This is a serious question and I would prefer not to
receive harassment from wimmins libbers and / or perverts
....
In which South American country is it easiest to sleep with
the locals ?
I am NOT looking to get AIDS......I┤m just a normal full-
blooded male who┤s not afraid to admit to it .
Please help me with this matter ......
Norm.
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Oh Norm,
Norm, Norm, Norm. First of all, while it may be a serious
question, you are sitting on a web site in which the
regular attendee's don't drop a nickel on the street for
fear it will fuel the black market. This is not a good
question and I can't imagine the makers of this site were
wishing to offer themselves to the international pimps of
the world. Unfortunetly, there are sites, that, with a
little research, you could find which will give the names
of brothels in any city of the world. Of course you know
that your pursuit of orgasmic pleasures typically comes at
the expense of economically deprived, victimized women who
are typically force into this situation via a misoginist
society that robs them of spirit, worth and
dignity...utilizing rape, abuse and threats as the tools of
submission. But if pleasure of your penis takes priority
over living with a shread or moral dignity, then I am only
certain there is an entire world for you to abuse with your
testicular fortitude. Of course you are just a "normal
guy", I just wish there were less "normalicy" in this world.
d_nice
Norm,
Why don't you do yourself a favor and just stay home?
:-\
1- dnice, the guy didn't ask for prostitutes did he? So that
kindof trashes your response! (with which I agree to a
certain degree)
2- In my limited experience and from stories:
a- Brazil does have amazingly beautiful women and a loose
sex-moral
b- Colombia has nice women also
c- Bolivia has ugly women (SORRY SORRY, that's just what I
thought) Beautiful country though.
Have fun norm.
Let it be said: all the males who go to Brazil ONLY to get
laid with a nice girl they can't get at home make me sick!
(and there's loads of them), but I think having sex if you
happen to meet a nice girl while traveling is kindof
healthy, no?
If sex is a priority, I'd head for Brazil. It also happens
to be an amazing country to explore. Waw. Learn some
portuguese. (and be VERY careful for STD's!)
Touche` Peter,
He did not mention prostitutes...
But hell, why doesn't he come to the United States? You
are going to find the loosest morals amongst men or women.
It seems to me that this person is trying to take advantage
of economic prowess to get what he desires. Does he lack
the basic capacity to accomplish said task in his
homeland? Does he wish to leave no messy strings
attached? Why would anyone ever want to help him get laid?
If he wants easy-sex, go to a Mexican Border town, go to a
U.S. Spring Break hot spot, get a hooker!
I guess it is just sad that the destiny of the world he
wishes to go to is the one that will most easily get his
"wick lit". No regard for culture, experience, travel...
It is reminiscent of those that flock to Amsterdam for one
thing, drug use.
So good for you Norm!!!! GET SOME!!!! YEAH BABY!!! YEAH!!!
1- dnice, the guy didn't ask for prostitutes did he? So that
kindof trashes your response! (with which I agree to a
certain degree)
2- In my limited experience and from stories:
a- Brazil does have amazingly beautiful women and a loose
sex-moral
b- Colombia has nice women also
c- Bolivia has ugly women (SORRY SORRY, that's just what I
thought) Beautiful country though.
Have fun norm.
Let it be said: all the males who go to Brazil ONLY to get
laid with a nice girl they can't get at home make me sick!
(and there's loads of them), but I think having sex if you
happen to meet a nice girl while traveling is kindof
healthy, no?
If sex is a priority, I'd head for Brazil. It also happens
to be an amazing country to explore. Waw. Learn some
portuguese. (and be VERY careful for STD's!)
d'nice
your poetic use of the english language almost made a
crusader out of me! good thoughts though, i agree that
there seems to be a discrepency among travelers as to what
is important on ones journey. but norm does have a point
in that travel is a liberating experience in many regards
and allows a person to lose their identity for a short
period. in my mind this means that norm has a right to be
whoever he wants while he is travelling and if that includes
promiscuity among the locals then so be it.
although.....balance and judgement are key.
I am planning a 2 month trip to south america myself and
hope that i can meet a beautiful chiquita also.
however, there are other things i look forward to more than
that.
ps. i had to add to this colorful conversation.
Normal guy,
Get a life! I agree with D_Nice73, you are just useing your
economic statis to get laid. If sex isn't a problem, you
wouldn't have to travel so far to get it. Peter, what's up
with you? It is quit obvious that Normal Guy wants to
exploit the locals. You can meet nice locals just about
anywhere in the world, so why does Normal Guy have to find
the easiest spot to get laid? Answer: He's a looser! The
easiest spots to get laid are those with the worst economic
hardships! Hey Normal guy, did the date rapes at the
fraternity house finally catch up with you?
