Why do Americans worry...

This topic was created by Marko (mb0959@hotmail.com)
[Thu 22 April, 6:50 Tasmanian Standard Time]

...so much? Half of the posts in this group is Americans
asking if it is safe to go to certain countries and if
there's racism. Yes people, it is safe to go to Latvia - the
country is not affected by war in Kosovo. No, there is no
more racism in Europe than in United States. I'm starting to
be sick of questions like these. Why do you people ask them?
Why would any place (except Kosovo, Albania, Yugoslavia) be
affected by the war? Just because they're close? Is
Washington state affected by riots in California? Hell no!
And the racism question... You know who we Europeans have a
problem with? You, the ones who ask that question. You
are the ones who obviously like the topic and who watch
if someone is being racist or not. If you don't piss
people off, no one will touch you. Use common sense, for
the love of God. Why would we be racist against you? Good
God people, get a grip on reality and ask relevant
questions in this group.
Cheers.

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  1. Well done Added by: Katja
    [Timestamp: Thu 22 April, 7:02 Tasmanian Standard Time]

    I'm also sick of these idiotic questions... I'm from
    Slovenia - ex Yugoslavia, so you can probably imagine
    what's the first question people ask me...



  2. Afraid Added by: worry? (xxx)
    [Timestamp: Thu 22 April, 7:09 Tasmanian Standard Time]

    Just for your info!
    I saw already in some cafetirias in Moscow signs:
    WE DON'T SERVE NATO COUNTRY CITIZENS.
    These were the most gentle signs.
    On demonstrations you could see signs like:
    Clinton, Yugoslavia is not Monica, You can't give her a
    blow j...!
    And what I heard when talking to people about the NATO
    countries. Well, just go and listen PERSONALLY.
    Hope you;ll be back all right!!!
    Bon Voyage guys.



  3. Bull... Added by: Marko
    [Timestamp: Thu 22 April, 7:30 Tasmanian Standard Time]

    You just don't go to the places where they have such signs.
    If I were black, I don't think I'd ever walk into the house
    that had KKK written on it, but that doesn't mean that the
    entire country is like it. If you feel safe in USA, you
    should feel SAFER anywhere in Europe, no matter what the
    circumstances.



  4. Hmmm Added by: Elizabeth
    [Timestamp: Thu 22 April, 10:00 Tasmanian Standard Time]

    Well, I agree with your first sentiments, Marko. I am really
    sick of seeing these 'Is it safe to go to X/Y/Z right now?'
    posts. These people shoudl contact the appropriate
    departments of their own governments if they are so
    concerned. If they are still so uptight, they probably
    should not be going abroad anyway, as any sort of new
    experiences tend to upset such nervous dispositions.

    The question of racism, however, is a true and valid one for
    many nations and many people. Trends in differ in every
    culture as to how people react to people who look different,
    how men and women interact, etc. Claiming any different is
    akin to denying the uniqueness of all the different cultures
    in the world.



  5. Weeeeellllll.... Added by: Marko
    [Timestamp: Thu 22 April, 12:10 Tasmanian Standard Time]

    I partially agree. In my opinion no one (or very few people)
    are racist unless provoked. If you go abroad and you look
    and act different, I think people would be willing to learn
    about where you are coming from, rather than criticise you.
    Of course, there are also 'laws' of the country that you are
    visiting and which should be obeyed - i.e. in Iran, I don't
    think that a woman should walk around in a bathing suit. But
    if she is dressed accordingly, people would realize that she
    is trying to adapt to their culture and thus would be
    willing to learn about hers.



  6. Yep Added by: Elizabeth
    [Timestamp: Thu 22 April, 14:14 Tasmanian Standard Time]

    Now we're getting somewhere. Most people who post these
    sorts of questions are trying to get just exactly the
    information they need in order to try and fit in in the
    country they are heading to. Because the way Iranian society
    will react to her is different than the way it will react to
    a man.

    I have gotten in arguments regarding the nature of racism in
    E.Europe on this board before and don't wish to do it again.
    But I think that some people's inquiries into the nature of
    racism in some of these countries is valid. I have lived and
    travelled all over the US and do not know very many people
    who believe jokes and anecdotes about Jews/Blacks/Koreans to
    be appropriate conversation. Yet in my travels in Russia, I
    can recall at least one such instance with every Russian I
    interacted with for any period of time. Additionally, I
    think a Black American might be shocked to walk into a
    university building and see graffiti reading 'Black Monkey
    Go Back To Africa,' day after day after day (i.e., It was
    never removed). A dark haired young exchange student might
    get riled by being stopped and hassled by the police
    every day. (It sure wore my Portegeuse neighbor down).

    It doesn't neccesssarily make Russia 'racist', but it
    indicates that, as a society, this particular area has a lot
    to learn about the heterogeneous nature of our planet.
    In my opinion, this is something a potential traveller has a
    right to know about.

    Now if only they'd stop with the 'Is it safe for Americans
    to go Bavaria right now' nonsense.



  7. Partly agree with Marko, but... Added by: Pekka
    [Timestamp: Thu 22 April, 19:09 Tasmanian Standard Time]

    I also occasionally grin at the 'Is it safe?' questions in
    TT. But for Marko; it's not only the Americans who seem to
    over-react here. I believe I'm from the same European
    country as Marko and I must say we Europeans don't know much
    better. My friend's mother just wanted to cancel her trip to
    Rome because she's sure the war would affect Italy and she
    wouldn't be safe. We managed to get her go but she's still a
    bit unconfortable to go. So, that much about that. By the
    way, I don't think it's very intelligent and fair to mock
    Americans about their safety concerns. I know loads of my
    fellow citizens who'd love to visit New York but are too
    afraid.



