Tennessee Vals Information

Who are we?

The Tennessee Vals are a open social and support group for persons discovering who they are in terms of gender. The Vals offer a safe, confidential atmosphere for the transgendered, their loved ones and friends. The group is open to all genetic males and females who identify themselves as crossdressers, transsexuals or transgenderists, whether gay or straight, bisexual or asexual. You will find no individuals in the group that use it for inappropriate sexual behavior.


What is our purpose?

We are here to help each other in acceptance of ourselves and others like us. If you or a friend or loved one is facing a transgendered issue in your life, you are welcome to join us in our meetings. We frequently will have presentations of interest to our group members (helping professionals, persons who will help with appearance, or group members themselves). The meetings also have plenty of socialization where the members can share their problems, fears, hopes and aspirations and seek advice, feedback and gain a greater understanding of themself with the help of others.

Whether you are seeking self-acceptance as a cross-dresser, trying to find the correct spot in the transgendered spectrum or looking towards a complete transition from one gender to another, Vals members have been down the same pathway and can help you in your journey. This sharing of experiences is what Vals members find so comforting and valuable.

All Tennessee Vals meetings are in a secure place and you have the right to remain anonymous if you desire. Potential new members are encouraged to call or write for a personal contact with one of the Vals directors to assure their motives for contacting the group are legitimate. We do this for the protection and safety of everyone concerned.

So please join us in our welcoming community in Nashville. We have members from all over the state of Tennessee and all surrounding states.


How do I dress?

Any way you want to dress is fine with the group. Some will come dressed completely as their chosen gender and others will just show up as their birth gender. It's entirely up to you. The Vals do have private dressing rooms at our meeting place where a person can change if he or she has that need. There is no pressure to dress either way and you are welcome no matter what.

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What can I expect?

The Tennessee Vals are comprised of friendly people from all walks of life that enjoy each other's company and our shared experiences. We often will take off together after the meeting for further socialization at restaurants and clubs.

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When do we meet?

Group meetings are the second Saturday of each month, typically from around 7pm to 10pm. You will be provided a schedule of meetings and events when you contact the Vals. The meeting place is in a secure location away from public view so don't be concerned about getting in or out without incident.

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Are there any fees?

The Tennessee Vals is a non-profit organization and members support the group financially by a minimal meeting charge to pay for outreach and communication. The fees also pays for subscriptions to our monthly newsletter. For more details, contact the Vals. No one facing economic hardship will be turned away.


I'm still not sure...

That first step out into the community can be a scary one and that's perfectly normal. We have all been through that first crucial step. You have NOTHING to fear or be ashamed of, and you have everything to gain by joining us. Let us help you in your transgendered journey.

Call, write or email...


Tennessee Vals
P.O. Box 92335
Nashville, TN 37209
(615) 664-6883
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Tennessee Vals Standards of Conduct

  • No member should reveal the location of general or board meetings unless authorized to do so by the board. If asked for such information, a member should direct the inquirer to the organization's address (P.O. Box 92335, Nashville, TN 37209-2335) or phone number (615-664-6883)
  • No member should make false, misleading or malicious statements about the organization or its members in any public or private forum or to the media.
  • It is expected that all members will respect the identity and confidentiality of all others. Members can divulge whatever information about themselves they deem pertinent.
  • If a member obtains personal information about another member either directly or indirectly, this information is not to be divulged to others without the expressed permission of the person in question.
  • If a member obtains a phone number of another member, that person is expected to respect the other person's schedule and use whatever name is appropriate.
  • Upon meeting another person in a public situation, respect of that other person's confidentiality is to be expected. The best policy is never to accost another member outside a meeting unless some prior understanding exists.
  • Members are expected to conduct themselves with decorum. Lewd, obscene, intoxicated, demanding, threatening or embarrassing behavior will not be tolerated and the person will be asked to leave.
  • No alcohol, illegal drugs or tobacco use is permitted during meetings. Smokers may do so outside the meeting site.
  • If a presenter wishes to not be listed, their wishes shall be respected and no listing or referral of that presenter shall be made by members to non-members.
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