I travel all the time and have for 20 years, Norm, I can
count on one hand (less than one hand) the number of sexual
encounters I have racked up . You really will do better at
home 'ol boy. But maybe I am just a loser! Give it you best
shot norm, you may need a few shots when you get back but
who cares? OHhhhhhhhh baby, thats it, right there, oohhhhh
yeah......
There are whole web sites that will tell where to go to get
laid --and the poorer the country the easier it is...
Bur South america is a very traditional Catholic country-
so if sex is your main priority, I hear the economically
deprived countries of eastern Europe-Bulgaria and Romania
especially- are the places to go. there are lots of
desperate young women who are just hoping for a meal ticket
or a ticket out.
R.
Hey norm...you are normal...these self righteous people think that they're morals are the only right ones ought to keep their thoughts to themselves...but like the television evangelist they just know what is right & will kill you to accept their views of what should be Prostitution...whether it be selling your body for money, security, or a night out on the town...has been around since the beginning of time. I travel extensively & find sex along the way in just about every country...both paid for sex & gringas along the way....I find the local hookers to be much more fun...& less pontificating.
I do seem to have stirred up a hornet┤s nest here. I have
never used a prostitute before; why should I do so in South
America...I┤m not stupid...everybody knows about the
dangers ...finally ...what┤s wrong with sex? I do it at
home , why shouldn┤t I do it when I┤m travelling ?...and
why is it that certain naive beings assume that I┤m going
to SA just to get laid ? I asked a reasonable question and
got some absurd answers..thanks, by the way, to the guy who
recommended Brazil...and yes, I WILL be careful . Thanks
also for the advise about Bolivia ...
I agree too, that American girls are easy as hell, and
pretty easy to get, too..but I┤m not going there....
Norm.
I actually like this discussion... I hope more people
entertain what is evolving here. For or against, it seems
like a good topic to debate... though it could never reach
the fortitude of the infamous "black market" discussion.
There is morality which is born from fear and through
repetition and morality born from experience. I would like
to think mine is the latter and not a result of self-
righteousness... Though norm, you seem like you want to
expose self-righteousness... to your credit. You would
like the writings of Flannery O'Connor.
d_nice
I wonder how the South American women would feel after
reading what has been written here about them and also what
your purpose for travelling is. You've been "honest" on
the thorntree, but how honest will you be with them?
It is easy to get laid here in Brazil.
And not due to our "loose sex-moral", but because sex is good. There are also lots of beautifull brazilian girls, and some of they really like it.
If you want to pay, you'll find plenty. But I bet you can't have sex with a nice one without paying. Sorry, but brazilian penis also work here.
All this talk about sex. I thought that sex was a union
between two people that love each other! I don't find sex
with a person that could care less about you very
satisfactory. Is anybody looking for relationships
anymore??? Does commitment mean anything anymore??? Why has
nobody asked if S.A. women make good mothers or wives??!!
What about children, are any of you guys willing to care for
an infant if your condom fails??!! It is my guess that a
young woman in a poor situation will have another
responsiblty ALONE!
All this talk about sex. I thought that sex was a union
between two people that love each other! I don't find sex
with a person that could care less about you very
satisfactory. Is anybody looking for relationships
anymore??? Does commitment mean anything anymore??? Why has
nobody asked if S.A. women make good mothers or wives??!!
What about children, are any of you guys willing to care for
an infant if your condom fails??!! It is my guess that a
young woman in a poor situation will have another
responsiblty ALONE!
hey wojo have you ever thought that maybe your opinions are not held by everyone? What makes you think that love and sex are synonyms? or love and marriage...or laws and justice.???
....Don't try to force your opinions on others or try to make somebody feel bad because he/she doesn't particularly adhere to your "values"
...I've had sex with lots of women...no brag...I've just been around the world a few times...The best sex I ever had was with a hooker...stands to reason that a professional would know what tools to use and how to turn the wrenches.
....'normal guy" is just what he says he is...a normal guy...most guys look for sex in many places...and as long as they treat their consenting partner(s) with respect you shouldn't have any say in it...and what's wrong with networking with others about where to find and have safe sex?
.... what's the point of travelling if you are not looking
for girls in every country....? I think the best two
countries in SA are Colombia and Brazil ( be careful with
nice looking girls with strong voice , big hands and small
bumps walking down Ipanema ).
Why do people think in prostitutes... ? Of course there are
many like every where else. SA women are hot and they
enjoy sex... you don't screw them.... they screw you...!