  8. don't be so pompous Added by: nyer
    [Timestamp: Fri 23 April, 2:45 Tasmanian Standard Time]

    many people, including us americans, realize that you can't
    get the information you need to gauge the stability of a
    region from a guidebook or the media (if the u.s. papers
    even cover the area, it will be slanted, and if you can
    access the local papers, they too tend to be slanted). The
    entire purpose of posting these types of questions is to
    find out, from people at the destination or people who have
    recently been there, what the current atmosphere is.
    By the way, when L.A. burned in the riots, NYC was also
    affected with "sympathetic" rioting -- and that's a whole
    lot further away than Washington, but I guess you'd have to
    ask a local to know . . .



  9. Eat shit Added by: lole
    [Timestamp: Fri 23 April, 3:45 Tasmanian Standard Time]

    Fuck you all! I'm from washington and my city seatlle was
    definitly \effected by the riots, don't act like Europe
    lives in a vacume you pompus British cunt.



  10. Hmmmmm.... Added by: Marko
    [Timestamp: Fri 23 April, 7:00 Tasmanian Standard Time]

    First to lole: please refrain from posts like those. I hope
    you do participate in the discussion, but in the civilized
    manner. Thank you.
    I am aware that racism in some countries still exists. But
    it is the part of the culture. I understand it is awkward
    and makes one uncomfortable, but every traveler should rise
    above ignorant remarks written on walls and look at the
    nicer side of every country. If you inquire about racism
    somewhere, I can right now bet money that you will encounter
    some. Every country in the world is racist in some way, no
    matter how. But if we inquired about racism and made our
    travel decisions based on the answer, we'd never go
    anywhere. I'm just saying that you should EXPECT certain
    amount of racism and if there's more than you expected, just
    try to ignore it (as much as possible) and if it's less...
    excellent. Everyone should be prepared for it. Everyone of
    us experienced it in some way or another. But it is the part
    of the experience and it is irrelevent how much of it is
    happening.
    As for asking about region stability, I think these
    questions are also irrelevant and need not be asked. The
    wars are always well contained and if they spill over to the
    neighboring countries, I can bet you will know about it,
    just by reading your own LOCAL paper. Things like that don't
    go unnoticed. The problem is that people ask those questions
    based on the DISTANCE from the war - just because Dubrovnik,
    Croatia is few miles from Kosovo, it doesn't mean that they
    are affected. Legitimate questions don't bother me, it is
    the fact that people associate vicinity of the war with
    trouble. I believe that you might find that Russia is more
    affected by war in Kosovo than let's say Croatia or
    Slovenia.



  11. Added by: Elizabeth
    [Timestamp: Fri 23 April, 8:49 Tasmanian Standard Time]

    Well, as a fair-haired, fair-skinned woman, I don't expect a
    whole lot of racism when I travel. But I also do not travel
    as broadly as some people do. I think a lot of these
    questions arise with people who simply really have no idea
    what to expect in a foreign culture. Not everybody knows to
    "EXPECT certain amount of racism", so that's where the
    question arises. It's not really an invalid question, it's
    just a tiresome one.

    As for what you've said about Kosovo, I also (as you know)
    agree. I was really wondering when somebody would make a
    mention of it. I think Russia probably is a
    less-than-friendly place for a lot of Americans right now,
    but that's for socio-political reasons (i.e. aggresive
    feelings toward a NATO- nation) rather than for reasons of
    immediate physical danger (i.e. bombs). For the most part
    anyway.

    Since you've incriminated Americans from the start in this
    anyway, just give me a minute to excuse us for our ignorance
    on the spread of war. We haven't really actually *had* one
    here in over 130 years. So we assume that it may be just as
    dangerous 30 miles away from the war as right in the middle
    of it. . .

    While the US is fairly diverse both culturally and
    geologically, it's mind- boggling for even educated
    Americans to imagine what it's like to live within a 3 hour
    train ride of 3 different nations. I've never been to Europe
    proper and I have no concept of it (European space).

    Here's the flipside of that coin: whenever I mention to a
    non-north-American that I'm from Florida, the response is
    usually 'Ah, Miami.' Well, Miami is a good 10 hour drive
    from the town I come from. Or how about the people who post,
    asking whether there will be any signifigant temperature
    difference between New York and Orlando, Florida
    (Disneyworld)?

    The above examples make it seem clear to me that a lot of
    the confusion here has to do with people not having a clear
    understanding of space. It's not a matter of intelligence
    and not a matter of continental identity- it's something
    that can only come with experience.



  12. nope, not buying that Added by: nyer
    [Timestamp: Fri 23 April, 9:01 Tasmanian Standard Time]

    Sorry Marco but you're still off-base. Just about every
    question concerning "is it safe to travel" has been about a
    country that we in America have been told is affected by the
    war -- even the poor canadians getting flamed for asking
    about Greece -- well, over here, we've been shown pictures
    of riots and demonstrations outside embassies, flag burnings
    and a lot of anti-american, anti-western sentiment, even in
    Greece. Not everybody has unlimited travel time. If you
    only have two weeks to travel a year, you don't want to
    spend it stressed out because the area you are travelling
    through is dangerous in general or dangerous to your
    particular nationality that day.
    I think people who haven't cancelled their travel plans to
    central/eastern europe or russia should be commended, not
    flamed. Don't forget, the americas -- north, south and
    central -- are incredibly huge, diverse places. Australia
    and New Zealand are incredibly beautiful and the people
    there are great. Asia is wicked cool and offers an
    incredibly diverse view of cultures, religions, social and
    political structures. Canadians and americans don't have to
    "cross the pond" for culture, natural beauty or excitement
    -- that seems to be something that most of the europeans on
    this board don't seem to grasp. I can't tell you the number
    of people I know in their 50s/60s who cancelled trips to
    Europe this summer and are looking at South America instead.

