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         3                A: Personality               3
         3                B: Career                    3ì
         3                C: Home                      3ì
         3                D: Midlife                   3ì
         3                E: Mates                     3ì
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                           Personality

ENFJ'≤á arσ outstandinτ leader≤ oµ groups¼á botΦ tasδ group≤á anΣ ì
growtΦá groups«á The∙ havσ thσ charminτ characteristiπ oµ seeminτ ì
t∩á takσ fo≥ granteΣ tha⌠ the∙ wil∞ bσ followed¼á neve≥á doubtinτ ì
tha⌠ peoplσ wil∞ wan⌠ t∩ d∩ wha⌠ the∙ suggest«á And¼á morσá ofteε ì
thaεá not¼á peoplσá do¼á becausσ thi≤ typσ ha≤ unusua∞á charisma« ì
ENFJ'≤ placσ ß higΦ valuσ oε cooperatioε froφ other≤ anΣ arσ mos⌠ ì
willinτ t∩ cooperatσ themselves.

FounΣ iε onl∙ ╡ percen⌠ oµ thσ genera∞ population¼á ENFJ'≤á placσ ì
peoplσ a≤ beinτ oµ highes⌠ importancσ anΣ priority«á A≤ ß result¼ ì
ENFJ'≤á ma∙ finΣ themselve≤ feelinτ responsiblσ fo≥ thσá feeling≤ ì
oµá other≤á t∩ aε exten⌠ whicΦ place≤ ß burdeε oε  thσá relationì
ship« Aε ENF╩  communicate≤ caring¼ concern¼ anΣ ß willingnes≤ t∩ ì
becomσá involved«á Thu≤á peoplσ turε t∩ ENFJ'≤á fo≥á nurturσá anΣ ì
support¼á whicΦá aεá ENF╩ i≤ usuall∙ ablσ t∩ deliver«á A⌠á times¼ ì
however¼ thesσ kind≤ oµ demand≤ caε overwhelφ ENFJ's¼ wh∩ finΣ a⌠ ì
thi≤ poin⌠ tha⌠ the∙ lacδ thσ skill≤ t∩ dissociate« ENFJ'≤ d∩ no⌠ ì
seeφá ablσ t∩ turε awa∙ froφ thesσ demand≤ eveε wheε the∙á becomσ ì
unreasonable« Or¼ iµ forceΣ t∩ le⌠ g∩ oµ thσ burdeε througΦ shee≥ ì
unavailabilit∙ oµ timσ o≥ energy¼á ENFJ'≤ experiencσ ß guil⌠á al∞ ì
ou⌠á oµ proportioε t∩ thσ realitie≤ oµ thσ commitmen⌠ madσ t∩ thσ ì
relationship.

ENFJ'≤á arσá especiall∙ vulnerablσá t∩á idealizinτá interpersona∞ ì
relationships¼á raisinτ thesσ relationship≤ t∩ ß planσ whicΦ selì
doφá caε sustaiε thσ realitie≤ oµ humaε nature«á Becausσ oµá thi≤ ì
tendenc∙á t∩ raisσ interpersona∞ relation≤ t∩ thσá ideal¼á ENFJ'≤ ì
ma∙á unwittingl∙ overpowe≥ thei≥ friends¼á wh∩ believσ tha⌠á the∙ ì
canno⌠ possibly livσ u≡ t∩ aε ENFJ'≤ perceptioε oµ them« Thσ fac⌠ ì
is¼á ENFJ'≤ arσ extraordinaril∙ toleran⌠ oµ others¼ seldoφ critiì
cal¼ anΣ alway≤ trustworthy.

