$Unique_ID{BRK00979} $Pretitle{} $Title{Advice About Declining Sexual Ability} $Subject{sex impotence age aging behavior behaviors lifestyle lifestyles impotence erection sexual dysfunction prescription medications alcohol illegal drugs marijuana cocaine amphetamines narcotics prescriptions medication} $Volume{T-23} $Log{} Copyright (c) 1991-92,1993 Tribune Media Services, Inc. Advice About Declining Sexual Ability ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ QUESTION: I have a question of a rather delicate nature, that I would find too embarrassing to ask my personal physician about. Though not an old man by today's standards, I find my sexual ability declining. I know my wife would appreciate more attention, but don't know what to do about my situation. I am hoping you may provide some advice in your column. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ ANSWER: I am always a bit disheartened when I learn that someone feels restrained in discussing an intimate problem with a physician. It means that the relationship is faulty at a time when it is most needed to help with a problem that is not easy to correct. While I am happy to offer you some insight, I truly hope that you will continue your search for a solution with the consultation and advice that only a personal family physician can offer. Your problem is not a rare one for impotence, defined as the inability to achieve and maintain an erection adequate for vaginal penetration to the mutual satisfaction of both partners, is one of the most common forms of sexual dysfunction. In one form or another it may be a problem for more than 20 million American men. It may be either a physical or mental problem. One of the most easily remedied causes of impotence stems from the unwanted side effects of many prescription medications. Antianxiety, antidepressant and antipsychotic medications, sedatives, some blood pressure medications, as well as medication used for stomach ulcers and epilepsy must be included in the long list of prescription medications that may be causing your situation. Review any medication you are now on with your physician, as changing or altering dosages may lead to a remedy. Of course, alcohol, illegal drugs; marijuana, cocaine, amphetamines, narcotics and yes, nicotine may all be the culprit. The presence of an erection (nocturnal penile tumescence) is an indication that the patient is physically capable of a normal erection, and may be discovered by using one of a number of home monitors which are now available. You are also entitled to a complete physical examination, and laboratory workup to assist in determining the reasons for your problem. There are many causes for impotence, and it is not a condition that is either all black or all white. Many new effective techniques and treatments now exist, but you will only discover which is best for you by confiding your problem to you doctor. ---------------- The material contained here is "FOR INFORMATION ONLY" and should not replace the counsel and advice of your personal physician. Promptly consulting your doctor is the best path to a quick and successful resolution of any medical problem.