Questions from Female-to-Male Transsexuals and Transgendered and Questioning Females

 

You have questions,

we have answers.

 

The Gender Identity Center of Colorado

provides help, support and information

for transgendered or questioning

females.

 

by Matthew Kailey


What does it mean to be a transgendered female?

A transgendered female is a person born female, who identifies full or part-time as a male or questions the correctness of her birth gender. A great deal of attention has been paid to transgendered males, especially to well-known male-to-female transsexuals such as Christine Jorgenson and Renee Richards. It is sometimes difficult for the transgendered female to identify with the media images of transgenderism, since they tend to be TG and TS male-to-females. There are thousands of TG females in this country ranging from those who have had complete gender reassignment with hormones and surgery to those who simply feel most comfortable emulating the clothing, mannerisms and lifestyle of males.

Is a tomboy a transgendered female?

Sometimes. There are many girls who were tomboys as children who are quite comfortable being female and have no desire to identify as a male. Many, but not all, transgendered females were tomboys when growing up, preferring boys' games and wanting to be one of the guys. Some were quite feminine and preferred traditional female activities, while others participated in a mixture of activities.

Are transgendered females lesbians?

Some TG females identify as lesbians. However, most lesbians are not transgendered. The majority of lesbians are happy with their birth gender and do not want to be male. A TG female, regardless of her sexual orientation, is one who is uncomfortable with or questions the correctness of her birth gender. She does not feel at home in her female body and desires to identify as a male, either full or part-time. Some TG females are sexually attracted to women, some to men. Most TG females, regardless of their sexual orientation, desire to be male in their relationships with others.

What options are available for transgendered females?

There are many options, ranging from hormone therapy and surgery to simply living a lifestyle that is congruent with the gender identity. All options should be explored with a qualified therapist.

What help is available?

The Gender Identity Center provides support, education and outreach for transgendered and questioning females. A monthly support group is available, as is information and referral to doctors and therapists. The Center maintains strict confidentiality guidelines.

Remember, you are not alone.

There are others who share your feelings and your experiences and want to help. At the Gender Identity Center, you will meet compassionate, caring people who understand what you are going through. You will find support, friendship and help for yourself, and, if you choose, for your loved ones. For more information on female-to-male transgenderism or other issues with regard to gender identity, contact the GIC.