ENFJ'≤á takσ communicatioε fo≥ granteΣ anΣ believσ tha⌠ the∙á arσ ì
understooΣá anΣ tha⌠ thei≥ communication≤ arσ accepted«á Jus⌠á a≤ ì
the∙ themselve≤ arσ accepting¼á s∩ d∩ the∙ assumσ tha⌠ other≤ arσ ì
thσá same«á Wheε ENFJ'≤ finΣ tha⌠ thei≥ positioε o≥ belief≤á werσ ì
no⌠ comprehendeΣ o≥ accepted¼á the∙ arσ surprised¼á puzzled¼á anΣ ìèsometime≤á hurt«á Fortunately¼á thi≤á doe≤ no⌠ happeεá witΦá higΦ ì
frequency¼á a≤á ENFJ'≤á havσ ß remarkablσ fluenc∙ witΦá language¼ ì
especiall∙ iε speech╗á the∙ arσ particularl∙ adep⌠ wheεá communiì
catinτ face-to-facσ a≤ opposeΣ t∩ communicatinτ iε writing«á The∙ ì
arσ influential¼ therefore¼ iε groups¼ havinτ n∩ hesitatioε abou⌠ ì
speakinτ out¼ n∩ matte≥ ho≈ largσ o≥ smal∞ thσ grou≡ ma∙ be.

ENFJ'≤á havσ aε unusua∞ abilit∙ t∩ relatσ t∩ other≤ witΦ empathy¼ ì
takinτ int∩ themselve≤ thσ characteristics¼ emotions¼ anΣ belief≤ ì
oµá others«á Thi≤ caε posσ ß dange≥ fo≥ ENFJ'≤ becausσá the∙á caε ì
unconsciousl∙ over-identif∙ witΦ other≤ anΣ picδ u≡ thei≥ burden≤ ì
a≤ iµ the∙ werσ thei≥ own«á Iε thσ process¼ ENFJ'≤ ma∙ risδ thei≥ ì
owεá sensσá oµá identity«á The∙ havσ ß natura∞ abilit∙á t∩á mimiπ ì
becausσá oµ thi≤ highl∙ developeΣ abilit∙ t∩ empathizσ b∙á introì
jection«á The∙ arσ likel∙ t∩ bσ ver∙ concerneΣ abou⌠ thσ problem≤ ì
oµ thosσ closσ t∩ them¼á bu⌠ the∙ als∩ ma∙ ge⌠ a≤ deepl∙ involveΣ ì
iεá thσá problem≤ oµ thosσ no⌠ s∩ closσ anΣ ma∙á finΣá themselve≤ ì
over-extendeΣ emotionally.

ENFJ'≤ woulΣ d∩ wel∞ t∩ follo≈ thei≥ hunches¼ fo≥ thei≥ intuitioε ì
tend≤ t∩ bσ wel∞ developed« Decision≤ madσ purel∙ oε thσ basi≤ oµ ì
logiπ ma∙ no⌠ bσ s∩ sound¼á anΣ checkinτ  witΦ ß persoε wh∩ ha≤ ß ì
stronτ ╘ preferencσ migh⌠ bσ a⌠ time≤ advisablσ fo≥ thσ ENFJ« áIε ì
thσ frameworδ oµ values¼ however¼ thσ ENF╩ i≤ oε certaiε áground« ì
Generally¼ áthe∙ kno≈ wha⌠ the∙ prefe≥ anΣ caε reaΣ otherä ápeoplσ ì
witΦ áoutstandinτ áaccuracy« Seldoφ i≤ aε ENF╩ áwronτ áabou⌠ áthσ ì
motivation≤ o≥ inten⌠ oµ another¼ hiddeε o≥ not«


                             Career

Thi≤á longinτá fo≥ thσ perfec⌠ carrie≤ ove≥ int∩ thσá career≤á oµ ì
ENFJ's¼ wh∩ experiencσ somσ degreσ oµ restlessnes≤ whateve≥ thei≥ ì
jobs«á And¼á a≤ witΦ ENFP's¼á ENFJ'≤ havσ ß widσ rangσ oµ occupaì
tion≤ whicΦ offe≥ success«á Beinτ verball∙ adept¼á ENFJ'≤ contriì
butσ t∩ aε unusua∞ leve∞ wheε dealinτ witΦá people¼á particularl∙ ì
face-to-face╗á thσ media¼á thσ ministry¼ anΣ thσ stagσ anΣ screeε ì
arσá populateΣ witΦ successfu∞ ENFJ's«á The∙ makσ superio≥ theraì
pists¼á charismatiπ teachers¼ excellen⌠ executives¼ anΣ personalì
izeΣ salespersons« Area≤ tha⌠ woulΣ no⌠ permi⌠ utilizatioε oµ thσ ì
interactiona∞ talent≤ oµ ENFJ'≤ fo≥ example¼á accounting¼á shoulΣ ì
bσá avoided╗á otherwise¼á almos⌠ an∙ people-to-peoplσá occupatioε ì
wherσ personal¼á sustaineΣ contac⌠ i≤ involveΣ capitalize≤ oε thσ ì
personalit∙ oµ aε ENFJ.

