$Unique_ID{BRK00760} $Pretitle{} $Title{Can a Parent Know if Their Teenager is Using Marijuana?} $Subject{smoke marijuana smoking effects Community Social child care withdrawal irritability academic performance Changes friends diminishing memory drug abuse} $Volume{Q-23,S-23} $Log{} Copyright (c) 1991-92,1993 Tribune Media Services, Inc. Can a Parent Know if Their Teenager is Using Marijuana? ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ QUESTION: I have read your frequent answers about cocaine and other substance abuse, but I have never seen anything in your column about marijuana. Does that mean you approve? Is there any way a concerned parent can figure out if their teenager is using this drug? ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ ANSWER: I most certainly do not approve of the use of marijuana, any other drug, or even medications in an abusive fashion. I think you know that but were just prodding me a bit so that I would include the answer to the rest of your question in my column. And I bit, so here goes. Watch your teenager closely for signs of withdrawal from usual social activity and increased irritability. Is school work slacking off, with academic performance dropping? Noticed any reduced control, as seen in actions that might increase the risk of bodily injury or recent fall-ins with the law because of driving infractions or other car accidents? These may be the first clues that something is amiss. Changes in friends, with the old standbys disappearing while newer faces take their places, might indicate that your youngster is now in with the "wrong crowd". If his memory for recent events is diminishing and you sense that his thinking processes are changing, and giving way to a lackadaisical attitude, it may be time for you to take some action. Your family physician may assist and aid you with some specific tests to confirm suspicions, with the proper handling and referral for treatment, of a situation that you may not be able to deal with yourself. Stay calm but remain firm in your resolution to do something about it, if your suspicions can be confirmed. ---------------- The material contained here is "FOR INFORMATION ONLY" and should not replace the counsel and advice of your personal physician. Promptly consulting your doctor is the best path to a quick and successful resolution of any medical problem.