
Pretty Voice, Pretty Hands, Pretty You
By Barbara Satin and Becky
Some of TGF's prettiest readers have agreed to share with us their favorite style, beauty and "how-to" tips. This week features ideas from Barbie Satin, a very unusual and sweet person from New York who has a Personal Ad here at TGF. Our second featured writer is Becky, who lives in Dallas, TX and also has a Personal Ad. Say hello to both these wonderful ladies.
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Barbie:
Well girl you spent hours on your hair and make up, put on that $300 leather dress and pulled the corset strings until breathing was impossible, but of course looking hot is more important. You pull on the thigh high boots with the six inch heels, Take a last look in the mirror and think to yourself WOW I look hot, and head out to a TG friendly club.
You get to the club and make eye contact with the man, woman or sister of your dreams. You walk over to say hello and out comes the voice of a truck driver. The magic and your dream date are gone.
I have had this happen to me when meeting a sister with a masculine voice, it just destroys the chemistry. If you are willing to spend hours on the look why not go for the complete package. I work as a dominatrix in NYC and sometimes answer the phones where I work. If a man calls and hears a masculine voice he hangs up. After three years of hard work I have it down to the point where the caller not only believes my voice they ask if I am available because I sound so sexy.
The first thing you will need is a tape recorder to hear yourself and make corrections. The biggest mistake is to try to talk in a high voice, it just sounds phony. When a woman speaks she pronounces her words slowly and carefully, all of the consonants are crisp. Men on the other hand are sloppy in their speech. Listen to women and mimic the voice that you find sexy. A deep voice can still be very feminine if you add a quality of breathiness to it. A good way to practice and get feedback is to play with telemarketers, when they ask to speak to the lady of the house go and get her, after all it is you! When you can no longer be "read" on the phone you are ready for the real world.
If any sisters have questions about voice or just want to say hello ,You are very welcome to send me mail.
Barbie
Becky:
As a TGirl I wanted to find a solution to having pretty nails.
I used
the press on nails at first. They stay on using a glue which is like
superglue. After you remove the nails the glue is still there. I never
was able to find anything that removed the glue.The only way
I could get the glue off was to scrape it off. This also removed layers of
my nails and soon I had ugly looking regular nails. Plus the press on's would come
off with just a small amout of pressure when you didn't want them to.
I found the real solution to this is to find a T* friendly nail manicurist.
Have them apply an overlay which is very hard and will not come off. Have the
nails filed down to a reasonable level you can live with as both a T*girl
and your other self. You will be more than satisfied with the results.
If asked
from friends or workers- simply explain you enjoy having manicured nails
and hate the greasy mechanic look. A lot of men have manicures so they will not
think anything about it, provided they are not too long and look femme. When
you want to go out simply paint them your favorite color. Have them filled
every few weeks and you will have great looking nails as both a male and as a TGirl..
Becky
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