
Achieving Natural Beauty
By Toni A. Evola
Some of TGF's prettiest readers have agreed to share with us their favorite style, beauty and "how-to" tips. This week features ideas from Toni Evola, a lovely person from California who has a Personal Ad here at TGF.
When I was approached by Cindy to write an article for TG Forum, providing transgendered womyn with a handy assortment of makeup tips, fashion dos and don'ts, and hints on how to accessorize; I immediately began dragging out (no pun intended) the same well worn beauty clichés we've all heard a thousand or more times. Realizing this, I took a long look in the full-length mirror and asked myself, "What is the single most important factor in eliciting comments from friends, family, and partners like, 'You look incredible! What's your secret?'" The answer became apparent almost immediately, "The ability to pull off the natural look."
So, what is the "Natural Look?" The Natural Look is first and foremost YOU. It is always a mistake to try to reinvent the wheel or turn back the clock on styles you wore when you were twenty years younger. Be yourself! If you are fifty-five years old, then dress appropriately. Don't try to wear a super-mini or a hip hugging body suit. Stick to the classics and styles that are timeless. If you are in your twenties and you have great skin, then don't apply make-up with a putty knife. If you have had electrolysis, go without foundation or concealing cream. If you still have to shave, then use and electric razor that is less damaging to the skin, select make-up that matches your skin tone, and always remember that less is more. Stay away from fad lip colors and crazy nail polish.
When it comes to clothing, be cognizant of your body shape. If you are a bit over weight, don't wear stirrup pants and t-shirts. Look for clothing that flatters your figure and hides unwanted tummy bulges or lines. If your figure is straight and you are thin, don't wear styles cut to accentuate the hips. Look for straight lines and tailored fits. Also, the tall woman should stick to flats or low heels. Don't exaggerate your height with tacky, five inch stilettos.
Be careful when selecting accessories. Again, less is more. Purchase a few pieces that reflect your personality. Do not choose anything that attracts unwanted attention. Be modest and classy. Do not mix gold and silver. Wear jewelry that is not too loose, but does not cut off the circulation. If you are tall or have big hands, select jewelry that makes your large features seem smaller.
Finally, remember to have fun. Following a few or all of the standards above will hopefully lead you to wonderful comments visited on you by complete strangers and those who love you most.
Toni
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