$Unique_ID{BRK01902} $Pretitle{} $Title{Breast Surgery: When is it Necessary to Take it All?} $Subject{Breast breasts Surgery surgeries operate operation operations cancer cancers cancerous procedure procedures reason reasons tumor tumors calcification calcifications X-ray x-rays large pendulous information consult consultation consultations} $Volume{} $Log{ Anatomy of the Breast*0002601.scf Anatomy of the Female Chest*0005301.scf Simple Mastectomy*0005302.scf Modified Radical Mastectomy*0005303.scf Standard Radical Mastectomy*0005304.scf} Copyright (c) 1993 Tribune Media Services, Inc. Breast Surgery: When is it Necessary to Take it All? ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ QUESTION: My mother has been diagnosed with breast cancer, and is to have breast surgery. When I asked what type of operation was to be done she told me the doctor was going to take off her whole breast. Aren't there less disfiguring procedures that can be used? I don't think she stands up to the doctor very well, and want to know what I can do to be sure that she is properly cared for. We live too far away to travel home. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ ANSWER: You have every right to call the physician or surgeon to discuss this on behalf of your Mother, if you feel that she is intimidated by the white coat. You might find her quite relieved that you are taking on this responsibility if she frightened by this operation, and anxious about all its details. And who wouldn't be! You may only get to a nurse with your first call. Leave all the information about yourself with her, and provide both a number and time that you are sure to be home to take the doctor's call. Ask whether he maintains a "telephone hour" to take questions, and you might want to call him back then. When you do speak, make sure to take complete notes. Your mother will require a word for word accounting, and you must be prepared. You must realize that there are some very valid reasons for not selecting a procedure that spares more of the breast. They include: a tumor that is too large to permit a surgical excision that permits saving a portion of the breast, the presence of more than one tumor in different areas within the breast, suspicious calcifications seen on X-ray spread widely within all parts of the breast, and very large or pendulous breast. The surgeon will be more comfortable sharing this information with you if he feels you are capable of telling your mother without provoking additional anxiety. Ask his advice on how this might be done, so that you are both giving Mother the same information. A clear thinking daughter can be a most precious colleague to a doctor with a sensitive patient. You can play this essential role even if distance separates you from home during these trying times, and make the experience more endurable for your Mother. ---------------- The material contained here is "FOR INFORMATION ONLY" and should not replace the counsel and advice of your personal physician. Promptly consulting your doctor is the best path to a quick and successful resolution of any medical problem.