some swelling so that the flanges pop
- below
- the surface of the earlobes. As crusting loosens from the cleaning
- solution,
- gently pop the eyelets so that both flanges are outside the hole.
- Regardless, once the eyelets are properly placed and loosened by the
- irrigation, grasp the flanges between thumb and forefinger and gently
- rotate
- them in the hole. These care techniques were used with the fresh 6 gauge
- piercings stretched to 2 gauge described above, and they healed without
- complication in 4 weeks.
-
- When eyelets are inserted by stretching they generally remain in place
- during normal daily activity. But when drying ones ears with a towel,
- cleaning the eyelets, or sleeping they do have a tendency to pop out
- unexpecedly. They also are small enough to easily be lost down drains.
- Thus
- one is advised not to clean them over sinks, not towel in the shower,
- etc.
- One way of preventing loss of the eyelets is to insert small rings or
- wire
- through them.
-
-
- 10A.5 Ritual Nipple Piercing (Male)
- by Phaedrus, edited by Anne Greenblatt
- 1994
-
- I pondered whether or not to crosspost this to rec.arts.bodyart and I
- chose
- not to. Mainly because I am rather unfamiliar with that group, and
- there is
- enough non-vanilla in my post to warrant not posting there. If a reader
- familiar with r.a.b. feels that this experience would benefit that
- group,
- then by all means feel free to repost it there.
-
- All names used herein are used with the consent of the owner of said
- name.
- And if you were there and I did not mention you by name, it is only
- because
- I forgot to ask you. It is not because I have forgotten you.
-
- Right. Onward.
-
- It's been a full 7 days now, and I -think- I've processed enough to be
- able
- to post my piercing experience in a more or less coherent fashion.
-
- I've been wanting a nipple piercing for over a year now. Some of you
- here
- back then may recall when I first posted about wanting one. Part of the
- waiting has been pondering, part because the time was not right.
-
- So the time was right last weekend. Beverly Block had told me that she
- had
- been trained in piercing. We had talked about it a little over a year
- ago,
- and nothing had been said since. When I saw Bev at a Berkeley lunch on
- Friday, I asked her if she would do it at a ritual the next night.
-
- After lunch and running amok in a certain storefront in Oakland, we
- headed
- across the bay to the Gauntlet. It was wonderful having Bev with me.
- She got
- into a professional argument about ring gauges for male nipples with a
- worker at the Gauntlet. And while Bev conceded the point, it felt good
- having a knowledgable advocate with me. I picked out a beautiful gold
- ring
- and Bev specified a needle and something with the ominous name of
- "pusher".
- At several points, the Gauntlet person discussed technique with Bev.
- Most
- delightful.
-
- The next afternoon, I opened the Gauntlet bag and checked out the
- needle for
- the first time. I won't say that I came close to backing out, but I will
- admit that I thought about it.
-
- That night at the ritual, after opening circle, Bev told those present
- that
- I was to be pierced next. I wanted people who -wanted- to be there to be
- present. It may sound strange, but I wanted people to be there because
- they
- wanted to be present, not because I wanted them there. I have to ponder
- that
- further sometime -- there's something odd there.
-
- Anyway. I notice that Bev is a little nervous and encircle her bicep to
- get
- her attention. We lock gazes, and I tell her to breathe with me. She
- calms
- and returns to preparation.
-
- I'm a little nervous, mainly because I do not know what to expect. My
- first
- piercing ritual, and I'm the piercee. Figures. I feel as if the ring is
- -already- in place, and the ritual is only matching realities.
-
- I have my symbols: a length of black ribbon, an amethyst about my neck,
- a
- pewter earcuff. I mention to STella that our symbols are so much a part
- of
- us, and she tells me that we -are- our symbols. Once again, dear STella,
- dead on target.
-
- It's time, and I lay down on the table clad only in my standard black
- playparty briefs. People gather about me, and I make it clear at some
- point
- that I -want- to be touched. It was at this point that I closed my eyes
- and
- did not open them until I looked at the ring in my body.
-
- I concentrate on my breathing and feel the wonderful energy from my
- friends
- about me. I could almost sense the boundaries of the safespace that
- encircled us.
-
- Bev fastens the hemostat on my left nipple and it -HURTS-. Goddam, it
- hurts.
- The stub-your-toe kind of hurt. Oh, lovely, the needle isn't even
- present
- yet and I'm a'hurting. Oh, well, I think.
-
- The pain from the clamp starts to subside. I'm conscious mainly of my
- friends touching me. I can't distinguish who is touching me where...all
- I
- can feel is being enfolded in love and caring.
-
- Bev tell me to accept the needle into my body, and it flows into me. No
- sensation of pushing, more like the needle was sucked into me. There is
- no
- pain, but rather an intense sensation that I have no name for. There is,
- however, and ragged edge to this sensation, and I do not allow myself to
- feel that. Rather, I passed that edge on to my rage which holds an
- image of
- my father. Let him feel that ragged edge.
-
- The sensation is an icy clarity similar to that clarity that follows a
- mind-
- shaking insight. That's the closest I can come to describing it. I hear
- a
- most unusual sound, and realize that I am "screaming". I call it a
- scream
- only because I do not know what else to call it. I have never heard a
- sound
- like that before. It is not coming from any higher level center of my
- brain.
- It feels like it is coming from a deeper, animal part of my physical
- brain.
-
- Bev asks me if I want to look at the needle, and I tell her no, thank
- you, I
- hate needles. This evokes laughter from the circle.
