ocr: PAGE 2 INDIVIDUALS ANALYSIS actually teaches your partner the wrong methods of getting you to reach orgasm. Ifyour partner thinks a particular method of lovemaking works well for you, he or she is likely to continue using it, compounding the problem. Having the courage to confess sometimes that things aren't quite right and asking for patience and for different stimulations are ways to open up trust - and of course to promote orgasm. Sometimes what is needed to get a woman to orgasm is simply more stimulation. And a vibrator can provide that instead of a penis or fingers. But raising the subje ...