ENFJ'╙ likσ t∩ havσ thing≤ settleΣ anΣ organized«á The∙ prefe≥ t∩ ì
plaε botΦ worδ anΣ socia∞ engagement≤ aheaΣ anΣ tenΣ t∩ bσá absoì
lutel∙á reliablσ iε honorinτ thesσ commitments«á ENFJ'≤ arσá ver∙ ì
mucΦá a⌠ homσ iε comple° situation≤ whicΦ requirσ thσ jugglinτ oµ ì
mucΦ data«á A⌠ thσ samσ time¼á the∙ caε handlσ peoplσ witΦá charφ ì
anΣ concern«á ENFJ'≤ arσ usuall∙ popula≥ whereve≥ the∙ are« Thei≥ ì
abilit∙á t∩ bσ comfortablσ eithe≥ leadinτ o≥ followinτ make≤ theφ ì
eas∙á t∩ havσ around¼á whateve≥ thσ situation«á ┴á well-developeΣ ì
ENF╩ grou≡ leade≥ caε provide¼á almos⌠ endlessly¼á activitie≤ fo≥ ì
group≤á t∩á engagσá iε witΦ almos⌠ n∩ preplanninτá anΣá caεá finΣ ìèadequatσ role≤ fo≥ member≤ oµ thσ grou≡ t∩ play«á Iεá some¼á thi≤ ì
caεá amoun⌠ t∩ geniu≤ whicΦ othe≥ type≤ finΣ harΣ t∩ emulate«á Iε ì
thi≤á abilit∙á t∩ organizσ withou⌠ planninτ therσá i≤á ßá certaiε ì
similarit∙á t∩ aε ESFJ¼á bu⌠ thσ latte≥ act≤ morσ a≤ ß maste≥á oµ ì
ceremonie≤á thaεá a≤ ß leade≥ oµ groups«á Thσ ESF╩ i≤ morσá oµá ß ì
recreationa∞á leader¼á wh∩ insure≤ tha⌠ eacΦ membe≥ ha≤ fuε a⌠á ß ì
part∙á anΣá tha⌠ thσ righ⌠ thing≤ arσ expresseΣ a⌠á socia∞á occaì
sions¼á especiall∙á institutiona∞á socia∞ occasion≤ sucΦ a≤á wedì
dings¼á funeral≤ parties¼á anΣ thσ like«á ENFJ's¼á jus⌠ likσá thσ ì
ESFJ's¼á valuσá harmoniou≤á humaε relation≤ abovσ al∞á else╗á bu⌠ ì
ENFJ'≤á arσ no⌠ s∩ easil∙ crusheΣ b∙ indifferencσ a≤á arσá ESFJ'≤ ì
anΣ arσ morσ independen⌠ oµ other'≤ valuations.


                              Home

ENFJ'≤á arσá sociall∙á adep⌠ anΣ makσá excellen⌠á companion≤á anΣ ì
mates«á The∙ als∩ arσ deepl∙ devoteΣ t∩ thei≥ children¼á ye⌠ tenΣ ì
no⌠á t∩ bσ domineerinτ t∩ eithe≥ thσ childreε o≥ mate«á Iεá fact¼ ì
thσá ENF╩ i≤ s∩ even-tempereΣ tha⌠ hσ o≥ shσ caε bσ victimizeΣ b∙ ì
ß matσ wh∩ migh⌠ havσ becomσ morσ anΣ morσ demanding.

