1. Thinking about what you've read in this chapter, what might you say or do for Hailley?

2. How do social comparisons affect her view of the relationship with Dan?

3. Can you think of ways that you might be a constructive looking glass self for Hailley?

4. What could you do to help create a context that would foster positive change in Hailley's self-concept?

5. What would it mean to be an upper for Hailley right now? How could you communicate with her to be an upper in her life without endorsing her relationship with Dan?