Finally—a book written by a man for men, which says what we women have been trying to tell them lo these many years—it’s not how long you make it, it’s how you make it long. Castleman, a medical journalist, uses humor, sensitivity, and thoroughness in describing how to do sex. He covers obstacles to problem-free lovemaking, ejaculation and erection problems, what turns women on and off, what to do if the woman you love gets raped, and how to develop or enhance your sensuality.
Once or twice I’ve had the pleasure of a lover who understood that sex wasn’t a job to get done, but rather a game to play. The lover always laughed at my suggestion he give courses on lovemaking to
