ocr: ELAINE'S HISTORY FLAINE had an obvious zest for life. She dressed stylishly, - andlooked glamorously sexy. "Stefan's not the only one who's concerned, she said. "Iknow Ishould get rid ofthe belief that sex represents love, and therefore Stefan doesn'tlove me anymore Ican see that logically this doesn't make sense, but underneath I'm feeling more and more unloved. As Isee it, the problem isn't only on my side. Istill desire Stefan. Istill try to initiate sex. And once every few months I1 finally goad him into doing something about it. "But that isn't good enough, and I'm thinking ofjust giving ...