Michael’s mother has lived on her own for 20 years — always gregarious and flexible. Even past seventy, she’s involved in city politics, art-related projects, and the ACLU. When she visits Michael, his friends insist on spending time with her. She travels regularly, often invited on global trips for her company and knowledge. You don’t hear her complaining about discomfort or how terrible the world is today.
How do you prepare for old age and uncertainty? By being the kind of person other people want to be around. Competent, helpful, flexible, curious, generous, and experienced in dealing with the world.