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This Is Our Way

By Susan, Stefi's Wife


I just thought you might be interested in my relationship.

When my (now) husband and I first met, I fell in love with him as a person--not specifically with him as a male. He was warm, funny, friendly, intelligent, sensitive, and well-read: a combination of qualities of which I was un-used to finding in a man.

After several months of dating, I found out why; He told me one evening that he was clinically diagnosed as gender-dysphoric and that, in view of the fact that he was in love with me, he felt a need to "confess."

I believe I shocked him when I told him that there was no need to confess since I considered it to be an enhancement rather than a liability, and--further--I relished the thought of him putting his "maleness" behind him, where it belonged.

I won't bore you with details but, ultimately, here is where our life has evolved.

"Stefi" is totally submissive to me in every way now. She waits on me hand and foot, keeps the house, and serves as my secretary. I am now the President of the business she established a couple of years ago (which is run from our house) since she recognizes and defers to my superior intellect, communication skills, and emotional capacities.

She is required to constantly wear revealing, tight-fitting (uncomfortable) slut clothing, in combination with ultra-high spike heels, all day long so as to impress upon her the discomfort and humiliation which we've had to endure in the past, in order to ascribe to male-imposed standards of "desirability."

I have used standard S-R-R psychology to modify her thinking and her sexuality.As a result, the normal male urge to initiate and "take" sexual gratification has been totally removed from her psyche; Instead, she now feels only a desire serve me and appeal to my tastes in order to satiate her desires.

I should point out that when it is socially required (meeting with former friends or family) she is permitted to appear as a male--but only a very submissive one. My friends are absolutely amazed at how attentive and submissive "he" is in attending to my needs. An interesting side point: stefi has warn the spikes for so long now that her calf muscles have retracted and her back now arches inward. As a result, even when she does appear as a male, her little tush sticks out in back, her tiny breasts thrust forward, and she can only take short, mincing steps, coming alighting on her toes rather than her heels. It is so amusing to watch her in public now, when she does go out as a male, since it is increasing apparent by her movement that "he" is a feminized sissy.

In any case, my relationship with Stefi is not one I would recommend to everyone but, for my purposes, I have everything I could want.

Love,

Susan


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