The societies that hugged their kids were relatively peaceful. The cultures that treated their children coldly produced brutal adults, according to a survey of 49 cultures conducted by James Prescott, founder of the National Institute of Child Health and Human Development's Developmental Biology Program in the States.
Abu-Lughod, for instance, reports that Bedouin society outlaws close, warm relationships between men and women. Kissing or hugging openly is considered disgusting, almost inhuman. A couple who indulge in such a moment of warmth would be subject to contempt, fury and hatred.
As various researchers have advocated, babies thrive best when nursed at the breast, when not placed in cots or nurseries, and when carried around not in prams or pushchairs, but on their mothers' and fathers' fronts and backs.
- For a brief summary of the relevant research, see 'Touching, The Promotion of Touching in Casual Social Encounters' by Nicholas Albery and others (ISBN 0 9505244 3 3, published by Revelaction Press, c/o 20 Heber Road, London NW2 6AA, tel 081 208 2853; fax 081 452 6434, 1982, L5-95).
- Howard Bloom, 705 President Street, Brooklyn, NY 11211, USA (tel 718 622 2278).