$Unique_ID{BRK00392} $Pretitle{} $Title{Changes in Sexual Desire Following Hysterectomy} $Subject{hysterectomy libido sex special procedure procedures Genitourinary physical emotional sexual intercourse hormone replacement vaginal secretion secretions anxiety lifestyle lifestyles behavior behaviors hysterectomies} $Volume{P-14, J-23} $Log{ Hysterectomy*0008600.tid Total Hysterectomy*0008601.scf Partial Hysterectomy*0008602.scf} Copyright (c) 1991-92,1993 Tribune Media Services, Inc. Changes in Sexual Desire Following Hysterectomy ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ QUESTION: It's not something I feel I can discuss with my doctor, but a recent hysterectomy has brought about some unwanted and unexpected changes in my sexual desire. All my previous feelings have changed, and I am afraid I have become a wife with a perpetual "headache". Is this a normal result of my surgery, or can I be helped? ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ ANSWER: It is neither a "normal result" nor one you have to accept, for help was only a conversation away, if you had but consulted with your physician. It's not that this situation is unusual, for surgery of this type has both a physical as well as an emotional impact upon your life, but there are no lasting effects that must discourage you from your normal fulfillment. To be sure, intercourse may be painful if wound healing is not complete, and should await your follow up visit with your surgeon. Even if you had your ovaries removed, hormone replacement can restore normal vaginal secretions. You need reassurance and the knowledge that this operation is not the end of your sexual life. Many deeply entrenched myths surround this surgery, including the one that normal relations are no longer possible. Even husbands may feel strange if not afforded the opportunity to express fears and doubts. You both need an opportunity to open up and discuss your feelings. Both you and your husband are entitled to a real sit down session with your doctor, who can provide you with the answers to relieve your anxiety and end your headaches, if you will only reveal your problem and request the needed counseling session. ---------------- The material contained here is "FOR INFORMATION ONLY" and should not replace the counsel and advice of your personal physician. Promptly consulting your doctor is the best path to a quick and successful resolution of any medical problem.