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lds-yw-digest           Friday, July 3 1998           Volume 01 : Number 168




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Date: Thu, 2 Jul 1998 19:15:42 EDT
From: <[e-mail]>
Subject: (lds-yw) Challenge Rope Course

Stacey-

Thanks so much for the info on the rope course.  I'd seen the title before but
never understood.  It sounds so neat.  Could you send the name, address,
and/or phone # for the one you went to?  Where at in Washington is it?  I
think it would be too far a drive for us, but we go up there sometimes as a
family.  It sounds like the people taking you through add tremendously to the
experience.  Does anyone know of a similar course in Idaho or Utah?  Thanks
for any help.  I'm thinking ahead to next summer's Youth Conference.

Ga in Idaho

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Date: Thu, 2 Jul 1998 16:21:08 -0700 (PDT)
From: "A. Deheide" <[e-mail]>
Subject: Re: (lds-yw) Candles

A variation on sand candles is ice candles.  (Great alternative if you
aren't at the beach or don't want to haul sand.)
Fill cardboard milk cartons with ice cubes and pour hot wax over the ice
cubes.  (If you have plenty of wax, use big cartons; otherwise use one
serving cartons!)  The wax cools, the ice melts and you pour the water out
of the holes left by the ice cubes.  This makes a very interestingly
designed candle.  (Don't forget to attach the wick.)


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Date: Thu, 2 Jul 1998 17:17:03 -0600
From: "Charmaine L. Peck" <[e-mail]>
Subject: Re: (lds-yw) Challenge Rope Course

Ga, I heard they have one here in Salt Lake at Fort Douglas.  We are talking
about doing it for Youth Conference next year.  My hubby did one once, too,
with the youth.  When he gets back in town I will get details.

Charee Peck
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Date: Thursday, July 02, 1998 5:18 PM
Subject: (lds-yw) Challenge Rope Course


>Stacey-
>
>Thanks so much for the info on the rope course.  I'd seen the title before
but
>never understood.  It sounds so neat.  Could you send the name, address,
>and/or phone # for the one you went to?  Where at in Washington is it?  I
>think it would be too far a drive for us, but we go up there sometimes as a
>family.  It sounds like the people taking you through add tremendously to
the
>experience.  Does anyone know of a similar course in Idaho or Utah?  Thanks
>for any help.  I'm thinking ahead to next summer's Youth Conference.
>
>Ga in Idaho
>
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Date: Thu, 2 Jul 1998 19:25:06 -0500
From: "Mike and Diana Burns" <[e-mail]>
Subject: Re: (lds-yw) YW Camp & church double standards? -Reply

I know this subject is past it's prime but I had to relate an experience that we had
regarding our snipe hunt we had this year.  The girls planned a snipe hunt and it was
well supervised by numerous adult leaders including myself.  Each ward was invited
and all attended except one.  Jonesboro, AR falls in our stake and they would not
participate.  Their leaders strictly told them to stay in their tents.  I didn't
quite understand until the next day.  I went on the hike and walked with their
leader.

She explained that her girls were mad at her, and she was really upset about that,
but she has a couple of girls that were caught in the middle of the school shooting
rampage.  They have been through a tremendous amount of counseling and she was afraid
that being out in the middle of a dark field would dredge up memories that they are
trying to forget.  She shed a whole new light on the subject and all the girls were
sorry they didn't understand that night.  It made us really think about the
circumstances and appreciate this leader for her concern.  Diana
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From: Marcia Leon <[e-mail]>
To: [e-mail] <[e-mail]>
Date: Tuesday, June 23, 1998 9:12 AM
Subject: (lds-yw) YW Camp & church double standards? -Reply


