selfwf: You take $F's hand in yours and say in a soft voice: Why don't we go somewhere private so we can *ahem* get to know eachother better? You smile seductively at $F.
allwf: $N takes $F's hand in $G and says in a soft voice: Why don't we go somewhere private so we can *ahem* get to know eachother better? $N smiles seductively at $F.
focus: $N takes your hand in $G and says in a soft voice: Why don't we go somewhere private so we can *ahem* get to know eachother better? $N smiles seductively at you.