    And as for racism, I don't think I've ever seen worse racism
    than when I was in Slovakia and saw how the Roma were
    treated. And don't forget, it was that forward thinking
    country, the Czech Republic, that actually proposed building
    a wall to separate the Roma from the fine citizens of one
    town. In America, especially NY, there are so many
    different colors, and so many mixed colors, that you can't
    blame us for worrying about countries that discriminate
    based on ethnicity. You have to wonder how they treat
    people of different races.



  13. more thoughts. Added by: sprite
    [Timestamp: Fri 23 April, 21:30 Tasmanian Standard Time]

    kudos, elizabeth, for your comment on the different concept
    of space between europeans and north americans. i think
    that's a big part of the problem. also for the pointer
    that people should consult embassies and weather pages
    before coming here.
    marko, if you don't like the posts, nobody's forcing you to
    read them. if it makes someone feel a little more secure,
    a little safer and more confident, go to! and the more i
    travel, the more i realize that it's the stupid questions
    that should be asked.
    i'm not american, but i do, in a small way, sympathize with
    americans. people from other countries link the individual
    american with his/her gov't, leading to innocent travellers
    or ex-pats to be the recipients of undeserved
    harrassment/expectations. ie. all americans love guns.
    all americans are rich. all americans are ignorant of
    culture. americans are war-lovers. i don't think there's
    any country at this moment which is so loved and so hated
    at the same time, often by the same people.
    americans should be asking questions; who wants to spend a
    long dreamed of holiday hiding?
    speaking of which, it's time for me to leave this hiding
    place, and go outside to put up with the carpet sellers who
    have assumed that i'm a rich european with nothing better
    to do than look in their shops all day long.



  14. Some empathy, please Added by: Pekka
    [Timestamp: Fri 23 April, 22:14 Tasmanian Standard Time]

    I think the main problem with some people in this branch is
    the lack of empathy for people from other cultures. Marko,
    you're a white man from a small European country and your
    nationality or complexion are very unlikely to rise any
    problems to you when abroad. But think of the Americans for
    example. Even if the leaders of most European counries more
    or less accept the bombings in Jugoslavia it's the poor
    Americans (as always) who get the blame and are the
    risk of being targets of (possible) aggression. I'm from
    Scandinavia and I have never had to face aggression
    because of my nationality. However, I was once mistaken for
    a German in latin America. Some teenagers started yelling me
    "Heil Hitler" and raising their hands to a nazi greeting.
    They were not aggressive; it was perhaps consided as a some
    sort of thoughtless bad joke. But all of a sudden I realised
    something I had never thought before as a Scandinavian:
    German tourists (who have simply nothing to do with the
    atrocities of their past dictator) are at risk that that
    sort of comments spoil their holiday every time they are on
    holiday. So Marko, praise God you were born up north and try
    to imagine how things would be if you were, let's say
    (black) American, German or Serbian (yes, they are really
    not all responsible for what their abominable leader is
    doing). So, try not to blame people if they wish to visit a
    place they are welcome.



  15. In defense of those asking questions Added by: A
    [Timestamp: Sat 24 April, 1:21 Tasmanian Standard Time]

    Dear Marko and others,
    I realize for Europeans that it might get a bit old to hear
    these questions about safety issues, but to dismiss them as
    irrelevant and not needed is ridiculous. You say that you
    are bothered by the fact that people associate vicinity of
    the war with trouble. I'm sorry if that bothers you. You
    are lucky to be savy enough to know otherwise, but there
    are many people in the world, especially non-Europeans who
    do not know how war works. They are not experts on wars,
    having maybe never experienced one in their lives. How are
    they supposed to know that a few miles from a war zone will
    or will not make a difference? Some of these people might
    be spending life savings to go abroad and see other
    places. I think, no matter how ignorant their questions
    seem to you, they have the right to ask how safe a place
    is. We can't all be as knowledgable as you.
    By the way, concerning your question: "Why would any place
    (except Kosovo, Albania, Yugoslavia) be affected by the
    war?" Maybe you could ask the Macedonians that question.