>Rick,
>
>I just happen to have my camp manual at work with me and have gone through
>every page ... there is no official ruling on "hazing" as in your scout
>handbook.  And I don't have a scout handbook to know what that states ...
>but if you say that in that handbook snipe hunts are considered a form of
>hazing then I guess it is according to the scouts!  Our camp manual simply
>states "Church standards should be upheld at camp.  Leaders are responsible
>to see that the standards followed in dress, music, and activities are in
>keeping with what the Savior would have his people do."  Maybe you might
>think that the Savior wouldn't approve of snipe hunts ... who knows.  Now
>allow me to just state my very personal opinion on this subject that you
>brought up ...
>
>I have never even thought of a snipe hunt as "hazing" - I guess my
>interpretation of hazing is different.  I consider hazing to be rough or
>cruel, causing harm to a person ... the dictionary also states that hazing
>is "to harass or persecute with meaningless, difficult, or demeaning tasks
>or to initiate, as into a college fraternity, by playing rough practical
>jokes on or exacting demeaning performances from."  Snipe hunts at girls
>camp are just a fun tradition and girls are not forced to participate in
>them if they choose not to.  We don't single out any individual and
>humiliate or harm them ... it's just a fun game where the girls have some
>fun ... and believe it or not, it creates some unity and memories for the
>girls ... they talk about it for months!  I have never heard it referred to
>as a form of "initiation" in our stake so it's never been a concern to me.
>I guess I would be uneasy if our girls considered it as such and would stop
>it if it came to that ( I will have to talk to them about that! ).  Now as
>you must be aware, girls are different than boys!  A boy's idea of fun
>would not be the same as a girl's... that would make a difference!   In our
>stake snipe hunts aren't really planned - the girls all mention it before
>and during camp but no one really takes the time to prepare something -
>it's usually just done at camp.  I remember about 7 years ago at a ward
>camp out - one of the men (who is now the first counselor in our stake
>presidency) took all the kids down to the stream late one night and had
>them convinced that they saw snipes!  The kids had a blast and even the
>adults sitting back at the campfire had a laugh hearing the story when they
>all got back!
>A couple of years ago there was an adult leader at girls camp that was
>strongly opposed to a snipe hunt because she considered it deceitful ... I
>guess that was her opionion ... I happen to think it's all harmless fun,
>but that's only my opinion ... and we are all entitled to have our opinion!
>
>Didn't mean for this to be so long!
>
>Marcia in NJ
>
>
>
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Date: Thu, 2 Jul 1998 21:24:40 EDT
From: <[e-mail]>
Subject: Re: (lds-yw) Challenge Rope Course

Do you happen to know if they have one of those rope courses in Texas?
Thanks!
Mznuk

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Date: Fri, 3 Jul 1998 01:46:53 EDT
From: <[e-mail]>
Subject: Re: (lds-yw) Challenge Rope Course

In a message dated 98-07-02 19:19:43 EDT, you write:

<<
  Thanks so much for the info on the rope course.  I'd seen the title before
but
 never understood.  It sounds so neat.  Could you send the name, address,
 and/or phone # for the one you went to?  Where at in Washington is it?  I
 think it would be too far a drive for us, but we go up there sometimes as a
 family.  It sounds like the people taking you through add tremendously to the
 experience.  Does anyone know of a similar course in Idaho or Utah?  Thanks
 for any help.  I'm thinking ahead to next summer's Youth Conference.
  >>

I can give the info... I just need to collect it back from the couple in my
ward I gave it too. I'll have them bring it Sunday. It is at the Whidbey
Institute on Whidbey Island. It is a 20 minute ferry ride from Mulkiteo Ferry,
which is 30 minutes north of Seattle. YES, the couple added so much to it. But
then again... I haven't been to any others to compare. There has GOT to be
some in Idaho or Utah.  And it would be great for families or anyone. (One
MiaMaid was even saying she wants to have her birthday party there!!!  I don't
know if they do birthday parties! ▄)

I'll post the info. to the list on Sunday evening!
Stacey

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Date: Fri, 3 Jul 1998 01:52:31 EDT
From: <[e-mail]>
Subject: Re: (lds-yw) Challenge Rope Course

In a message dated 98-07-02 21:28:26 EDT, you write:

<<
 Do you happen to know if they have one of those rope courses in Texas?
 Thanks!
 Mznuk >>

I'm sorry I don't... but I didn't know they had one here either until I just
started calling & calling! Finally, I found someone who knew about it. Maybe
you will too! Good Luck!
Stacey

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Date: Fri, 3 Jul 1998 02:05:06 EDT
From: <[e-mail]>
Subject: Re: (lds-yw) Challenge Rope Course

In a message dated 98-07-02 21:28:26 EDT, you write:

<<
 Do you happen to know if they have one of those rope courses in Texas?
 Thanks!
 Mznuk >>

P.S. Places to start calling... Parks & Recreation Departments,
                                     and Health & Human Services Departments
                                      (for counties, cities, etc.)

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Date: Fri, 3 Jul 1998 02:16:42 -0400
From: [e-mail] (Karen Anderson)
Subject: Re: (lds-yw) Decision Activity

Does anyone have this decision activity that they could send me that
doesn't have all the extra numbers and letters all over it????  I usually
take time to do it myself but I'm having a problem getting anything done
right now and I would love to use this real soon and looked great!!!!

Thanks
Karen

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Date: Fri, 3 Jul 1998 05:09:42 EDT
From: <[e-mail]>
Subject: (lds-yw) How to?

