How do I get past that second woman in the village?

Hint 1 of 5:

She really hates men -- whatever you want to call them.

Hint 2 of 5:

The only choice you have is to become a woman.

Hint 3 of 5:

Have you noticed the "subtitle" of the game -- Cosmic Gender Bender?

Hint 4 of 5:

Well, you need to find that item to get past the woman.

Hint 5 of 5:

You will find the Gender Bender later.  Use it to turn into a woman.