All of our knowledge about herpes is useless unless couples are able to communicate. For many folks sex is somehow easier to do than to talk about. With herpes in the picture it may be even more difficult to discuss, but talking is essential. A partner who shares knowledge is a teammate. Talking about genital herpes may seem difficult if not down right impossible. Practicing with friends or in a support group can be invaluable. Getting clear on the facts about herpes and hearing about other people’s successes and duds can give you practical knowledge and help you feel more confident and relaxed. Don’t underestimate yourself or your partner. For most people and their partners, genital herpes is no big deal. If it is a problem for you, there’s help available.