Can someone help me change my subscription on this list to
set no mail?  I have lost the instructions and when doing a search for LDS YW
mailing list I cannot find the page I joined this list on.

Thanks in advance :)   Happy 4th to all !!



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Date: Fri, 3 Jul 1998 06:21:34 -0700 (PDT)
From: mission mary <[e-mail]>
Subject: (lds-yw) new to young women

Hello,

 I feel as though I am in a disaster. I have been called as first
councillor in young women a month ago. Last Sunday was the first time
we; as a new branch, had young women to teach. This Sunday the young
women might be there again ( they are inactives) and I was asked to
prepare a lesson. We have no lesson manuals and my young women
president is not going to be there this Sunday. I'm really stuck. I am
a convert so I never really did the young woman's program before and
so I am wondering if it is ok to use the family home evening manual. I
really need to know before Sunday.

You can reach me at

[e-mail]

Sincerely in need,

Mary-Ellen
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Date: Fri, 3 Jul 1998 06:45:41 -0700 (PDT)
From: mission mary <[e-mail]>
Subject: Re: (lds-yw) yw-same boat

Misty,

I know what that girl is going through. I lived it. My mother is an
abusive person, my older sister has a child out of marriage, and my
younger sis ter is a prostitue. It's really tough for me because my my
older sisters baby is also my god child.

There are some ways in which oyu can get her out, but it has to be
done willingly by herself. It is all based on the girls mentality. You
need to know if she is being abused and what is she learning from her
sisters. The one thing people tend to forget is...what have her
parents been telling her she can amount to. For example, my mother
used to take a dictionary, put it on the top of my younger sisters
head then slam her fist on it. After which came the words "your onnly
a prostitue and that's all you will ever be" (these words have been
modified) So after years of being told this, my sister amounted to
what she was giuven confidence to do. What I am trying to say is, this
girl you are talking about might have been programed to be like her
sisters, because that is what her parents have taught her to be.
Unfortunately, the only way you can help her is to get her out of the
broken home and show her who she really is.
 My advise is to keep praying. I'll help for her too pray as well.

Good luck sister. Just remember through all the hard times God is
there to help you.

:)

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Date: Fri, 3 Jul 1998 07:24:21 -0700 (PDT)
From: Linda Melville-Boekweg <[e-mail]>
Subject: Re: (lds-yw) Scones Recipe

Hey,

I'm Linda in Port Orchard (near Bremerton)

I'm from the south.  So when we passed the signs for Puyallup - I thought,
" Gee, this is a mighty hospitible place."  That place is Pu(ll)y'all up -
just like I talk.  They want to pull y'all up - like up from the south :)



On Fri, 26 Jun 1998, Meledie Knopf wrote:

> I moved here from Idaho, and I didn't know how to pronounce it either! I
> kept calling it "Pully-up"! And Sequim! Who would have thought to
> pronounce it "Squim"??? Goofy!
>=20
> =DC Meledie in Arlington, WA

> On Fri, 26 Jun 1998 00:09:55 -0400 [e-mail] (Susan G Kane)
> writes:
> >*I have to tell you all a funny one!
> >Coming from New England I look at the name Puyallup, and this what I=20
> >read: Pie * a * Loop. Isn't that crazy?!?!?!
> >
> >On Fri, 19 Jun 1998 08:32:05 EDT <[e-mail]> writes:
> >>In a message dated 98-06-19 01:21:00 EDT, you write:
> >
> >>By the way, all of you who aren't familiar with Washington might have=
=20
> >had a
> >>hard time with Puyallup... I sure did when I moved here! It's "pew"=20
> >(as
> >>in..."PEW... somethin' STINKS around here!") and "allup"   (as in=20
> >gallop). (I
> >>kept trying to say Pooey-allup or Poo-yallop. Didn't know what to do=20
> >>with thatY in there! But, I'm 99% brain dead so that explains that.)=20
> >=DC
> >>
> >>Stacey
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Date: Fri, 26 Jun 1998 09:10:02 -0700
From: Jerry Colwell <[e-mail]>
Subject: Re: (lds-yw) How to?

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Date: Wed, 1 Jul 1998 20:43:36 -0600
From: "JOAN COULLIETTE" <[e-mail]>
Subject: Re: (lds-yw) frozen milk?

