ocr: COUPLE'S ANALYSIS ELLIE AND BEN HE PRIMARY RULES for good sex are that it should be safe, have no time limits, and be carried out in private. The secondary rules, which we often understand only when we are older, are that sex doesn't have to end in orgasm in order to be good, that orgasm doesn't have to happen through intercourse, and that a sexual encounter can end with orgasm achieved through masturbation and still remain a marvelous, shared experience. MIND CHANGES These secondary rules are not excuses to cover those people who aren't very good at lovemaking. They are
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