  16. Good points raised Added by: Marko
    [Timestamp: Sat 24 April, 4:22 Tasmanian Standard Time]

    All of you have raised some good points. First I have to
    say to Pekka that I am not Scandinavian (unfortunately :)) -
    I am Croatian. I do have to admit I make some assumptions
    based on myself. I have lived in Croatia during the war and
    the past 6 years I've been in America and I have traveled
    extensively, so I understand how both places work. I didn't
    mean to offend anyone, but you do have to admit that most
    of those questions were asked by Americans. But I still
    think that the questions regarding security and safety are
    irrelevant. Just accept people for what they are. Pekka
    mentioned the incident in S. America and I think that she
    dealt with the problem very well - just brush it off,
    ignore it and learn something from it. Racist people are
    everywhere and we all know that they are extremely ignorant
    and should be ignored. Maybe I'm being ignorant that
    violence doesn't happen when you travel to 'iffy'
    countries, but similar thing could happen to you in your
    own home city.
    I guess questions about safety don't bother me much, per
    se. There is a recent post in which a girl heard a rumor
    that Hungary will be taking refugees from Kosovo and she is
    asking if the accomodation will be a problem. I consider
    this to be a legitimate question. The ones that bother me
    are "I'm going to Bavaria for three months. Will I be
    affected by the war in Kosovo?" People like that don't even
    know why they're asking the question and it is ambiguous.
    the Hungary question was clear and to the point and can be
    precisely answered. The second question is ridiculous and
    questions like that should not be allowed. :)
    I agree with Elizabeth on 'the distance problem'. It just
    happens that most questions in this group are asked by
    Americans. Maybe I should go to the North America group and
    read some of the idiotic European postings. Sorry again, I
    didn't mean to offend anyone.



  17. Don't go? Added by: worry? (xxx)
    [Timestamp: Sat 24 April, 6:45 Tasmanian Standard Time]

    I don't have to go there!
    I live there. You understand nothing about our country and
    about Russian-Serbian friendship and you are stiil trying
    to discuss the things here.
    Remember we can tell you are a foreigner in a second. Even
    if you put on some authentic Russian look it won't help you
    to look like one.
    And the signs of serving you or not they put inside the
    cafetiria, so when you realize it it's too late to reatret.
    Also the media is making people feel anti NATO stronger and
    stronger.
    So keep on discussing the things you have no shit idea
    about.
    So this is the case we used to joke:
    Rad vidyety tyebya bez petlyi na sheye, means "Glad to see
    you without a rope on your neck"
    Bon voyage.



  18. Understanding Added by: alan (aeiger1068@hotmail.com)
    [Timestamp: Sat 24 April, 15:51 Tasmanian Standard Time]

    To lole, First of all you live in Seattle, can you spell
    it? Why is all that language needed? I'm a native new
    yorker who now lives down southl Yes I remember the riots
    in NY, Boston and LA as well as Detroit and Newark. I
    would avoid those areas also. Though I do feel safer in
    europe. To Katje, Slovenia is a beautiful country went
    there in 1993 when the fighting was going on in Bosnia. As
    an American I felt safe. I usualy find americans in europe
    trend to speak louder than anyone else andhave limited
    understands of the countries we are visiting. americans
    also tend to bring our bias' to europe especially about
    smoking. Remember we are the visitors and europe is not
    Epcot center at disneyworld. alan



  19. Understanding Added by: alan (aeiger1068@hotmail.com)
    [Timestamp: Sat 24 April, 15:52 Tasmanian Standard Time]

    To lole, First of all you live in Seattle, can you spell
    it? Why is all that language needed? I'm a native new
    yorker who now lives down southl Yes I remember the riots
    in NY, Boston and LA as well as Detroit and Newark. I
    would avoid those areas also. Though I do feel safer in
    europe. To Katje, Slovenia is a beautiful country went
    there in 1993 when the fighting was going on in Bosnia. As
    an American I felt safe. I usualy find americans in europe
    trend to speak louder than anyone else andhave limited
    understands of the countries we are visiting. americans
    also tend to bring our bias' to europe especially about
    smoking. Remember we are the visitors and europe is not
    Epcot center at disneyworld. alan



  20. Europeans do it too Added by: Traveler
    [Timestamp: Sat 24 April, 19:26 Tasmanian Standard Time]

    Marco, you are right that questions like 'is Bavaria
    affected by the Kosovo war' do seem a bit silly, and
    perhaps most of the these types of questions were asked by
    Americans (though a English-looking name, doesn't mean the
    person is American), but still to lump all Americans into
    this category is wrong. I am American and have been living
    in Europe for 6 years (so like you, I know how both places
    work). I've lived 2 years in Eastern Europe and 4 years in
    Scandinavia. Like you, I am not that bothered, per se, by
    security issues. But, when I wanted to travel from the
    Czech Republic to Latvia and Lithuania four years ago many
    Czechs told me, "Are you crazy? It is so dangerous there.
    Don't go! You will definitely be robbed or attacked on the
    trains, etc., etc." So, these were Czechs, not Americans,
    who were worried about saftey issues, and there wasn't even
    a war going on in Latvia or Lithuania!! And then here in
    Scandinavia, I have done a lot of traveling in nearby
    Estonia. I've had some Finns tell me, "Oh, it's so
    dangerous there! People are attacked there, it's very
    unstable, etc." Again, to make my point, these people were
    Finns, NOT Americans, who were worrying, and there is not
    even a war going on in Estonia. I should point out, that I
    am NOT claiming that all Finns or all Czechs make stupid
    statements about safety. I only mention these examples to
    show that it's not just Americans who do these things, but
    also Europeans. I don't blame you, Marco, for being
    annoyed by some of the questions, just don't blame only one
    group of people for them.