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original plastic containers, it was just fine.  Don't remember having =
any milk left after camp.  Worked great for us!  Joan in SLC =
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long is it good for?  I know I should know this, but I haven't been =
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    Thanks,
    Ali

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Date: Fri, 3 Jul 1998 09:35:22 -0600
From: Kent & Karen Gray <[e-mail]>
Subject: (lds-yw) FW: What I have learned

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"I HAVE LEARNED"
I'VE LEARNED that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be
someone who can be loved.....The rest is up to them
I'VE LEARNED that no matter how much I care, some people just don't care
back
I'VE LEARNED that no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt
you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that
I'VE LEARNED that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want
to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have
I'VE LEARNED that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at
first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to takes
its place
I'VE LEARNED that there are people who love you dearly, but just don't
know how to show it
I'VE LEARNED that true friendship continues to grow, even over the
longest distance. Same goes for true love
I'VE LEARNED that although the word "love" can have many different
meanings, it loses value when overly used
I'VE LEARNED that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences
you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many
birthdays you've celebrated
I'VE LEARNED that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others.
Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself
I'VE LEARNED that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world
doesn't stop for your grief
I"V E LEARNED that our background and circumstances may have influenced
who we are, but we are responsible for who we become
I'VE LEARNED That sometimes when my friends fight, I'm forced to choose
sides even when I don't want to
I'VE LEARNED That just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they
don't love each other. And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean
they do
I'VE LEARNED That sometimes you have to put the individual ahead of their
actions
I'VE LEARNED That we don't have to change friends if we understand that
friends change
I'VE LEARNED That you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It
could change your life forever
I'VE LEARNED That two people can look at the exact same thing and see
something totally different
I'VE LEARNED That no matter the consequences, those who are honest with
themselves get farther in life
I'VE LEARNED That no matter how many friends you have, if you are their
pillar you will feel lonely and lost at the times you need them the most
I'VE LEARNED That even when you think you have no more to give, when a
friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help
I'VE LEARNED That credentials on the wall DO NOT make you a decent human
being
I'VE LEARNED That it's hard to determine where to draw the line between
being nice and not hurting people's feelings and standing up for what you
believe
I'VE LEARNED That it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to
destroy it
I'VE LEARNED That sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.
I'VE LEARNED That money is a lousy way of keeping score
I'VE LEARNED That my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and
have the best time
I'VE LEARNED That either you control your attitude or it controls you
I'VE LEARNED That it's not what you have in your life but who you have in
your life that counts
I'VE LEARNED That you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes.
After that, you had better know something
I'VE LEARNED That it's taking me a long time to become the person I want
to be
I'VE LEARNED That you can keep going long after you think you can't
I'VE LEARNED That learning to forgive takes practice
I'VE LEARNED That writing, as well as talking, can ease emotional pains.


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Date: Fri, 3 Jul 1998 12:18:55 EDT
From: <[e-mail]>
Subject: Re: (lds-yw) new to young women

Sure you can use the Family Home Evening Manual, even the Relief Society one.
Judy in Salt Lake

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Date: Fri, 3 Jul 1998 13:22:48 EDT
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Subject: Re: (lds-yw) new to young women

A really good source for lesson material is the New Era - the topics are
timely, and it is geared for young women.  I hope you have manuals on order
though, they are invaluable!  If you can't find anyone with a New Era, check
the Ensign also.  If there is a particular subject that you are wanting to
teach on, I'm sure if you post that on this list, you will get lots of stories
and ideas to use.  GOOD LUCK!

Jennifer in CA

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Date: Fri, 3 Jul 1998 12:24:21 -0700 (PDT)
From: mission mary <[e-mail]>
Subject: Re: (lds-yw) new to young women

Thanks Judy,
 I just thought that the Relief Society and FHE books were for their
purpose only, I didn't know that you can use them for other purposes.
doesn't it show, I've never had a teaching calling before?
:)

Mary-Ellen


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> Judy in Salt Lake
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Date: Fri, 3 Jul 1998 12:26:43 -0700 (PDT)
From: mission mary <[e-mail]>
Subject: Re: (lds-yw) new to young women

Thank you Jennifer,
 My husband has recently ordered the New Era and the Enzine so they
won't be in until August. It doesn't make long we are married and it
makes just about the same time that I have this calling so you can
imaging the mess I'm in at this moment. Surely things will straighten
out soon.

Thank oyu for your help.

Mary

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> A really good source for lesson material is the New Era - the topics
are
> timely, and it is geared for young women.  I hope you have manuals
on order
> though, they are invaluable!  If you can't find anyone with a New
Era, check
> the Ensign also.  If there is a particular subject that you are
wanting to
> teach on, I'm sure if you post that on this list, you will get lots
of stories
> and ideas to use.  GOOD LUCK!
>
> Jennifer in CA
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