-
- Suddenly a rush starts at my head and travels down my body and I realize
- that Wolf is out. I feel full of the Power around me, and I hear my body
- start to growl. A "Yes!" comes from a person over my head, and the
- circle
- feels even more together somehow. Since Wolf usually only comes out for
- self-defense or toppish rather violent lovemaking, I keep an eye on him.
- This situation is neither and I do not want him loose. He behaves,
- enjoying
- the feeling of the Power the ritual has evoked.
-
- I'm so busy watching Wolf that I do not notice Bev taking the needle
- out or
- inserting the ring. I do notice that something has happened to disturb
- Bev,
- though I haven't a clue what it was. There's some sort of blaming going
- on,
- so I pull out the old joke about the blame stage of a project should be
- the
- -last- phase of a project and we aren't there yet.
-
- Bev tells me that I can look at the ring now, but before I do I make a
- Gift
- to those with me.
-
- I finally open my eyes and look into a small mirror Bev is holding. It
- is
- -beautiful-! Just how it is supposed to look. The realities have
- merged, and
- that brings me a warm glow of completion.
-
- Ah. The gold ball is lost. That was the disturbance earlier. No matter.
- Even
- that occurrence feels right to me. The entire sequence of events feels
- perfect to me. I would not change a thing.
-
- The circle slowly dissipates, and STella stays close to me as I slowly
- rise
- up in stages. Very slowly. I stumble about the dungeon for a bit, just
- to
- prove to myself that I can, then collapse on a handy bed. People wander
- by
- and now and again a friend cuddles and talks with me.
-
- To those of you who shared this wonderful event in my life with me:
- thank
- you. I feel a bond with each of you. And, now that I am back in
- Illinois, I
- miss you terribly. It's funny, but all I have to do is look at my ring
- to
- remember the feelings of being with you in that circle.
-
- And thank you, Beverly. You nor anyone else could have done better.
-
- Postscript: the next day, I got an amethyst bead to replace the gold one
- that was lost. The ring achieved its proper state much faster because
- the
- original bead was lost. I am very pleased.
-
- And, btw, my nipple is healing -very- nicely.
-
-
- 10A.6 Niebuhr Piercing
- by Denise "Ambient" Robinson
-
- Niebuhr... When I saw the first photos of them, I thought, my goodness,
- what
- a STOOPID IDEA. Little did I know I would come to enjoy it immensely.
- "Why?" people always ask me... Well, my response is so that people will
- make eye-contact with me(having tremendous ta-tas can be a
- disadvantage, ya
- know). My main reason is that its an originality thang. Noone I've ever
- seen in person has one, and I wanted somethang visible to set me apart.
- Purely poseur.
-
- It definitely receives a high Pain In The Ass rating for many reasons:
- the
- actual piercing, healing, and visibility. The piercing itself can be
- rather
- dangerous considering the location of major nerve trunks and blood
- vesseld
- in the area. Make sure your piercer pinches the area they're about to
- pierce before poking you to ensure they're not hitting any major
- nerves. If
- you feel pain any where other than where the pinch is, ferget it. If
- you
- don't have much skin in that location, you may as well nevermind- if you
- can't go deep, enough, it'll reject *fast*.
-
- Apart from the pinch method, thats about the only difference in method
- from
- any other piercing. Clean it, mark it, clamp it, poke it. We used a
- 14ga
- surgical steel barbell between 5/8"-3/4"long (to allow room for
- cleaning)
- with 3/16" balls (to allow me to see around the thang!). I wouldn't
- use any
- larger of a gauge, simply cuz I wouldn't like the potential visible
- bulge
- under the skin.
-
- It shouldn't be a painful piercing. Unfortunately, the piercer to whom
- I
- went ended up taking about 3 seconds to get the needle through, having
- not
- used a cork (supposedly to ensure it being straight), so I admit that it
- *did* hurt, but I feel that it *shouldn't* have hurt that much, done
- quickly. Oh yeah, for the first 72 hours, I experienced caked blood on
- the
- balls of the jewelry, hence I recommend holing yerself up for a weekend
- so's
- not to freak out your friends... I've used Bactine (Benzalkonium
- Chloride)
- to clean mine with great results... Twice a day, and any time I get
- excessively sweaty or dirty.
-
- Healing a surface piercing seems to be a full-time job for about six
- months.
- Neglecting it for a few days, or playing rough with it seems to be
- enough to
- set it off (but then of course it could be considered to be a good
- thang - a
- nice barometer for your health, so long as you don't mind pus excreting
- from
- between yer eyes). As for the visibility thang, it can be real
- frustrating
- wearing glasses or sunglasses, or having braids or dreadlocks that
- catch in
- the thang. If its not 100% straight, boy, is it ever obvious. And if
- it
- starts to reject, it ain't a pretty sight. So far I've been lucky, and
- it
- seems to be nice and even and straight. I must say, if this actually
- stays
- put, I'll be incredibly loathe to ever remove it. Its among the few of
- my
- piercings that really feels like it belongs.
-
-
- 10A.7 Piercing Inverted Nipples (Male)
- by <RINGSOFUN@aol.com>
-
- The piercing is actually in the aerola and deep behind the inverted
- nipple.
- I pierced mine because they were inverted and was advised that they may
- develop after piercing. They have done just that and stick out nicely
- now.
- To further develop my nipples I re-pierced the actual nipples after they
- developed. The second piercings were done after about a year of the
- original piercings. It has now been 10 years and I wear 4 ga rings in my
- large nipples and couldn't be happier with the results! My nipples were
- never sensitive prior to piercing, but now they are very sensitive!
-
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- Anne Greenblatt
- Manager of the rec.arts.bodyart Piercing FAQ
- Piercing Exquisite
- http://www.piercingexquisite.com
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