  21. P.S. Added by: worry (x)
    [Timestamp: Sun 25 April, 2:42 Tasmanian Standard Time]

    Just yesterday when I was typing my letter, some guys
    bombed the American/British consulate in Ekatyerinburg
    causing very serious material damage.
    Probably the Western Media won't even mention it, because
    watching the CNN or alike broadcasts, you can see the HEAVY
    Censorship about the events in Yugoslavia.
    This case wasn't the first one.
    A few weeks ago some guys in Moscow tried to launch a
    grenade on the US embassy. Probably that guy never been in
    the army, otherwise he would have succeeded in launching
    the grenades. The Russian RPG (grenade launcher) has two
    safety grips and he released only one and of course failed
    to shoot. The only thing he did was only firing a few shots
    from his Kalashnyikov.
    Oh, and what about those NATO ammunitions containing
    Uranium? Those glorious guys dropped quite a significant
    amount of them already and keep on dropping still. Of
    course the NATO tried to refuse the fact, but was forced to
    admit the evidence at last. After that, even in new NATO
    member countries, people started to look at those things in
    a new and not very pleasant for NATO way.



  22. just got back Added by: Kate
    [Timestamp: Sun 25 April, 14:27 Tasmanian Standard Time]

    I returned to the States lst week after spending almost
    three weeks in Belgrade. I arrived in Yugoslavia 4 days
    after the airstrikes started. No one knew I was a foreigner
    unless I started to speak English (even though I have blond
    hair and blue eyes). And even though 5 rich white guys
    control all the English-language media, I would defintely
    say that I trust CNN and SkyNews more than I trust Politika
    and Studio B, who broadcast rumors just to get people
    riled. And although I wasn't alive in pre-war Nazi Germany,
    I have a very good idea of what it's like after all that
    time in Belgrade. I'd talk more about this, but I'm pressed
    for time...



  23. Europe Added by: Sophie (Soffi@ircnet.ee)
    [Timestamp: Sun 25 April, 22:36 Tasmanian Standard Time]

    The readings have been very interesting. Having been in
    the States for a while and having spent most of my life in
    on insignificant tiny former SU country, I can only add
    that its difficult for Europeans to understand that US is
    huge and though divided to 51 states, one and the same
    country (the same sitcoms, the same toilet paper, the
    same cars, the same language). In Europe at the same time
    you can travel through 3 countries in 9 hours. In these
    9 hours you pass three different language and money zones,
    different systems for paying gas and bying tickets for
    public transportation. Every single country is confided to
    that space they live and as a rule is rather xenophobic to
    strangers (different nationality or race, just stranger)
    Every country in Europe has its share of jokes about
    their neighbour country but it doesn't mean racism - its
    sort of neighbourly love :). We in Europe have learned to
    live with the fact that the rest of the world is not like
    us. For Americans this notions is difficult to grasp.
    If in US you're asked "Where you're from" and you say
    Baltics and they ask "Oh is the war really horroble".
    Then there's nothing else to do but shrug your shoulder
    and say "Oh not really". There are ignorant people every-
    where. People have right to worry it doesn't mean that
    every silly question has to be answered. MARKO I was in
    Croatia last summer, I have a good friend there, I
    absolutely loved the country, I am trying to come again
    in June. All the best!



  24. Both sides Added by: Curtis (1084@usa.net)
    [Timestamp: Mon 26 April, 0:38 Tasmanian Standard Time]

    Hi, I'm an American living in Vienna, and after reading the
    above posts, I can definitely understand both sides of the
    story. On one hand, you really can't blame Americans for
    seeming so aloof, because, as some have already said, the
    U.S. is so large, and everything so standardized, and so
    peaceful (meaning we haven't had a war in a very long time,
    and are totally clueless as to the effects of WWI and II in
    Europe), that they think everywhere else is the same. We
    really have no concept of living in such small countries
    where it takes a few hours to go from border to border.
    Furthermore, most Americans don't even know where many
    European countries are located on the map. They have no
    idea how far Bavaria is from Kosovo. I think most
    questions of this type are asked in all honesty, with no
    intent to demean.
    The other hand, is that Europeans are sometimes so hard on
    Americans. I know here in Europe they study much more
    geography in schools than we do. They know more about
    international politics and their neighbouring countries
    because it's something they've had to deal with their whole
    lives. I can imagine that to a European, a question like
    how far Bavaria is from Kosovo must be a joke, but don't
    forget it's just as funny when we hear Europeans afraid of
    visiting NYC because of the violence.



  25. Dear Worry Added by: Traveler
    [Timestamp: Mon 26 April, 18:44 Tasmanian Standard Time]

    Dear Worry,
    Actually some Western media did cover the bombings in
    Yekaterinburg. I saw it on both BBC World and Deustch
    Welle TV, the German news channel.
    I will not defend all the actions of NATO. They have made
    some serious mistakes, that is for sure. I even question,
    if they are the ones who should be taking care of this
    situation. But, on the other hand, how can the ethnic
    cleansing of the Albanian Kosovars be justified? You
    seemed to be angered by NATO's actions, but what about the
    unspeakable things the Serb government has been and is
    doing to the Albanian Kosovars: Raping, Murdering, Burning
    villages! These things were going on before NATO'S
    bombings.
    You are right, though, that the Western media is biased.
    That's why I appreciate your posts, because it is very
    important to hear all sides to a story. I think the media
    tries to make things black and white. In the West they
    want to say that only NATO is good and only Serbia is bad.
    This, of course, is ridiculous. Things are never that
    clear. But, I'm sure that all medias are biased, including
    yours in Russia. I have Russian friends who live in
    Udmurtia, and they told me that they have heard almost
    nothing about the genocide of the Albanian Kosovars by the
    Sebian authorities. So, I guess in Russian too, "you can
    see the HEAVY Censorship about the events in Yugoslavia."



