Just a country girl at heart

If you read my last column you will already know that I've moved house. What I haven't told you yet is that I've moved from living in the country, from the middle of nowhere, to living in a city. (It's just a temporary move until I move back to the country when the new house is ready). I thought I liked living in the country. I thought the sheep who woke me up on a morning with their baa- ing were cute. I thought the lack of noise and low volume of traffic was peaceful, the neighbours friendly. But after living in the city for just 2 weeks I feel like I have been plunged into a pool of icy cool water, I'm alive with excitement. The noise, the people, the cars, the noise, the shops, the traffic, the noise, non stop. I now live just off a busy road with pubs and shops and it's great to be able to walk out on an evening and sit outside the pub on the tree fringed patio, watching interesting people live their lives in the city. Men in suits come in the pub after work, women in dresses start heading in early evening and it's both fascinating and scary to sit and watch the world go by, the fast food take-aways opening up for all-night business, the cry of a car alarm as it's window is smashed, a car radio stolen.

I have 2 dogs, who, in the country are allowed to run free over fields and riverbanks and I was concerned that there wouldn't be anywhere dog-friendly in the city that I could walk them. It was with a sigh of relief then that I found the most wonderful city centre park only 2 minutes walk from my house. It has everything a good urban piece of greenery should have, including a great duck pond where the ducklings eagerly await my daily visit with scraps of bread for them to suck down their dirt engrained necks. Of course, the dogs stay firmly on the lead. It seems that city folk aren't too pleased when 2 large and friendly dogs come bounding up to them for a hug. The park is huge, with all kinds of play areas for children and woodland walks passing by landscaped areas and flower beds. Great fun in the daytime, but a no- go area at night.

I don't yet miss the country living I've been used to for so long, I'm still too in awe of things going on around me to want back the open spaces and the greenery just yet. What I do miss are the people, my neighbours from the old house. In the city, people don't seem so friendly, life is more anonymous, people come, people go. Driving to work each morning is chaos. I have to weave through lanes of angry traffic, merge with vicious lorries and vans instead of the leisurely, picturesque drive along one country lane that I'm used to. In the country, you can stop and take a breath of fresh air, chat with a walker, talk about the weather, the cows, the sheep, the city. But it won't be for long, this city living thing. I'll be back in the country in a couple of months, breathing in the smell of cow dung, being woken at 6.30am by the baa-ing and the crowing when I'd rather sleep on for at least another hour. I only hope that it doesn't all seem too quiet, too boring for me on my return after life in the city. But then again, I know I would much rather hear the squeaks and barks of farm animals first thing on a morning than the clatter of smashed glass from a car window being broken!


Glenda Young is also the writer of the weekly Coronation Street Update on the net, and can be contacted at:

glenda@londonmall.co.uk

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