$Unique_ID{BRK00169} $Pretitle{} $Title{Can Punishment Bring on Asthma Attacks?} $Subject{asthma child discipline Respiratory System pulmonary Punishment Attack Attacks wheezing stress frustrating frightening upsetting emotional asthmatic asthmatics disciplinary wheeze frustrated frightened upset} $Volume{H-23,S-5} $Log{} Copyright (c) 1991-92,1993 Tribune Media Services, Inc. Can Punishment Bring on Asthma Attacks? ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ QUESTION: I'm having a lot of trouble disciplining my asthmatic daughter. Every time she is being punished, she begins wheezing, and I'm afraid she'll have a full blown attack, so I let her get away with what she's done. Does the stress of punishment actually bring on asthma attacks? What can I do? My other children get jealous because Nancy gets away with so much. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ ANSWER: It's true that any extremely frustrating, frightening or upsetting situation may trigger some wheezing in the asthmatic child. But discipline is essential for any child. Start by having a good heart to heart chat with Nancy. Explain that you love her, but that everyone, including children, must live by certain rules. When we don't, we must accept the consequences. Many asthmatic children suffer from added emotional problems. They may be afraid of dying. They often suffer from feelings of inferiority because they can't compete in some activities or because of repeated absences from school. These emotional problems may lead to depression. If you can't regain control of the discipline problem, I strongly suggest seeing a psychologist or social worker to help you and Nancy. Also, check to make sure that your daughter is taking her medication when she is being corrected. Some children purposely skip medication while "grounded", knowing full well it'll spur symptoms. It's their way of getting back at concerned parents. ---------------- The material contained here is "FOR INFORMATION ONLY" and should not replace the counsel and advice of your personal physician. Promptly consulting your doctor is the best path to a quick and successful resolution of any medical problem.