  26. A Black American speaks Added by: Herbert
    [Timestamp: Tue 27 April, 1:52 Tasmanian Standard Time]

    There is racism in Europe. In Moscow,A Black US Marine was
    severly beaten and the perpatrators got away with it. They
    even boast about it on Russian TV! After seeing the movie
    "Broken English" I believe the Croats are racist and never
    tolerent of people of color. The African-Americans who post
    on racial concerns do it to avoid the pitfalls of
    encoutntering skinheads and other racist thugs who poison
    the European Union. It's better to be informed than to be
    unaware of the facts.



  27. Herbert.... Added by: Marko
    [Timestamp: Tue 27 April, 4:18 Tasmanian Standard Time]

    ... Croats are racist, eh? Aren't you being racist now when
    you base your opinions on a movie? I could easily say that
    USA is violent, because I saw Rambo 1. Please don't make
    assumptions like that. There are no more racist people in
    Croatia than in USA or anywhere else for that matter. Take
    people on individual basis - not all blondes are stupid, not
    all white people belong to KKK and not all Irish are drunks.
    As for TV propaganda, every country in the world has that.
    People would attack their governments everyday if there were
    no propaganda. In US (I get an impression) is that they use
    'if-we-don't-talk-about-it,-it-didn't-really-happen' method,
    while in Serbia they use propaganda to actually rally their
    people, which is understandable. Needless to say, you want
    to hide all the bad things that you did.
    I do have to admit that we Europeans are sometimes hard on
    Americans. In some cases it's only a joke, sometimes it's
    envy and sometimes we're just mean. I guess our cultures
    differ quite a bit, although they are very similar.
    Europeans cherish their history, while Americans don't. I
    guess we live in the past and that is what we go by. I don't
    know why, but that is just the way it is. CURTIS - Europeans
    do study a lot of geography, true, but shouldn't Americans
    do it too? Let's assume that Europeans know about Europe and
    Americans know about USA. What about the knowledge of the
    rest of the world. I bet Europeans know Mexico better than
    Americans, although Americans are directly attached to it
    and directly affected by people and culture. But we are
    getting into education issues right now and that's not what
    this group is about.
    I'll be back later to continue....



  28. More about Racism Added by: Elizabeth
    [Timestamp: Tue 27 April, 7:38 Tasmanian Standard Time]

    Racism is everywhere, I think. I hate to generalize, but I
    seriously doubt that there is any place in the world where
    the concept of "Different- not like 'Us'" does NOT exist. I
    suppose we grow accustomed to the ways racism is practiced
    in our own culture.

    If you ask any young Black man in the US whether there is
    racism in the US, I'm sure he would unequivocally agree.
    Statistics will tell you that a clean-cut 20 year old black
    american male is more likely to be followed by clerks in a
    store or stopped by the police than 20 year old white male
    'Phishhead'.

    Racism is a fact, it is everywhere. I certainly hope that
    the people who post here are not trying to insinuate that
    there exists no racism in their homelands- if that is their
    intent, then they are certainly deluding themselves.

    I think the real question, and the way it should be posed,
    is 'What is the NATURE of Racism in ________?'



  29. Racism and Ignorance Added by: Traveler
    [Timestamp: Tue 27 April, 18:19 Tasmanian Standard Time]

    To Marko - you are right about the racism issue (as well
    as Elizabeth). Croatians cannot be any more racist than
    any other country. In some countries it may be more
    institutionalized, by laws, etc., but nevertheless, it
    exists equally in all countries.
    Concerning the belief by Europeans that Americans don't
    know much about geography, I have to say that belief is a
    bit hypocritical. When I first came to Europe 6 years ago,
    I heard a lot of people tell me how ignorant Americans
    are. I had to admit that they were right. I personally am
    a geography fan, but I know that many Americans don't know
    much about other countries, and that there is some shocking
    examples of ignorance in the U.S. BUT what bothered me was
    that the statement implied that Europeans themselves are
    never ignorant about geography, and I soon found that to be
    untrue in many cases. Actually, I found it true for many
    Central and Eastern Europeans, but not for Western
    Europeans. I find that people in Western Europe know very
    little about Central and Eastern Europe. I lived in
    Central Europe for 2 years, and I was always shocked by
    Western Europeans who continued to called the Czech
    Republic, Czechoslovakia, and who had no clue about the
    different countries of the Balkins. Don't even try to ask
    some of them the difference between Slovakia and Slovenia!
    My German friend had no understanding of the 3 Baltic
    states. I know many Finns who when I asked them how many
    countries are in the E.U., they answered: 25?, 19?, 10?
    Some even thought Switzerland and Norway were in the E.U.!!
    And this is their own union!!! One Finnish friend told me
    that her husband was a Finnish diplomat in Paris, and that
    many French diplomats thought that Finland was a part of
    the Soviet Union, and they wouldn't believe her when she
    said it wasn't true! These were diplomats not just people
    on the street! So, you can understand that I was a bit
    angry that I had to hear how stupid Americans were, only to
    find that many Europeans don't know much about their own
    continent, not to mention my British friend who thought San
    Fransico was a U.S. state! And that Florida was in
    California! Perhaps there seem to be so many ignorant
    Americans because the U.S. is such a big country, almost
    the size of Europe. It's a bit unfair to compare all of
    America with just one country of Europe, since most
    countries of Europe are only about the size of a U.S.
    state. So, if you counted all the ignorant people of
    Spain, Iceland, Belarus, Malta, France, Moldova,
    Liechtenstein, etc., then you would probably find that
    there are as many ignorant people as in the U.S. So, my
    feeling about ignorance of geography, is the same as that
    of racism: You can find an equal number of people in every
    country who are racist and an equal number of people in
    every country who are ignorant about other countries.



