You are not alone... whether or not you are gay remains to be seen. Are you corny?
No, not at all. I would recommend that you move forward to bring your body and mind
in sync. I boldly make this recommendation, as I know that you will have to go through
three months of psychotherapy and live as a woman for at least a year before all this
can happen. It will cost you around $15K(+)(-) for the surgery alone... even if your
psychiatrist okays it.
You may find, during therapy that you really are not TS, but TG, or even TV and that
is okay; at least you will know and that is what it is all about.
CAUTION, Caution!! Do not date men if they believe that you are a real woman when
you are not. Wait 'til after surgery. To date under a false pretense is asking for
trouble... it may even be fatal. The tabloids are full of murders of pre-op TS's
who fooled their dates and were killed. So, you say that before it becomes "hot and heavy" you
will tell? That does not cut it. The chances that you will find a male who understands
and will "wait" are slim to never.
Even after SRS, I advise the new-women to tell their serious dates soon in the relationship.
Honesty wins always.
Rachael