Visiting: Shoes should be removed before stepping from the enclosed porch (genkan) into a Japanese-style home.
However, Western-style buildings may be entered with shoes on. After removing the shoes, place them together pointing toward the outdoors. Slippers are usually worn inside Japanese-style homes and buildings but should be removed before one enters rooms with the immaculate straw mat floors (tatami).
Japanese traditionally emphasize reserve and modesty. When offered something, one should express a slight hesitation to accept it. Guests should avoid excessive compliments on items of decor; otherwise the host may feel obligated to give the items as gifts. It is customary for guests to take a gift (usually fruit or cakes) to their host. Gifts are given and accepted with both hands and a slight bow. Deny all compliments graciously.