  30. This IS the appropriate place to ask such questions. Added by: ryan
    [Timestamp: Tue 27 April, 20:48 Tasmanian Standard Time]

    I want to say that my friends were studying in Skopje and
    one was in the American embassy while people tried to burn
    it down. the state department made them come home. so now
    I wouldn't exactly think it would be safe to visit at this
    point. but you are right, it is not Yugo, Albania or
    Kosovo, so we don't need to worry about it. but I want to
    add that Croatia and Bosnia have also been war torn,
    Americans don't know what is safe, especially since this
    fucking world is so anti-american. not to mention we get
    fed a lot of propaganda news ourself.



  31. HYPE kills, that's why Added by: citizen of everywhere
    [Timestamp: Wed 28 April, 8:46 Tasmanian Standard Time]

    Some of the responses imply that Europeans intuit -- or
    possibly just believe -- that wars tend to stay contained
    within the national boundaries of the warring nations.
    Americans, so far removed not just from so many
    elbow-jostlingly-close nationalities, but also historically
    from war itself, are not born with this same perspective. We
    are grossly inexperienced in that arena, and like a person
    unfamiliar with the crime of burglary, for instance, should
    that person be chastised for their innocent na∩vetΘ? It is
    unfortunate, rather, that so many on this planet are not so
    na∩ve. Yes, America is involved with most of Europe in
    trying to squelch what they consider an offense to humanity
    with an offense to humanity. I have not authorized this; I
    just hope that people of other nations will be astute enough
    to recognize this fact when I visit their countries. The
    fact is, we all know there are loose screws the world over,
    and what we need to know as tourists is just how riled their
    national media has gotten them. We can't blame "the people"
    (what is that?), but what we want to know about a country
    before we go there is how tolerant or even encouraging they
    are of such misapplied, targeted hate.



  32. Please... Added by: Renee
    [Timestamp: Wed 28 April, 10:41 Tasmanian Standard Time]

    I'm not an American (I'm Canadian -- yes, there is indeed
    quite a large difference), but I was put off by your post;
    in fact, I'm inclined to think you did it to insure you'd
    get a response, otherwise you'd fall victim to the very
    ignorance for which you criticize "Americans". If you are
    so sick of people inquiring whether or not it is safe to go
    to Europe because of Kosovo, then ignore them -- why get
    yourself so worked up over other people's perceived
    ignorance, especially in such a casual forum as this
    Thorntree? Furthermore, why is it so inconceivable to
    acknowledge that people can be plagued by fears that are
    sometimes irrational. You have to understand that the news
    is almost completely composed of footage from Kosovo, as
    well as various US embassies being vandalized/attacked;
    this coupled with the fact that Europe is a lot smaller
    geographically than the US or Canada could easily instigate
    large-scale possibly misplaced fears about the potential
    safety of many eastern European travellers from US or
    Canada. I myself, who have been to Europe several times am
    a little wary of going to Greece. Why shouldn't I be?
    Greece isn't that far from the war and has ambiguous
    political allegiance. My fear may very well be in vain;
    that is why I seek assurance from those who can give me an
    accurate picture of the situation. This feedback could
    influence whether or not I go. Why is it so difficult to
    understand that people can have irrational fears? Do you
    never have such fears yourself?



  33. Please... Added by: Renee
    [Timestamp: Wed 28 April, 10:41 Tasmanian Standard Time]

    I'm not an American (I'm Canadian -- yes, there is indeed
    quite a large difference), but I was put off by your post;
    in fact, I'm inclined to think you did it to insure you'd
    get a response, otherwise you'd fall victim to the very
    ignorance for which you criticize "Americans". If you are
    so sick of people inquiring whether or not it is safe to go
    to Europe because of Kosovo, then ignore them -- why get
    yourself so worked up over other people's perceived
    ignorance, especially in such a casual forum as this
    Thorntree? Furthermore, why is it so inconceivable to
    acknowledge that people can be plagued by fears that are
    sometimes irrational. You have to understand that the news
    is almost completely composed of footage from Kosovo, as
    well as various US embassies being vandalized/attacked;
    this coupled with the fact that Europe is a lot smaller
    geographically than the US or Canada could easily instigate
    large-scale possibly misplaced fears about the potential
    safety of many eastern European travellers from US or
    Canada. I myself, who have been to Europe several times am
    a little wary of going to Greece. Why shouldn't I be?
    Greece isn't that far from the war and has ambiguous
    political allegiance. My fear may very well be in vain;
    that is why I seek assurance from those who can give me an
    accurate picture of the situation. This feedback could
    influence whether or not I go. Why is it so difficult to
    understand that people can have irrational fears? Do you
    never have such fears yourself?



  34. well mabey your right Added by: Paulootion (ptabakin@hotmail.com)
    [Timestamp: Thu 6 May, 5:26 Tasmanian Standard Time]

    I understand your statment and I dont think that this is
    the place to ask questions about little fears but as an
    Israely jew a couple of peaple who are well traveled told
    me to not where my star of David chain in some countrys I
    said ok and didnt evan think about it until this letter
    dont you think its strange that I took it as completly
    obvias that I should hide my religion there must be
    something to the "dirty jew etc.." comments that I have
    heard secand hand and for the record I would keep the star
    on my neck if I was traviling to the states I would be
    happy to hear from someone who has been to europe and
    thinks other wise but until then the star stays hidden.