.... what's the point of travelling if you are not looking
for girls in every country....? I think the best two
countries in SA are Colombia and Brazil ( be careful with
nice looking girls with strong voice , big hands and small
bumps walking down Ipanema ).
Why do people think in prostitutes... ? Of course there are
many like every where else. SA women are hot and they
enjoy sex... you don't screw them.... they screw you...!
Unfortunately you really are a "normal guy" in asking stupid questions like this and being plain horny and a dog.
normal guy...stay a normal guy looking for normal girls...beware of guy haters with knives...especilly if their name is bobbit.
its funny to see that "stupid blond" can also works for
guys.
and yes, in brazil the girls look GREAT n sexy, as well as
their moms, as the little girls, and even guys
(transvestites). unfortunatly for normal guy, i bet he wont
be able to do any of those... but we do have some dogs here
too... he might get lucky
.......although I note with approval that Colombia and
Brazil seem to be most popular places.I shall certainly bear
that in mind...I am most grateful for the advice on
prostitutes. Never used one probably due fear of AIDS but
some of the messages above seem to suggest that it┤s fun.
Thanks a lot guys....
Prostitutes have been around for a long time...& legal or not they'll always be there...must be a reason for that normal guy...as for getting aids...doesn't matter whether it's a hooker or not and it's easier for a girl to aids from a guy rather than the other way around. either way always take precautions with any kind of sex envolving more than one person in any country.
How about the women in New Orleans...now theres some whores.
Oh, yeah...mine is a hundred gallons.
any hints on how to smuggle dogs in from South America. I am
extremely interested in this one sort of border town breed.
It has a very Dr. Suessian look to it. I plan to paint them
blue and sell them on the internet.
thanks,
GTB
hey GTBarney...
Are you off your medication or something?
this is actually a psuedo serious discussion on an issue of
morality and formality in foreign travel. I hope you might
bring something more than your mixed cliches and fish tank
fantasies. You are invited to join us in what seems to be
a rather interesting dialogue on the topic of sexual
conduct/misconduct in travel.
New Orleans is beautiful by the way.
d_nice
Hope you will take a bag of condoms with you.
Also, 2 of my male friends went to Brazil for fun, and they
came back with brazillian wives.
So, you never know, you may just get very lucky!!!
relax everyone above. he enjoys sex, its not the worst
thing in the world (if done with caution). and dont forget
that woman like sex too.
Miserable... that hurts.
How funny is this ? D_nice, I have to say I really love your
comments.
A very nice discussion this is.
Norm, I do hope though I won't bump into you on one of your
"excursions". Man, seriously.......
Why would you even bother to travel around if the only thing
you are really interested in is plain sex ? Just let it
happen and don't be so obsessed about it.
Or just take dhm's advice !
Hey marg I don't say anything negative to you or to anyone else...other than to just mind your own morals. who says sex is all that normal guy or I want...it's just one of the many things we like to experience whether we're on the road or not.
Your comments were like a breath of fresh air compared to
the tight- assed, holier -than- thou preachers that have
been cluttering this post with their dogmatic
generalisations.
Sex is not the reason I┤m going to SA but I do it at home
and expect to do it there as well. I┤M not the one who
introduced all this bullshit about prostitution, marriage,
rape etc.
Any more tips would be welcome. By the way, who let that
guy GTBarney out of his cage ?
( still) Normal guy
Normal guy,
Hey there, I'm not trying to push my morals on anyone. I
think I'm about as laid back as one can be. My words were
pretty harsh, I'm sorry. I just don't like to hear about
women in developing countries getting diseases or pregnent
w/gringo babies to raise by themselves. By all means have
sex if you meet someone, just be respectful and use
protection.
Todd...please re-read your previous text and tell us you weren't being a wee bit judgmental....and then calling a guy a loser just because he made a little locker room inquiry...
No problem normal guy, this is a normal question and I give
you normal answer.
Go to Peru, especially Iquitos and Lima.
Forget about Argentina, too much snob women there.
Good luck.
I'm sad to hear that foreigners have us, SA women in such a low concept. I hate the fact that when a woman likes to enjoy sex she is held as "easy" while when a man likes to enjoy it it is considered, manly, "normal", etc. In other words I dislike the double standard that some people in this topic use to label people. Negative labels for women, if they do anything formerly thought as men's exclusive behavior, and no negative labels for men even if their actions are not good.
Why don't you all give us a break, and stop all that prevention stuff about interpersonal relationships with locals. Hasn't it occurred to you that locals may be curious about how is it like to do it with a foreigner?