$Unique_ID{BRK00804} $Pretitle{} $Title{How Can a Parent Tell if a Child is on Cocaine?} $Subject{cocaine teen teens teenager teenagers Community Social grooming sleep pattern friends school attendance drop grades child care behavior behaviors} $Volume{Q-23,S-23} $Log{} Copyright (c) 1991-92,1993 Tribune Media Services, Inc. How Can a Parent Tell if a Child is on Cocaine? ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ QUESTION: Please help a distressed parent. I fear that my kid is on cocaine. How can I tell and what can I do about it? ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ ANSWER: Cocaine is unfortunately widely available in our society and teenagers have access to it either as powder for snorting or as crack for smoking. You are right to feel worried. If you suspect your child is abusing cocaine, the major warning signal is change: change in appearance or grooming; change in sleep pattern; change in friends; change in school attendance; or change (usually a drop) in grades. More serious signs are running away from home or suicide attempts. There are three "stages" of drug abuse. In the experimentation stage, your child may have used cocaine in a limited fashion on weekends and there may be no change in behavior or conduct. The second stage is actively seeking out drugs, when the drug user may turn to drugs during times of stress and there may be a change in behavior or conduct. In the third stage, the user is preoccupied with drugs and has lost control over them. If drug use is stopped now, withdrawal symptoms occur. At this point, a user may start stealing in order to get drug money. Bear in mind that your child may be experimenting and may not be addicted to cocaine. However, even limited smoking of crack can quickly lead to dependence and must be stopped. Teenagers also run the risk of interfering with normal growth by using drugs. The next step is for you to take action, sometimes a most difficult task. The first thing to do is talk WITH your child (as contrasted to talking TO your child). Build your child's self-esteem and give advice without frequent criticism. If talking with your child is a problem, get outside help. Your Family Physician or a school guidance counselor can advise you and your child. ---------------- The material contained here is "FOR INFORMATION ONLY" and should not replace the counsel and advice of your personal physician. Promptly consulting your doctor is the best path to a quick and successful resolution of any medical problem.