  35. Americans Added by: matt
    [Timestamp: Fri 7 May, 10:06 Tasmanian Standard Time]

    Marko and all you other Europeans who keep on generalizing
    all Americans: STOP saying "Americans do this, Americans do
    that, Americans don't" etc. Don't tell me or others what
    Americans know or don't know. Until you put on my shoes
    and skin your opinions are just off base. I am so sick of
    the stereotype "stupid American" played up by Europeans.
    When people ask questions it means they want to learn more
    and be aware of the situation. You should not put people
    down for asking legit questions. By the way I'm willing to
    bet that Americans DO know more about Mexico than most
    Europeans.
    How many US states? 52?



  36. Worries Added by: Mom
    [Timestamp: Fri 7 May, 11:27 Tasmanian Standard Time]

    Yes, there are predjudices (sorry about the spelling)
    everywhere, and dangers everywhere. We were concerned about
    our daughter and her boyfriend traveling to third world
    countries because of attitudes toward women and health
    issues as well as political. Well I am pleased to tell you
    they have had many wonderful experiences interacting with
    the local people of each country. They are now in Europe
    and I pray daily for their continued health and safety.
    Meanwhile back in the states we have had horrendous
    shootings in high schools (human caused disasters) and
    massive distruction due to tornadoes (nature caused
    disasters) We have also have a friend die of cancer, and a
    relative die of old age. So my point? Enjoy the
    oppoutunities that are given to you. Always be respectful
    and polite, to yourself and others. Live each day with the
    knowledge that it may be your last or the last day of
    someone you care about. Don't do things that may cause
    regret. Oh, they convinced me to join them backpacking in
    Europe. At first I thought "I can't do that, and listed all
    the reasons. When I ran out of ezcuses, I realized that I
    could go, and we will all have exciting adventures and
    special memories to share and bring us closer together. I
    can't wait for the next two weeks to pass. Be wise, and
    enjoy what the Lord has given you. Take Care.



  37. Fair Questions Added by: Road Slave
    [Timestamp: Tue 11 May, 6:47 Tasmanian Standard Time]

    Generally, Americans are less informed about what they can
    expect in other countries. As a previous poster mentioned,
    it's a question of space. Unlike most Europeans, none of us
    live within a few hours of several neighboring countries.
    So many Americans, quite reasonably, ask the question: what
    can I expect? Hey, how the hell else do you find out?
    It's a totally different cultural perspective growing up
    entirely in America. In my opinion, someone who claims to
    be more culturally "enlightened" than his American
    counterpart is demonstrating just the opposite by making
    that claim.
    Also, it is an individual thing. I have years of road time
    logged and feel quite comfortable going anywhere (Algeria,
    Iraq, Yugoslavia not included). The more borders you cross,
    the more at ease you feel crossing them. American's just
    don't have the border crossing opportunities that exist in
    Europe.



  38. Come on Marko!! Added by: Tommy
    [Timestamp: Fri 14 May, 21:27 Tasmanian Standard Time]

    You are all worrying about racism? I agree with Herbert's
    point about a black marine being beaten in Moscow...sick.
    But Marko, how can you say that the Croats are not racist!!
    I have friends there who are not tolerant at the best of
    times, and just take a look at their history! Pavelic
    killed millions of Jews, Serbs and Gypsies in WW2, and the
    formation of the football club 'Hrvatski Dragovoljac'
    (means Croatian volunteer soldier and is mainly a
    fascist team) shows that 50 years doesn't change a nation.
    Although the racism in Croatia is a minority thing...their
    people are capable of being much more vicious than a lot of
    racists in other places.
    Anyway Marko, I love Croatia anyway, and if anyone is racist
    to me, I just say "COME ON THEN!!!" and that's usually the
    end of it!!
    Tommy



  39. aaaargh Added by: sanjin (potkonjak_98@yahoo.com)
    [Timestamp: Sun 16 May, 23:59 Tasmanian Standard Time]

    Tommy!
    First of all,in Croatia there is much less fascists then in many other countries(including the US).Pavelic did kill lot of people(but not millions)and big part of that people were Croats.Only very small number suported Pavelic and on each fascists there were at least 5-6 partizans.You said that nation can change in 50 years.That's so stupid.During WWII there were nations where there were much more fascists(for example,Baltic states)and I really don't see why should Croatia be marked.
    You say that some of your friends aren't tollerent.Well,lets say that your father or grandfather was killed by Japs or Germans in WWII ;how tollerent would you be towards them(not now,but over then),could you shake the hand of your fathers killer and say no hard feelings.I don't think so.
    Besided,in the last 50 years Americans killed more inocent people then Croats in 1000 years.



  40. Humble Added by: Tommy
    [Timestamp: Tue 18 May, 22:05 Tasmanian Standard Time]

    Okay, I accept that I was wrong on a great many points about
    Croatia. Sorry. Anyway, I wasn't trying to slag Croatia
    off, as I like it very much.
    Tommy



  41. my 2 bobs. Added by: ex europian
    [Timestamp: Thu 20 May, 8:39 Tasmanian Standard Time]

    all you guys are worying about racism in usa and europe,
    Just take a good look on the globe on the botom half you'll
    fing a huge continent callEd AUSTRALIA. IT IS ABOUT 22000 KM
    FROM EUROPE far enough?
    here you find more racism than anywhere in the world.. i
    know i live here, i am originaly from central europe.
    i only wanted to say racism all over the world .. not only
    in europe and usa.




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