 Leather and Lace
By Diane Kaye
My odyssey in the alternative world
continues. Once in the gender community, I found the urge to explore
very strong. People that I used to believe were very strange,
I now find very pleasant. Simply because their lifestyle doesn't
fall into the norm, shouldn't banish them from society. In fact,
they tend to be much nicer than average. I suppose that
is because they don't carry all of the baggage that the "pure straights"
do.
I'd been talking to my friend Candice at the monthly meetings about her
escapades. She has gotten into the bondage and discipline scene and has a mistress. Her
tales sounded quite intriguing, so I asked her if she would take
me along some time. She loves to shop, so I suggested that we check
out all the thrift stores in my area, and then go out to one of
her BDSM places. We ended up getting several evening dresses at
a great savings. When you shop at a good thrift store, you can
find real bargains. Many times you find cloths that appear to
have never been worn! For $20, I got three dresses for evenings,
a pair of stretch slacks, a blazer, a red half slip, and a leather
mini (I couldn't resist it.) Having only read about these clubs, I was
not sure it would be something I would like. However, being the adventurous
type, I was willing to try anything - once. We called ahead and made our reservation.
I decided to wear one of the dresses I just bought. It was a leopard print, and kind of sexy.
Under it I wore all black lingerie. It included, thigh highs, a body suite, and of course
black heels. (Good for the BDSM scene.) Candice wore her zip-up
leather halter dress, black bra and panties. With directions, we
arrived without getting lost. The folks who run it gave us a tour
and a set of rules. As it turned out, Candice had not been to this
place before either. We chatted with some of the people there,
and found them to be quite nice, not at all what I had expected.
One fellow offered to show us his toys that he made. After the
"show and tell", he asked if we wanted to play. Candice immediately
jumped at the opportunity. Now, this is were passing is put to
the test. You won't be able to pull it off all the time, but it
is a challenge. With some finesse, one can pull it off. A waist
nipper, a great tuck job, and well concealed breast forms does
help. Thong panties are preferred, for obvious reasons. Candice,
being more experienced, knew how to dress. I do better with a
dress on top. However, I've figured out how to dress the next
time. He tried out his whip assortment on her. She really
liked it. As I watched, I found that it was a real turn on for me as well. I
think he didn't realize who we were until much later. But he was
very nice. When he was finished, we both gave him a hug of thanks.
After that, I decided to try my "hand" at some play.
Needless to say, it was fun. Now remember girls, one must
be careful and always practice safe sex.
Ah yes, the movies really do screw up our notions about people.
We watched some other groups at play. One group of three gals were
playing out a role. I could tell by their expressions that they were
having the time of their life. There is no requirement for participation,
only quiet while observing. It was very respectful, nothing was done
that was not wanted. No forcing or unsafe activities. Every one
was having fun. They didn't seem to mind a couple of crossdressers
participating at all. Being our first time at this place, I did
not expect a lot of interaction, but what we got was nice. In
this kind of environment, no matter how well you pass, there is
a point where you will get "read". You can't hide everything
all the time!
After a couple of hours of observing and participating,
we decided to call it a night. Our conversation at home was about
the whole scene and the different clubs in the area. It turns
out that there are probably a half dozen clubs plus private parties.
Once you are known, you are invited to more activities. Candice likes to
be the submissive. I think I'm more a dominant. While I wouldn't want to become
totally involved it the leather scene, it can be fun. Who knows maybe this girl
will try it again some day. Hmm, Diane in black leather clothes?
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