ENF╩á mate≤ alway≤ tr∙ t∩ pleasσ anΣ fee∞ personall∙á responsiblσ ì
wheε homσ lifσ doe≤ no⌠ g∩ smoothly«á The∙ arσ tireles≤ iεá thei≥ ì
effort≤ t∩ seσ tha⌠ i⌠ does¼á providinτ generousl∙ froφ availablσ ì
income¼á time¼ anΣ energy« Thi≤ dedicatioε ofteε exists¼ however¼ ì
sidσ b∙ sidσ witΦ aε ENFJ'≤ dreaφ oµ thσ perfec⌠ relationshi≡ - ß ì
characteristiπ oµ al∞ NF's¼á bu⌠ onσ whicΦ i≤ particularl∙ stronτ ì
iεá aεá ENFJ«á Thu≤ aε ENF╩ ha≤ tha⌠ longinτ fo≥ thσá idea∞á tha⌠ ì
result≤ iε ß vaguσ dissatisfactioε witΦ whateve≥ i≤ iε thσ wa∙ oµ ì
relationships¼ matinτ a≤ wel∞ a≤ friendships.


                             Midlife

A⌠ midlife¼ ENFJ'≤ migh⌠ wan⌠ t∩ expanΣ thei≥ capabilitie≤ towarΣ ì
introverteΣ activitie≤ sucΦ a≤ reading¼ gardening¼ painting« The∙ ì
als∩á ma∙ wan⌠ t∩ increasσ thei≥ sensitivit∙ t∩ classica∞á music¼ ì
subtletie≤á oµá finσ food≤ anΣ beverages¼á beginninτá t∩á develo≡ ì
ever-increasinτá discrimination≤á oµ finenes≤ amonτ finσá things« ì
Alread∙ likel∙ t∩ bσ ß gourmet¼á aε ENF╩ migh⌠ becomσ ßá connoisì
seu≥ ar⌠ collector¼á fo≥ example¼ o≥ aε exper⌠ oµ medieva∞ tapesì
tries« Also¼ thσ developmen⌠ furthe≥ oµ intellectua∞ capabilitie≤ ì
migh⌠ interes⌠ ENFJ'≤ a⌠ midlife¼ perhap≤ takinτ thσ directioε oµ ì
forma∞á study«á ENFJ'≤ havσ thσ abilit∙ t∩ appreciatσ botΦ peoplσ ì
anΣá nature¼á anΣ morσ timσ spen⌠ iε trave∞ migh⌠ bσá gratifying¼ ì
particularl∙ iµ thi≤ wa≤ useΣ a≤ aε opportunit∙ t∩ collec⌠á work≤ ì
oµ art.


                              Mates

Wh∩á caε complemen⌠ thi≤ growth-catalyst┐á Thσ oppositσ oε thσá ╙ ì
sidσ i≤ ISTP¼á thσ "artisan.ó I⌠ i≤ no⌠ difficul⌠ t∩ seσ ho≈á thσ ì
teache≥á inheren⌠á iεá thσá ENF╩ woulΣ wan⌠ t∩á "brinτá outóá thσ ìècraftsmaε iε thσ ISTP«á Thσ artisan¼ however¼ ha≤ anothe≥ sidσ t∩ ì
hi≤ naturσ tha⌠ pop≤ u≡ occasionall∙ anΣ iε somσ case≤ i≤ ßá lifσ ì
theme║á adventurσ anΣ exploration«á Thσ IST╨ can¼ s∩ t∩ speak¼ bσ ì
wayward¼ takσ ofµ fo≥ part≤ unknown« I⌠ i≤ difficul⌠ t∩ imaginσ ß ì
simila≥á desirσá oε thσ par⌠ oµ thσ ENF╩ t∩ brinτ ou⌠á adventureì
someness.

Thσ ENFJ¼á oε thσ intuitivσ side¼á find≤ thσ INT╨ attractive« No≈ ì
herσ i≤ ß splendiΣ targe⌠ fo≥ ou≥ catalyst¼ fo≥ beneatΦ thσ cool¼ ì
collected¼á detached¼á anΣ doubtinτ exterio≥ lie≤ aε architec⌠ oµ ì
buildings¼ machines¼ tools¼ operations¼ tactics¼ languages¼ mathì
ematics¼á o≥ whateve≥ caε bσ designed« If¼ tha⌠ is¼ thi≤ latentl∙ ì
capablσ designe≥ caε bσ "activatedó o≥ "brough⌠ out".